Umntu ubumba, uhlamvu lwakhe kunye neempawu. Amathuba abantu bokudala. Sisebenzela abantu abadala

Kutheni abanye abantu bakha ubugcisa: imidwebo, umculo, iimpahla, izandi ezintsha, kunye nabanye abakwazi ukuyisebenzisa kuphela? Kuphi ukuphefumlelwa okuvela kuyo kwaye yintoni ubuchule? Ngaba kuyacaca ukususela ekuqaleni ukuba umntu udala okanye lo mgangatho unokuphuhliswa kancane? Makhe sizame ukufumana iimpendulo kule mibuzo kwaye siyiqonde iimfihlelo zabangakwazi ukudala.

Yintoni ubuchule?

Xa sifika kumbukiso wobugcisa okanye si tyelele i-theater, i-opera, ngoko siyakwazi ukuphendula ngokuchanekileyo-le isampuli yokudala. Imizekelo efanayo iyafumaneka kwilayibrari okanye kwimidlalo yemafilimu. Iimvanoveli, ama-movie, izibongo - zonke ezi ziyimimiselo yendlela umntu ongeyomgangatho ongayenza ngayo. Nangona kunjalo, sebenzela abantu bokudala, nokuba yintoni, njalo unomphumo omnye - ukuzalwa kwento entsha. Esi siphumo sinye nezinto ezilula ezizungeze ubomi bemihla ngemihla: i-bulb, ikhompyutha, ithelevishini, ifenitshala.

Ubuqili yinkqubo ekwenzeni izinto eziphathekayo nezinto zokomoya ezidalwe. Ewe, imveliso yokuhambisa ingeyona nxalenye yale nto, kodwa emva koko, yonke into yayisakuba yinto yokuqala, eyayiyingqayizivele, entsha. Ngenxa yoko, sinokuphetha ngokuthi: yonke into ejikelezile -kusekuqaleni into eyenziwa ngumntu wobugcisa kwindlela yakhe yomsebenzi.

Ngamanye amaxesha, ngenxa yemisebenzi enjalo, umbhali ufumana umkhiqizo, umkhiqizo ongenakho omnye umntu onokuphinda. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kubhekisela ngokukodwa kwiimpawu zokomoya: ukudweba, uncwadi, umculo. Ngoko ke, sinokugqiba ukuba ukudala izinto, asikho nje imimiselo ekhethekileyo, kodwa kunye neempawu zomntu zomdali.

Inkcazo yenkqubo

Enyanisweni, akukho mntu wendalo owake wazibuza ukuba uyakwazi njani ukuphumeza le nto okanye loo mphumo. Yintoni eyayifuneka ibe namava ngeli xesha ngexesha elide lendalo? Ziziphi izigaba oye wafuna ukunqoba? Le mibuzo iphazamise isazi sezengqondo esivela eBrithani ngasekupheleni kwe-20 leminyaka-uGraham Wallace. Njengomphumo wemisebenzi yakhe, wazikhethela iingongoma eziphambili zenkqubo yokudala:

• Ukulungiselela;
• Ukufakelwa;
• Ukukhanyisa;
• Hlola.

Ingongoma yokuqala enye yezona zigaba ezide. Iquka lonke ixesha lokufunda. Umntu owayengenamava kwintsimi ethile akakwazi ukudala into eyingqayizivele kwaye eyigugu. Okokuqala kufuneka ufunde. Ingaba yimathematika, ukubhala, ukudweba, ukuyila. Wonke amava angaphambili adingekayo. Emva koko kukho ingcamango, injongo okanye umsebenzi oza kulungiswa, ukuthembela kolwazi olufunyenwe ngaphambili.

Iphuzu lesibini ngumzuzu wokulahla. Xa umsebenzi omde okanye ukukhangela akuniki isiphumo esihle, kufuneka ulahle yonke into, ubale. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ukuqonda kwethu kwakhona ukulibala yonke into. Singaxelela ukuba le ngcamango ihlala ihlala kwaye ihlakule eminzini yomphefumlo wethu okanye ingqondo.

