Isazi sengqondo senzululwazi uLarisa Surkova: i-biography

Inzululwazi yengqondo yanamhlanje inokuziqhayisa ngamagama aphawulekayo, ngokuya ngokuya kuthiwa athandwa kakhulu kwaye kufuneke. Unyaka ngamnye inani labo bazinikela ngokuzithandela kwaye bengenakho ukuphumla liye lagqiba ekubeni lizinikele kwizodwa ezikhethiweyo. Njengomthetho, ngabantu abanethemba lokujonga ikamva ngaphandle kokwesaba kwaye bahlala bejoliswe kwisiphumo esihle. Kakade, wonke umntu unenkathazo. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka ukwazi ukuwunqoba ngexesha, ukuze umthwalo wezixazululo ezingaphendululwanga awuhlanganisi emva kwakho. Unjalo uLarissa Surkova, isazi sezengqondo kungekhona ngemfundo kuphela, kodwa nangendlela yokuphila. Wafunda ukuziva le meko ngaphakathi. Ukuxhaswa kwengqondo yabantu abafuna uncedo yingxenye ebalulekileyo yenkwenkwezi yethu yanamhlanje. Isingqino samanje sokuphila sishukumisela umntu ukuba abe semandleni abo, ngokuqhubekayo efuna iindlela ezintsha zokuphuhlisa imisebenzi yazo. Ewe, oku kuchaphazela ubomi bomntu, ububanzi bentsebenziswano.

ULarisa Surkova ngumcebisi owaziwayo kwiinkalo zengqondo. Ngomsebenzi wakhe kwintetho rhoqo udinga ukuba yonke into ebomini iyenzile. Uphi na ukuphefumlelwa kwaye ulawula njani ukudibanisa yonke into kanye?

Ulwazi lolwazi

Enyanisweni, uLarissa Surkova akaniki iinkcukacha ezichanileyo malunga nento yakhe. Ezinye iingcali ziphikisana malunga nokuba lidala kangakanani. Ingcali yengqondo yekamva yazalwa ngoMatshi 26, 1978. Emva kokugqiba kwakhe wangena kwiLeningrad Institute of Technology. Ngethuba ukususela ngo-1975 ukuya ku-2002 wasebenza njengomfundisi. Ukongeza, umsebenzi wakhe wenyuka waya kwintaba. ULarissa wanquma ukutshintsha ubomi bakhe ngokukhawuleza aze aphunyezwe oko wayekufunayo.

Wazifumana njani kwiengqondo? Ngesinye isikhathi, wafumana nje imeko ebudeni. Emva koko waqala ukunceda abanye, wabona ukuba wenza kakuhle, waza wagqiba ekubeni aqhubeke. Inzala kwingqondo yengqondo yayisoloko ihlala. ULarissa wayefuna kakhulu kunokwenzeka ukuba aqhube ngaphandle kangangokuba iminyaka eminingi wayehlala ngaphakathi kuye. Ngethamsanqa, waphumelela. Unamava amaninzi, awanikezela ngokubanzi abantu. ULarisa Surkova ungumgqirha wezengqondo othetha ngaye ngokwakhe: umfazi uye waphumelela konke umsebenzi wakhe we-titanic. Kwaye ndifuna ukunqwenela ukunyamezela kwabo bonke abantu.

Ngomsebenzi wengqondo yengqondo

Uyabona ukuba kunzima ukusebenza kunye nenqanaba lomphefumlo womntu, ukuze akwazi ukuchukumisa ngaphakathi. Kufuneka sihlakulele umlinganiselo othile wokuguquguquka kwaye sihlale kunye namaxesha. Awukwazi ukufunda i-psychology kanye nonke. Kubalulekile ukuphucula rhoqo izakhono zabo, bazibandakanye kwimfundo yabo, ukuba bazibonele phambili ngamathuba amatsha angempela.

Ubugcisa bezengqondo ziyisipho esikhethekileyo esinokunyonywa ngokwakho, ukhuliswe kwiindleko zemigudu engaqhelekanga kunye nomsebenzi wemihla ngemihla yomphefumlo. ULarisa Surkova uqaphele ukuba lowo osebenza kunye neengxaki zabantu kufuneka abe ngumntu onyanisekileyo kunye onyanisekileyo. Kunzima kakhulu ukucinga ukuba ukukhohlisa kwengqondo - kuyatshisa kakhulu. Ewe, kwesi sifundo kufuneka uziva unomnqweno othile, ngaphandle koko akukho nto iya kuphuma. Kubalulekile ukufuna ukunceda abantu, ukuziva uncedo olunjalo kwaye uhlale uphucula. ULarissa Surkova ngu-psychologist oyifumayo. Abaninzi babeya kuba nomona ukunyamezela kwakhe nokuzinikela okukhulu.

"Umama yinto ephambili kum"

ULarissa Surkova unina wabantwana abane, kwaye uyaziqhayisa, mhlawumbi, indima ephambili. Ubomi abukwazi ukutshintshwa nayiphi na into. Ibhinqa alikwazi ukuvuyela ngokupheleleyo kwaye lizicinge ngokuthe ngqo xa lingenalo ngumntwana kwaye lenze ubuhlobo bokholo naye.

