Anna Bykova kunye incwadi yakhe "Self-mntwana, okanye njani ukuba abe 'mama ndini" "

Kuba kwisiqingatha omhle umntwana uluntu - Isityhilelo mkhulu. Ukuba umama, umfazi ubhaqa wendalo, ubukho apho ngaphambili babengenalo nofifi. umhlaba wakhe engaphakathi utshintshwa kuloo mzuzu, ezele imibala ezintsha izandi. Umnqweno wokuba umama - enye yeemfuno ezininzi ezinamandla zokomoya. Kukho kufika ixesha xa kuba nje kufuneka umntu ukunika ukufudumala yakhe nenyameko. ngumama abazi ikhokelela ekubeni abantu bacinge epheleleyo ebomini, kukho ukuqonda lokwenyaniso undoqo uhlobo ababhinqileyo.

ngombhali

Anna Bykov - oyingcali onamava, has olutheni entsimini ubudlelwane komntwana ngumzali. Oku kubhekiselwa kuyo ngabantu abaninzi, yaye ngamnye unikwa ingqalelo ngamnye. Sele uye wanceda amawaka abantu bafumane imvisiswano phakathi kwamalungu osapho, ukuqonda abantwana babo. Anna - abenza Psychologist unina woonyana ababini abahle.

Lo mfazi okumangalisayo kukuba umbhali imisebenzi enjalo njenge "okulungileyo adibeneyo abantwana ukuba umntwana", "Izicwangciso elishumi ukoyisa uloyiko," "ukhuseleko Psychological esikolweni." Ezincwadini zakhe, Anna Bykov uphonononga imibuzo efana nale: indlela yokufundisa usana ukuqokelela izinto zokudlala ngokwabo, ngaphandle kobuxhakaxhaka neyethu, wayibeka ukuba silale ngokwabo ukuba adle. Ngemibhalo yakhe eyonwabisayo yabonisa iingxaki yokuseka efanayo ukuqonda, imfundo kunye nophuhliso. Anna iye iidiploma ezininzi amabhaso, yena usoloko ihamba ukuqeqesha izifundo ukuba kufundiswe thina.

Le ncwadi "Self-mntwana, okanye njani ukuba abe 'mama lazy'" - enye edumileyo kulo mbhali. Lifundisa ukuyilwa nombono entsha kwiziganeko.

Omiyo bafumane inkululeko

Okokuqala, umntwana ngokwakhe. uphuhliso bokwenene kunokwenzeka kuphela kwiimeko lokuzimela. Abazali kakhulu ukulawula umntwana wabo uqaphele yokuswela kwakhe nawuphi na umnqweno ukucombulula ishishini labo kwixesha elizayo. Control akufuneki kubhidaniswe ngenkathalo kunye nokuqonda.

Kwimfuneko ukuzisa inkululeko ngaphakathi uthi kwincwadi "mama ndini" Anna Bykov. Umntwana ongafumananga umntwana amava esihle inkululeko ngo omdala engakwazi ukwenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo, ukuba bathathe uxanduva. Bafundisa unyana okanye intombi yakhe besebancinane ukuphendula ngezenzo zabo, umama naye konwaba: uya kuphinda kufuneka esweni rhoqo yonke inyathelo yosana lwakho.

ulawulo lwabazali

Njengabantu abaninzi, njengoko abadala, baphupha ukuba balahle lozwilakhe yabazali! Kwaye konke oku kubangelwa indlela engalunganga kwinkqubo yemfundo. Indlela yokufundisa umntwana wakho abe simahla ekukhetheni kwabo? Okokuqala, ukunika phezulu ingcamango esweni rhoqo kuyo. inkxalabo bakho akufuneki athintele ukuba bafumane izakhono eziyimfuneko ebomini. ulawulo lwabazali kwiimeko ezininzi iba uhlobo esahlala, engaquki avumele umntu akhule siqhubekele phambili ngokupheleleyo.

Ukunciphisa ngokubonakala imikhwa yakhe ukulawula izenzo umntwana, baqale amnike imiyalelo ezinjalo, nto leyo ngokuqinisekileyo samba kubeko lobuhlobo. Itakane kufuneka bazive uxanduva yayo, ukuze aqonde ukuba ethemba. Ukwala yokuntlokothiswa isenza sihlalisane ngokunyanisekileyo nenyanisekileyo.

Yintoni ebangela ukuba "mama ndini"

Kwiimeko ezininzi, abafazi beyisekile ukuba umsebenzi wabo - ukusebenzisa ixesha lakhe umntwana. Abaninzi musa nokuba ucinge indlela yokuhlawula ingqalelo yena nomfazi wakhe. Oku kuziphatha ayikwazi engamelanga ithathwe njenge ngqiqweni. Ngenxa yoko, kubuhlungu onke amalungu entsapho kunye nomntwana, kakhulu. Umfazi kufuneka abe yabo ishishini, ukuzonwabisa, Sasikuthanda. Eneneni, ngenxa self-ukuqaphela ukuba uyakwazi ukuba angacingi kuphela izityholo, kwaye ukuzibonakalisa njengomntu. Le nto ibandakanya ingqikelelo "umama ivila." Anna Bykov ugxininisa imfuneko inkululeko kwizinto zasekhaya ityala umntwana, ngokuba unento ayinayo ixesha lokuba enze namhlanje. Musa ukugqibelela!

Njengoko usazi, ngamnye wethu ufanele abe nendawo zabo. Anna Bykov encwadini yakhe umi ukuba emva kokuzalwa komntwana kuyimfuneko ukuqhubeka baphile ubomi babo.

Ulungelelwano phakathi "kunokwenzeka 'yaye' akunakwenzeka"

Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuphulaphula kuwe? Kukho amanye amaqhinga. Kokubonakala, akuyi kuba buhlungu kwaye ngonaphakade ukukhalaza ngobomi. Kubalulekile ukuba silondoloze ukulinganisela lwangaphakathi phakathi izithintelo kunye novuyo. Umzekelo, ukuba unemouse umntwana ukuba avumele, kufuneka ixilongo iingxoxo. Musa ukubeka izithintelo ezininzi kakhulu, kungenjalo umntwana uza kuphinda luthathelwe ingqalelo. Njengoko imbuyekezo, kusoloko kukho isizathu ukukholisa umntwana.

imfundo-self

Ngaba uyazi ukuba abantu abaninzi baqonde ngokwenene wena njengomntu? Anna Bykov kwincwadi yakhe uthi isidingo sokufundisa esemncinane kwi umntwana nemvo nokwanela. Oku kuthetha ukuba kubalulekile ukuba igxininiswe amandla akhe, ngandlela zonke ukuba badumise, nokukhuthaza kwiimeko ezinzima. Xa kufuneka senze ukhetho, musa isigqibo ukulungiselela usana, makhe athwale inyathelo yabo. ukuqiniseka ukuba ngumzali iqala nge ukuziphatha abazi yabazali.

Yiloo ndlela ukuvulwa yemisebenzi emitsha kunye nethemba ezibalulekileyo uthi Anna Bykov. "Umntwana Independent, okanye njani ukuba abe 'mama lazy'" - incwadi kubalulekile ukufunda yonke unina.