Yintoni imfesane kunye nendlela yokuphuhlisa ngayo kuwe?

Namhlanje, malunga nenceba, abantu bambalwa kakhulu bacinga ngako. Kusuka kwinqanaba lembono, le gama libhekisela kwisimo somlinganiso, umgangatho wobuntu, obonisa ukuba unako ukunika uncedo olufunekayo kuyo nayiphi na imiba ngaphandle kokungabaza okukhulu. Ngokwenza oko, le ngxaki ayinqabile kuphela, kodwa ininzi, ngokuthethileyo, amasebe. Ngayiphi imfesane ebomini boqobo kunye nendlela ibonakalisa ngayo kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, funda ngezantsi.

Yintoni imiphefumlo yabantu banamhlanje ibonakala ngathi?

Namhlanje, iimpawu ezintle zabantu, ngelishwa, ziye zahlala kude. Yonke into eyayiphambi kweyindinyana kunye neengoma, namhlanje uncedo olungcono kunobunyani, ukungabi nandaba kunye nobukrakra, kodwa malunga novelwano, ukunyamekela kummelwane, ukukwazi ukunceda umntu xa efuna, nanjalo, abaninzi bethu U libale. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, sisoloko sithetha ngelizwi - "imfesane", sisoloko sikhankanya kumahlaya, nangona uncedo sinohleka umntu okanye sihlazise umntu. Nangona kunjalo, bambalwa abantu bacinga ukuba lo mgangatho kwindlela yawo eqhelekileyo inokuguqula umphefumlo wethu, ubomi bethu, ukwenza ihlabathi elisijikeleze ngakumbi kwaye lihluma. Kwaye konke okufunekayo oku kukukrazula izinto ezingalunganga kwaye uvumeleke ukuba uncede abanye, unamathele iintlungu zabantu kunye neengxaki.

Indlela yokuphucula umgangatho omangalisayo?

Njengazo zonke izinto eziphambili, kufuneka uhlakulele imfesane esuka kwincinci. Okokuqala, yeka ukugxininisa ngokwakho, ucinga nje ngokulungileyo kwakho. Ngokomzekelo, xa uya kusebenza ekuseni, qwa lasela izinja ezilahlekayo ezihlala kufuphi nomnyango wakho. Khawucinge nje ngomzuzwana ukuba abanalo inkosi enokuyondla, kwaye nangakumbi - sebenzisa ixesha kunye nabo, badlale, bathenge ibhola. Ngokuqinisekileyo, indawo yokuhlala kuyo zonke izilwanyana aziyi kusebenza, kodwa kuncinci ukutya-umsebenzi oya kuhlangabezana nayo ngamnye wethu. Ukuphindaphinda le nkqubo rhoqo ekuseni, uya kuqaphela indlela izilwanyana eziya kuvuya ngayo ngokubonakala kwakho, okuza kuthi, ziza kuphakamisa imizwa kunye nokuzithemba kuwe.

Wonke umntu unobomi bakhe ...

Ihlabathi lihleleke kangangokuba abantu bahlala behluke kwi-"castes" - umntu osisityebi, omnye umntu unelisekile iimfuno zabo, kwaye umntu unyanzelekile. Kwaye, ke, lo mgangatho, njengesihawu kubantu abangenayo inkunzi enkulu, ayikhethwayo kwiibonda zabameli abacebileyo kuluntu. Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ukugcinwa ngaphandle kwabangakhathazekiyo, ngoko yishiye emva kwakho. Enyanisweni, kulula kwaye kulula ukukunceda umntu ohluphekileyo ngaphandle kokuchitha ipenki enye. Ngokomzekelo, izinto ongeke uzigqoke zingathathwa kwiinkedama okanye kwicawa, apho ziza kubakhochitha khona bonke abafuna. Mhlawumbi, uthando olunjalo luya kukwenza ube ngumntu ophumelele ngakumbi kwikamva elizayo, kwaye unokwazi ukunceda abo bawufunayo kwizinga elikhulu.

Usizi ngenxa yentlungu yommelwane

Enye into ebalulekileyo yothando kunye novelwano ngamava okomoya, ukulahlekelwa kunye nentlungu yomnye umntu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kule ngxaki sinokukunceda kuphela abahlobo bethu abasondeleyo kunye nezihlobo. Bangasithemba, bavule, babelane ngezinto ezibakhathazayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwiintsapho zanamhlanje, abantu bayayihoxisa isimo sengqondo esicinezelekileyo seyabantwana babo, esiza kubabangela ukuba bangabandakanyeki kwaye bangabi namdla kwabanye. Ngako oko, kubalulekile ukubeka iliso bonke abantu abajikelezile, bavumele ukuba bathethe, ukuba baziva bebi, ukuba balahlekelwa ngumntu okanye balahlekelwe yinto ethile. Ngona kwimeko enzima kunzima kwaye, imfesane yothandekayo, ingqiqo yakhe nenkxaso ingabangela ukuba kukho imiphumo emibi engabangela ukulimala ngokwengqondo nangokwenyama.

Ubume obuninzi bomntu neemvakalelo

Namhlanje, inceba ixhaphake ngokumalunga neentsapho zabo, kwintsapho yabo, kunye nokunyaniseka, okuchaphazela bonke abantu abangaziwayo okanye abangaqhelekanga. Ngokomzekelo, iqela elithile labasebenzi labanye iqine liyazi osebenza nabo njengomntu obandayo, owomileyo, onobukrakra, kunye nentsapho ungumntu onothando nothando. Lo mkhuba uvame kakhulu kuluntu lwaseRashiya, njengoko kungokwesiko ukuba oomashishini "baphosane" kunye, kwaye phakathi kwabasebenzi abaqhelekileyo kunokwenzeka ukuba balinde iziseko ezisuka kwicala. Kule meko, sinokuthi kuphela into enye: umntu ngamnye kufuneka ajonge kakuhle iimeko, athathe ulwazi kwizenzo zomntu ngamnye. Ezinye zibonakala zininzi kuwe, umntu, ngokuchaseneyo, uya kukunceda kwinto encinci, unike inkonzo encinci, eya kuba yintsimbi yokuqala, ebonisa ubungqina bakhe obuhle. Oku kuya kunceda uqonde ukuba uvelwano novelwano ngabo okanye abo bantu bayimfuneko, nokuba ngaba bafanelwe ububele bakho ngokwenene.

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Ubuchule bokunceda abantu kunye nabazalwana bethu abangaphantsi akugcini nje kuphela kwiijethi zomntu ngamnye, kodwa nakwiibhalo ezingcwele. IBhayibhile isifundisa okokuqala ukuba simthande ummelwane wethu, kwaye ngoko uThixo ngokwakhe, njengokuba iCconucianism ibandakanya ukunyamekela abantu, kwanokuba yingozi kwabo ngokwabo. Imfundiso malunga nenceba, iqulethwe kwiVedas, i-Qur'an kunye nezinye izinto eziqhelekileyo ezibhalwa ngabantu. Nguwo kanye umvakalelo ohlambululayo imiphefumlo yethu yenzondo kunye nokungakhathaleli kwaye uzalise ngothando, uvuyo nolonwabo olunokunikezelwa kubo bonke abantu.