Le misebenzi e luncedo

Ngaba uye wakha wacinga malunga nendlela efanelekileyo yokuphila kunye nempilo yakho ? Ngaba utshaya? Kulungile, kodwa ngaba unayo imikhwa eluncedo?

Kungekudala, ngokubanzi nokugqithiseleyo kwaye kuyaqhelekileyo indlela esebenzayo kunye nephilileyo yokuchitha ixesha. Ndifuna ukukholelwa ukuba oku akusiyo nje intlawulo kwifashoni, kodwa indlela yokuqonda yabantu abaninzi. Nangona kunjalo, makhe sithethe malunga noko kufuneka uthabathe umgaqo kwindlela yakho yemihla ngemihla ukwenzela ukuba uphucule ngokugqithiseleyo umgangatho wobomi.

Kusasa, uvule amehlo akho kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba ufuna ukulala, ingaba ilanga likhanya ngaphandle kwewindow okanye livula, kumamatheka, welula kwaye uvuke kwindawo yokuzivocavoca. Akusiyo umthwalo opheleleyo kuwo onke amaqela omzimba, okwaneleyo ukuba unike imizuzu eyi-10 yengqumbo yakho yentsasa enqabileyo kule nkqubo.

Iimpawu zakho ezifanelekileyo zifanele uzijabulise, ngoko yenze umyalelo wokumomotheka kaninzi kwaye ube nesimo sengqondo esihle. Mhlawumbi akusiyo yonke into ebomini into enhle ukuvuyisa kunye nokumomotheka, kodwa akukho nkathazo emsebenzini kunye nokuziphatha okungathobeliyo abantwana akufanelekanga ukuba utyhefu. Khumbula i-cartoon nge-cuber cub, ngubani owayesaba ukuya echibini? Kodwa kwakwanele nje ukumomotheka ukucinga kwakho, ngoko uloyiko luya kupheka, kwaye ufuna ukucula.

Imisebenzi efanelekileyo yomntu kufuneka imele ifake ukutya okunempilo. Umntu okhethiweyo uya kuhlaselwa kwimifuno, kwaye umntu uya kuthatha nje ukulawula ukuthambisa i- oatmeal kwasekuseni.

Kukho iingcebiso ezininzi malunga nendlela yokwenza ukutya kwakho kwimeko efanelekileyo kwaye kuphile. Akukho mntu uthetha ngesigqibo esinqununu sokunqanda inyama, othosiweyo kunye nococekayo ngokutya ukutya okusanhlamvu kunye neziqhamo, kodwa kukho inyaniso kule nto. Ndikholelwe, umsebenzi wesisu sakho namathumbu uya kukukholisa, kwaye isibalo, esiya kuba sihle kakhulu kwaye sihlakaniphile, siya kuba sisimangalisa ngokwenene.

Phuza ngamanzi amaninzi. UCindy Crawford uhlala ephindaphinda ukuba yonke imihla uyayiphuza malunga neekitha ezingama-3 zamanzi kwaye ngeendlela ezininzi kuba kubonakala ngathi kumangalisa. Akukho mntu uthi xa usela amanzi amaninzi, uya kubonakala ngathi le supermodel, kuba ngaphandle kwalokhu, wenza umsebenzi osebenzayo. Kodwa ukuba umzimba ufumana inani elaneleyo lokusetyenziswa kwamanzi, ngoko ke aluqokeleli i-slag kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, oku kunemiphumo emihle kakhulu ekungabonakali kwimibala, kodwa nakwimpilo yomntu.

Ukuhamba kwansuku zonke emoyeni omtsha, ukugijima okanye imisebenzi yokusebenza yangaphandle nayo iyimikhwa emihle. Kumele kuthiwe esitratweni sele kunemiphumo emihle emzimbeni womntu, kwaye ukuba uhamba ngezitrato zedolophu yakho yasekuhlaleni, oku kukufudumala okongezelelweyo kwimisipha. Nika imizuzu eyi-15-20 ngosuku, kwaye ngeempela-veki unokuchitha iyure ukuhamba ngesitalato kwinkampani enomdla. Le nkqubo ayincedo kuphela kwimpilo yomzimba, kodwa isimo sengqondo somntu siphuculwe kakhulu, kukho isimo sengqondo kunye nokugqithisa kwamandla. Zama.

Enyanisweni, imichimo efanelekileyo ingabonakaliswa ixesha elide, kuquka ukucoca indlu nokufudumala indlu, ukusebenzisa izimonyo zendalo, ukuqeqesha ngokuzenzekelayo nokuziphucula. Wonke umntu, kufuneka azenzele isigqibo, yiyiphi iminqweno angathanda "ukuyidla." Njengoko kunjalo, kunzima kakhulu ukuthatha inyathelo lokuqala, oko kuthetha, qalisa, kwaye ke yonke into iya kuhamba ngokwayo.

Imikhwa emihle kwaye inobomi ibumba umntu ngamnye, kodwa inyaniso kukuba yintoni imiphumo emibi le miba inayo kumnini. Ngoko, umzekelo, ukuba umntu utshaya okanye uhleli kwiikhomputha ezili-12 iiyure ngosuku, uyalimaza umzimba wakhe, kwaye ukuba uyashiya ikhefu elingagciniweyo okanye akayikucima ukukhanya kwindlu yangasese, ke oku kukuphazamiseka okukuphela kokuphazamisana nomntu ohlala naye. Kwinye igumbi.

Kukho nawuphi na, akukho nto ayinakwenzeka, kwaye kuya kukwakho ukugqiba ukuba yiziphi iimpawu ofuna ukuzidla, ziziphi iimpawu eziza kuba ngabahlobo bemihlali bakho. Khawukhumbule nje ukuba sinomphefumlo omnye, ngoko ungayichitheli kwizinto ezingenanto kwaye uphumelele ekunciphiseni.