Kutheni umama ngaphezu kwayo yonke into? Ewe, kuba asinakukwazi ukulinganisa nokuxhasa ngokupheleleyo abanye abantu, ngelixa kwintsapho yethu kukho iingxaki. Umama-wengqondo yengqondo kwindawo yokuqala ufanele anakekele abantwana babo. Iimfuno zabo neemfuno zabo ziqala. ULarisa Surkova ungumgqirha wezengqondo, umfanekiso wakhe ungabonwa kwinqaku. Uyindoda enhle, enokuzibona ukuba uyamthemba kwaye uyabulela ngokukhawuleza.

"Ukucwangciswa okufanelekileyo kukuphambili kwimpumelelo"

Kukho nawuphi na umsebenzi, ulawulo lwexesha luyintloko ephambili kwimpumelelo. Unokuba ngumntu ongenalwazi, kodwa awukwazi ukwenza nantoni na. Xa ixesha lihamba ngokungahambi kakuhle, kuyadingeka ukuba uzisole ngokugqithiseleyo iiyure ezilahlekileyo. Kufuneka ufunde ukuqonda yonke imzuzu kwaye ukhumbule ukuba unokwenza okuninzi kwiminithi elishumi.

Ucwangciso olufanelekileyo luqala ngokuzimelela. Ingcali yengqondo kufuneka iqokelelwe kwaye ilungele ukunceda nanini na. Kakade, kungcono ukucwangcisa yonke into kwangaphambili. Njengoko uLarissa Surkova ubonisa, ngelilanga, ngelanga, kuphela iiyure ezingamashumi amabini anesine, ngoko kufuneka uzisebenzise ngokufanelekileyo njengoko kunokwenzeka.

ISikole soPhuhliso "Ipholile"

Umbhali wale projekthi ubonisa ukuba injongo yokuyidala yayingumcamango wokuthi umntu oswele uncedo kufuneka awamkele. Xa sinokuqonda ukuba kukho umntu oya kuthi, yonke into iyawa kwindawo. Kancinci kunomnqweno wokuthatha isenzo, ukuphucula izakhono zabo, ukusebenza ngeengxaki kunye neengxaki ezikhoyo.

Ziziphi iingxaki eziqhelekileyo kubaxhasi? Ezi ziingxaki ekusebenzisaneni kwezizukulwana, iingxabano zomtshato, ubudlelwane bomzali wabantwana. ULarisa Surkova uqhuba ukuqeqeshwa okubalulekileyo kunye nee-webinars ezikunceda ukukholelwa kuwe, ukunqoba uvakalelo lokungathembeki kunye nokungabikho kokuhlaselwa kwimeko. Ukubonisana ngabanye kuyakunceda xa umxhasi efuna ukusebenzela yedwa xa ebhekene nemingcipheko ebalulekileyo eyimthintela ekuphumeleleni impumelelo. "I-Marathon Online" ivumela umntu ngamnye ukuba asondele kufuphi nokuqonda imfuneko yokufuna uncedo kwisazi sengqondo, uze kule sigqibo uze ukhethe uchwepheshe othile.

Yintoni umbhali abhala ngayo?

Iincwadi zeLarisa Surkova ziyaziwa kwaye ziyafumaneka kuwo wonke umsebenzisi. Zinyatheliswa kwiindwendwe ezipapashwe kakuhle kwaye zithandwa kakhulu kubafundi. Kubazali, iincwadi ziya kuba luncedo kakhulu: "Ukuba ngumama mkhulu", "Umntwana ukususela kwisibhozo ukuya kwishumi elinesithathu kunzima kakhulu". Banceda ukufunda ukuqonda umntwana wakho, ukuba akhule kuye ngabanye.

Ukongezelela, i-psychologist ephumelelayo igcina iblogi kwiwebhusayithi yakhe, apho ihlala ibeka khona iimpapasho ezithakazelisayo ezintsha kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zolwalamano phakathi kwabantu.

ULarisa Surkova ngu-psychologist. Uphononongo

Wonke umntu ufuna ukuva ukubuyela, ukubona isiqhamo sayo yonke into ayinika ixesha elide. ULarisa Surkova, ngelenhlanhla, sele sele efikelele ekuthandeni: bayamkhawulela, bayayazi. Uphononongo malunga nomsebenzi wakhe ngowona mhle. Abaxhasi baqaphele amandla okwehluleka ekwakheni ingxoxo ngendlela eyakhayo, ukunciphisa uxinzelelo, kunceda ukuhlangabezana nabo.

Endaweni yokugqiba

Isazi sezengqondo zentsapho uLarissa Surkova sisandul 'umdla kakhulu namhlanje. Uhlala emenywa kumabonwakude, uthatha inxaxheba kwiinkomfa ezahlukeneyo, uqhuba iingxoxo kunye nengxoxo kunye nabazali, unikeza iingcomo ezifanelekileyo malunga nokukhuliswa kwabantwana. Isizukulwana esincinane sifuna ukunakwa, ukuze sive. Kwimiba emininzi kukufaneleka kweengcali ezifanelekileyo.