Ingcaciso: yintoni amaphupha abafileyo ubomi?

Ngamnye kuthi abe amaphupha, ukusuka apho umphefumlo yimvakalelo embi, le meko sazithimbela imini, nokukhula ixhala. Amaninzi, oku kwenzeka ngenxa yokuba lo mntu babonakaliswa kuthi kwezi emibonweni yasebusuku. Ezi zihloko ezingemnandi, kunye njalo umona kuvela ezininzi zabantu, iquka oku kulandelayo iphupha: umntu ofileyo ephila waphupha. isihloko jikelele abantu abafileyo kakhulu ezithile - ukufumana ulonwabo kulo ngaphandle ukuba sisetyenziswe subculture zwe. Yaye bonke abanye abantu kuba mnandi, kwaye maxa wambi nkqu eyoyikisayo, limangalisa, yaye akwamkelekanga ngokupheleleyo ngxoxo. Kakade ke, amaphupha malunga noku iya kubakho ngaphandle. Noko ke, njengoko abahlalutyi bathi, asikuko kulula kakhulu kwihlabathi ezikhohlisayo, yaye yintoni amaphupha efile uyaphila, akusoloko ngembi, mnandi okanye otherworldly.

Ngokwesiqhelo kwimo wobuthongo abantu babone ezo ziganeko, apho ngaphambili ekwakucingwa ukuba ngubani azenzileyo okanye izicwangciso ukwenza. Kunye namalungu amaphupha - kaninzi ke abantu bume ye mphuphi, enoba n'wina, kude, ukuba abafileyo live - indlela enye okanye omnye, kodwa ke azifunda ubuthongo. Kwaye kaninzi ngaphezu bazalelwe kubalinganiswa yabantu ebusuku. Kutheni uphupha abafileyo ubomi, ukuba usapho?

Xa uphupha ilungu losapho, ngoku ongasekhoyo, impilo entle, oko kubonisa ukuba ufuna ukuba alumkise ngento ethile, kodwa kufuneka icace ukusuka iinkcukacha iphupha ntoni. Kodwa ngokubanzi, xa, umzekelo, ndandifuna umama, wakho incoko naye - mhlawumbi kufanekisela into yokuba ulalelwe iingxaki zempilo kwixesha elizayo. Kwaye kuyimfuneko ukunikela ingqalelo ngoku.

Omnye ke, ukucaciswa kwe oko amaphupha abafileyo ubomi, ngenxa isenzeko embonweni umzalwana wakhe ufile. Wesizalo abantu bomthonyama nga kubonisa ukuba umntu yabahlobo wakho osenyongweni abahlobo kufuneka uncedo, kwaye ngecala lakho. Kodwa isiqalo eyomeleleyo - uyise, wabonakala wathetha kuni, engathembisi okulungileyo - phupho kungathetha ukuba ukuwa izicwangciso zakho kunye namalinge kwixesha elizayo. Okanye mandithi - into yokuba ezinye chervotochinkoy kumthwalo ngokusesikweni ibe nesiphelo esinempumelelo.

Kodwa incwadi iphupha Aesop kaThixo Iziphatha iindawo ezinjalo imibono ngokwahlukileyo kancinci. Ukuba waba umntu ofileyo ephila, ngokutsho iirekhodi zakhe, oko uthembisa utshintsho kuphela yezulu: ngokukhawuleza lunga kubanda (okanye, icala, ukufudumala). Ukanti, akukho okunye. Utoliko ethi iphupha Chinese zhuo Gouna uyakwazi ukufumana incazelo elandelayo izifundo longasekhoyo abantu: ukuyibona waphila umntu ofileyo ephupheni - ukuya ikalika ekhawulezileyo okanye ileta evela ixesha elide aliveli kuyo. Kwaye ezi ndaba iya kuba cala okanye okulungileyo.

Ngokubanzi, i downers bevumelana into enye: ukuba 's into amaphupho abafileyo ubomi; phantse lonke iphatha okubi. Ngoko ke, kufuneka kubekho ukumoyika yokuphupha le nto. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, kusenokuba isilumkiso iphupha, apho ixesha yaye musa ukwenza ngabom wanika inyathelo engalunganga. Inye kuphela zonke abahlalutyi zilumkisa amaphupha - ukuba nantoni na ephume izandla kwabafileyo kuyinto embi; ngoko ongasekhoyo ezama ukuba endleleni.