Kutheni uphuphe elinjengelofileyo?

Eyona mpendulo rhoqo lo mbuzo, yintoni amaphupho abafileyo, nto leyo zisinika iindidi zeencwadi iphupha - oko amashwa, okugqibela, iindaba buhlungu, luck embi kwezoshishino kunye nezinye ezimbi. Ukuba umntu oswelekileyo waba lilungu losapho lwakho, oko - umqondiso esi sifo yakho kwisizalwane esisondeleyo okanye ukuhlukana naye. Ukongeza, kuba abantu othandana naye, linokuthetha isilingo kunye sokungathembeki.

Noko ke, kule meko, oku kuxhomekeke iinkcukacha ebuthongweni bakho. Ngoko ke, ukuze kubonwe ukuba iphupho umntu ofileyo, kufuneka ukuba ingqondo kubo. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu umfi unxibe iphupha lakho omnyama, oko kuthethwa koko ukugula kakhulu, ukufa umhlobo osenyongweni okanye nobunzima kakhulu kwezoshishino. Ukuba uvale amehlo akho eziinkozo ongasekhoyo, ebomini abantu singanyaniseki okanye nje iintshaba ziya kubangela ukuba umonakalo ebalulekileyo. Noko ke, ukuba usebenzisa enye kuphela, uya kuba nako ukuzifumana zonke ilahleko yabo umzabalazo etsolo kunye namandla. Ukuba phupho ubona intombi, oko ezinokuchazwa njengoko ubuqhetseba okanye umonakalo obangelwe yokuba uya kukholosa abantu ukungathembeki, Noko ke, yibani nobubele. Kwimeko iibhokisi emi egumbini ivenkile, ubunzima kunye nelahleko ziya kuchaphazela abahlobo bakho.

iincwadi iphupha Old abe nentsingiselo yabo into iphupha yomntu ofileyo. Umzekelo, funda amajoni ewile edabini kuthetha ukuba kungekudala uza nazo iqela nentiyo labantu: amasebe, iintsapho, uluntu. Xa uphupha uthetha ukuba umzalwana kwabafileyo, ngoko abanye abantu angaqhelekanga kuthi kube uvelwano kunye uncedo. Ukuba bechwayitile ngendlela engaqhelekanga, ngoko kuphosakele ukuba impilo yakho kwaye kungenzeka ukuba enze impazamo enkulu.

Noko ke, asingabo bonke abantu abanomdla amaphupha, wayekholelwa ukuba ndilale abafileyo lifanele licaciswe ngokulandela ezinye iimpawu. Umzekelo, Paracelsus -vydayuschiysya Isazinzulu isiJamani - ababesithi iphupha Akafanga nje, kwaye kufuneka sinikele ingqalelo izilumkiso uzama ukusibonisa kwamathunzi kwabafileyo. Sleeping Umntu unako nokuba ukufumana ukuba amacebiso ngokwenene. Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba iphupha wenza uhlobo ngokunxulumene imizimba ezifihlakeleyo zabantu bethu esibathandayo eneneni onokukukhusela ukwenza iimpazamo ezinkulu nathi.

Kukho enye ingongoma imbono malunga nokutolikwa kwale hlobo amaphupha. Abahlalutyi abaninzi namhlanje bakholelwa ukuba asifanele sikhathazeke ngoko amaphupho ufile. Ukukhumbula iphupha, apho umntu ofileyo ikhangeleka ophilileyo, Kakade, eyoyikisayo kancinane, kodwa ukubonakala kwaso, ngokutsho abahlalutyi, oko akuthethi kuthwala umthwalo ekhethekileyo lwesemantiki ngamaphupha. Bakholelwa ukuba oku kakhulu iphupha eqhelekileyo, kunye nomfanekiso oluntu avela iinkumbulo zethu. Ingakumbi ezifanelekileyo le ukutyhilwa, kwimeko apho umfi akenzi njenge umdlali ebalulekileyo amaphupha ethu. Amathuba zonke, wena nje ufumana kuva ezinye iziganeko ezibalulekileyo ebomini bakho, nto leyo ke ithetha ukuba emva uvuka awukwazi ukufumana akhathazeke , ethe uqhubeke.

Zonke ezi ngongoma zintathu imbono kwi amaphupha kunye kwabafileyo, eneneni, enokusebenza. Wonke umntu wahlukile kwaye, njengoko umthetho, umntu ngamnye ngendlela yakhe ubona abafileyo namaphupha ngendlela yabo baya kusabela. Umntu uzama ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni iphupha umntu ofileyo ingcwaba lakhe, yaye umntu iza umfi kwi kumfowunelwa wokwenene nkqu ukufumana ulwazi luncedo kuye.

Enoba kunjalo, kufuneka ungabi ilinganisa le meko. Nokuba ityala lakho ukubona lo mntu ubhubhileyo, nawuphi okanye umntu othile - ukuba akulungile, musa ukulibala ukuba phupha - nto nje isilumkiso, nto leyo ithetha ukuba naziphi na iingxaki ezinokuba ingathintelwa ebomini.