Kwaye olunye usuku luya kuqonda. Zonke iindawo zokuvula abantu zivuliwe, kwaye inyaniso iyavela. Ngelishwa, injongo ayinakuphumelela ngaso sonke isikhathi. Akukho msebenzi ophakathi kwamandla ethu. Into yokugqibela ibandakanya ukuxilongwa nokuhlaziya umphumo.

Umntu womntu odala

Kwiminyaka emininzi, izazinzulu kunye nabantu abaqhelekileyo bazama ukuqonda kangcono inkqubo kuphela, kodwa nokufunda iimpawu ezizodwa zabadali. Ubuntu bomntu odalayo unomdla omkhulu. Amava abonisa ukuba ngokuqhelekileyo abameli belo hlobo babonakaliswa ngumsebenzi ophezulu, ukuziphatha okucacileyo kwaye kubangele iimpendulo ezingqubuzanayo zabanye.

Enyanisweni, akukho mzekelo omnye ophuhliswe ngabafundi beengqondo. Ngokomzekelo, umxholo onjenge-neuroticism udla ngokubanzi kubantu abadala izinto zokomoya. Iingcali zenzululwazi, abaqambi bahluke ngokucinga ngokuzinzile, ukulinganisela.

Umntu ngamnye, udale okanye awunayo, uyingqayizivele, into esiphila kuyo ikhonkco, kwaye into engagqibekanga.

Kukho iziganeko ezinobuntu ezinobuntu obunjalo:

• Inqwenela;

• Ukuzithemba;

• Ayikho isimo sengqondo esinomdla kwabanye.

Ukugqibela kubangelwa, mhlawumbi, ngenxa yokuba abantu abanengqondo engacwangcanga bacinga ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Bacinga ukuba abaqondwa, abagwetywanga okanye abangavunywanga njengabo.

Iintlukwano ezinkulu

Ukuba kukho uluhlu lwabahlobo bakho kukho umntu odala, ngoko uya kuqonda ngoku. Ubuntu obunjalo buvame ukuhamba emafini. Bayabaphupha ngokwenene, nokuba ingcamango ephosakeleyo ibonakala yinyani. Ukongezelela, bajonga ihlabathi njenge-microscope, babhala iinkcukacha zendalo, izakhiwo, ukuziphatha.

Abantu abaninzi abadumileyo abadala ubugcisa babengenalo usuku oluqhelekileyo lokusebenza. Kuzo, akukho iindibano, kwaye inkqubo yokudala yenziwa ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Omnye ukhetha kusasa ekuseni, umntu unokukwazi ukuvuka kuphela ngokushona kwelanga. Abantu abanjalo abavame ukubonakala esidlangalaleni, ininzi ixesha abasebenzisa yedwa. Emoyeni ezolile neqhelekileyo kulula ukucinga. Ngexesha elifanayo, umnqweno wabo omtsha uqhube ukuphanda.

Ezi ziqinileyo, ezigulane kunye nabantu abanobungozi. Akukho ukuhluleka kunokuphulaphula ukholo kwimpumelelo.

Uphando lwangoku

Ngaphambili, iingcamango zenzululwazi zaguquka kwizinto zokuba umntu uzalwe ngokudala okanye ayikho. Namhlanje, le ngqungquthela isasazeka ngokupheleleyo, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kunokutsho ukuba ukuphuhlisa iitalente kuyatholakala kuwo wonke umntu. Kwaye naphina ixesha lokuphila kwakhe.

Iimpawu eziphambili zomntu wobuchule, ukuba zifunwa kunye nokunyamezela, zinokusebenza kwedwa. Kwimeko kuphela, ukuphumeza umphumo omuhle akunakwenzeka, lo ngumntu ngokwakhe akafuni ukwenza utshintsho ebomini bakhe.

Uphando lwangoku lukhokelela ekugqibeleni ukuba amandla okuqonda akhula xa sidibanisa ingqiqo kunye nobuchule. Kwimeko yokuqala, i-hemisphere yekhohlo ixhunyiwe kumsebenzi, okwesibini - i-hemisphere efanelekileyo. Ukusebenzisa amanqaku amaninzi engqondo, unokufikelela kwisiphumo esikhulu.

