Self-centeredness: ntoni na?

iimpawu nangokwasengqondweni umntu kusoloko izazinzulu abanomdla kwaye sasingumba izifundo ezininzi. Omnye wemiba kakhulu eziphembelela ngokuzazisa komntu kunye nobudlelwane nabanye - self-centeredness. Yintoni na le osemqoka obachaphazela ngayo, njani ukuyicombulula? Iimpendulo zale mibuzo kuya kuba ndifun nabani na onomdla kwingcingane self.

Egocentrism ingqalelo inkalo psyche yabantu, apho yena akakwazi kwaye akafuni ukwamkela yomnye umntu abona ngayo izinto uzibeke njengotshaba. Ndoda akavumi ukwamkela isibakala sokuba abanye abantu banelungelo lokuba izimvo zabo, yaye ucinga ukuba ilungile kuphela. Egocentrism yokucinga labantwana - kwizimanga zendalo for kids iminyaka 5-10 ubudala. imifuniselo ezininzi olwenziwe nabantwana beli phakade, bonisa nokungakwazi kwabo ukubona ihlabathi kwelinye icala, cinga indlela into ikhangeleka njengalo wacezela phaya. Kodwa ke uninzi bonke, lo msebenzi osemqoka isekhona womelele ukuvuthwa. Kwiintsapho ezininzi, naphakathi kwabantu abaqhelekileyo babe uyazingca. Kuthetha ukuthini? Le ndoda abazingcayo, ongenandaba nabanye aze athathe yonke ngokusebenzisa bemilo izimvo zabo.

Abantu abanengxaki egocentrism, kusuke kube ngathi embindini kwehlabathi, bacinga ukuba yonke into lijikeleza kuzo kwakunye nemidla yabo. Unobangela oqhelekileyo oku ukuze ifundise ze nokuzifica yonke ayilawulwa yomfo nomntwana. Ukususela ebuntwaneni umntwana esoloko isetyenziswa ingqalelo nochatha abadala ngakumbi nabazali. Ngokuthe ngcembe ibona ukuba kukho iindlela ezithile enokuchaphazela abadala afumane ukuba azalisekise yonke iminqweno. Xa ubudala, lo msebenzi osemqoka aluphumeleli, yaye luqina nakakhulu. Imfuneko ingqalelo ngaphaya umda ekhaya kunye nothando lwabazali. Umntwana ufuna ukuba kwiziko ingqalelo enkulisa okanye esikolweni, kwintendelezo kwaye kule nkampani. Ngokuthe ngcembe ezi zidingo bakhule ngendlela bokuhlala self-ngoluvo, apho nokuba uthando ukubenza luthatha bahlale ngumntu ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye egocentrism ezelwe. oku kuthetha ntoni ngekamva ubomi babantu? Ukungabikho Uphuhliso ngokomoya nenkohlakalo kwabanye, ukungakwazi ukuseka ubudlelwane abanyanisekileyo ngokusekelwe nokuqondana kunye nothando.

Ukoyisa egocentrism iqala olunengqiqo yomntu ingxaki kunye nomnqweno kumelezeke liyifumane kwakhona. Ukukwazi ukuqonda ukuba wonke yahlukile, wonke umntu nembono yabo kunye nelungelo izithakazelo yayo, anikwe ixesha nzima. Kodwa ke linyathelo eliya kwicala elifanelekileyo. Iintsapho ezininzi, izibini kunye namaqabane zigcinwa ngendlela ubudlelwane babo, obehamba ekuweni kunqandwa ukuba ukuswela ukuqonda kunye nokuzimisela ukujonga imeko ukusuka kwelinye icala.

imfundo eyiyo umntwana akwazi ukuthintela i-self-ukufunxeka. Kuthetha ntoni oku kuthetha ngokwemeko nembono namhlanje ngumzali? Kweli hlabathi amathuba enkulu kunye nabazali zibhuqe kubalulekile ukubonisa umntwana ixabiso ukuthembana phakathi kwabantu, ngokusekelwe nesisa nengqiqo.