Sebenzela umntu odala

Emva kokugqweswa, abaphumeleleyo bajamelana nombuzo: ukuya kuphi? Wonke umntu ukhetha umkhondo obonakala unomdla kwaye uqondakala kuye, ekugqibeleni apho umgomo okanye umphumo ubonakala. Ngelishwa, akusoloko kunokwenzeka ukuqonda into enokuba nayo.

Ucinga ukuba yintoni umsebenzi ofanelekileyo kakhulu kubantu bokudala? Impendulo ilula: nayiphi na! Nantoni na oyenzayo: ukugcina indlu okanye ukuyila izitishi zendawo - yonke indawo ongabonisa ngayo ubuchule kunye nobulumko, yakha kwaye uyamangalisa.

Into eyona nto inokuphazamisa ngokwenene le nkqubo yindlela yokuphazamiseka kwangaphandle. Iinkokeli ezininzi zizimela ngokuzimeleyo abasebenzi bazo ngomnqweno wokwenza izigqibo ezizimeleyo.

Umphathi omhle uya kuncedisa ukukhutshwa komsebenzi kunye nophuhliso, okwenyani, ukuba oko akuphazamisi inkqubo ephambili.

Iziqendu

Makhe sicinge, kutheni umlingiswa womntu odaleyo kunzima ukuba uhlalutye ngokucacileyo kwaye uhlelwe. Oku kunokwenzeka, oku kubangelwa yimpawu ezininzi ezixhomekeke kubantu abanjalo.

Okokuqala, bonke bobugcisa, baqeqeshwe kakuhle ngolwazi, ngelixa be-naïve njengabantwana. Okwesibini, nangona iingcamango ezibalaseleyo, ziyazi kakuhle ukubunjwa kweli hlabathi kwaye zibone konke ngokucacileyo. Ukuvuleka kunye neempawu zokuthetha zibonakaliso zangaphandle kuphela. Ubuninzi obuvame ukufihla ubunzulu bomntu. Abantu abanjalo bacinga kakhulu, baziphathe ngendlela yabo.

Kuyathakazelisa ukuba ngokudala into entsha, kunokuthiwa ukuzisa uhlobo oluthile lwe-dissonance kwikhosi ekhoyo yangoku. Ngexesha elifanayo, bonke bahlala bexhasayo, iminqweno yabo ihlala ibaluleke ngakumbi kunabanye.

Genius kunye nobuchule

Ukuba umntu, ngenxa yomsebenzi wakhe, udale into emangalisayo, into ebangel 'umdla ngabo abakujikelezile ishintshile umbono wehlabathi, uzuze ukuqaphela kwangempela. Abantu abanjalo babizwa ngokuba ngabaphathi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kubo indalo, ubuchule buyinto ebalulekileyo yobomi.

Kodwa akusoloko kubakho abantu abanomdla kakhulu bafumana iziphumo ezingatshintsha ihlabathi. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ababafuni ukwenza oku. Kubo, ubugcisa bubokuqala kwaye ngokukhethekileyo ithuba lokuvuyela ngexesha langoku, kwindawo abahlala kuyo.

Akudingeki ukuba ube yingcali yokuzibonakalisa. Nangona iziphumo ezincinci zinokukwenza ube nethemba ngakumbi, ulungile kwaye ujabule.

Izigqibo

Ubuncedo bunceda abantu bavule imiphefumlo yabo, baphonsa iimvakalelo okanye benze into entsha. Ukuphuhlisa ubuchule kunokuthi wonke umntu, obaluleke kakhulu, abe nomnqweno omkhulu kunye nesimo esihle sengqondo.

Kubalulekile ukulahla iindibano, ukujonga ihlabathi ngamanye amehlo, mhlawumbi, ukuzizama kwinto entsha.

Khumbula - ubuchule bunjenge-muscle. Kufuneka ivuselelwe rhoqo, iguqulwe, iphuhliswe. Kuyimfuneko ukuseta isilinganisi esahlukileyo ngenjongo kwaye ungayishiyi, ukuba kungakhange kwenzeke into yokuqala. Emva koko, uya kuzibuza indlela impilo eguqukile ngayo, kwaye uya kuqala ukuqaphela ukuba uye waletha into ebalulekileyo kwaye entsha kwihlabathi kwihlabathi.