Kutheni iphupha lwemivundla, ngokokutyhilwa kwephupha-iincwadi

badla abantu abaninzi baye bazibuza into Waphupha, iphupha. Abantu abaninzi neenkolelo badla ukukholelwa ukuba lo myalezo iphupha ukusuka phezulu iza kuzaliseka, kufuneka nje ukuba ayiqonde kakuhle. Chonga zonke iphupho yinyani kwixesha elizayo, ubuncinane, kom-. Izazinzulu, kwengqondo bakholelwa ukuba amaphupha ethu yinto engento ngaphezu abazakhela ngqondweni wethu, yaye imbono yehlabathi ezaviwayo ngexesha emini. Le ndlela umntu unelungelo lokuphila, kodwa usafuna na ukuyithenga ujongo kwi downers. Mhlawumbi abaninzi wakha wambona ngephupha yezilwanyana. Ngoko ke, abantu abakwazi ukunceda uyazibuza, umzekelo, yintoni aphuphe imivundla? Umvundla ephupheni ibalasele kakhulu, yaye emva utoliko ethi iphupha, oko kudla inxulunyaniswa nempumelelo kunye nokuthantamisa. Kutheni nempumelelo? Imivundla zizilwanyana kakhulu awuzali, le yindlela imibhiyozo amakhulu ka-Ista, apho amaqanda kunye umvundla sikubonisa nentabalala nokuchuma. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe kanjalo ukuba esi silwanyana wamkelekileyo unxulunyaniswa kunye neempawu ezifana ubugwala kwaye kukho uloyiko. Ukuze uqonde into amaphupho imivundla, kusenokufuneka ukuba ufunde ngaphezu kokuba incwadi iphupha, ngoko kuphela uya kuba nako ukufumana umfanekiso opheleleyo. Ukuba nomvundla, ngenxa yobukho yokoyika, ngoko kukho ngokuqinisekileyo nomntu ophembelela ezi mvakalelo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo kuyacetyiswa ukuba ahambe ngenxa yokoyika, kwaye ukudibana naye buqu. Zengqondo ukucebisa kulo mzekelo indlela self-isiqiniselo, nto leyo ethetha into efana - ". Ndinento yonke ufuna woyisa uloyiko lwabo"

Emva elinye utoliko iphupha-books, imivundla siphuphe ukuya soft-zilumkileyo, okanye nesisa. Ezo amaphupha ezimnandi kakhulu, kodwa nentsingiselo yawo positive. Ukuba sele zivelisiwe amandla akho semvelo ngaphandle, ngoko ke mhlawumbi, ukuba nje ixesha ukufihla ekoneni babe Indoda sensitive ngakumbi nokuthantamisa. Imivundla linokuthetha intshukumo ngokukhawuleza, iintshukumo ukuba abadibenanga ngokubanzi. Isicelo ebomini bethu, oko akukho igama nesikhundla sakhe, ilahle ukusuka kakhulu omnye komnye. Kakade ke, bambalwa abantu ikuvumele, kodwa kule meko ke kuyimfuneko ukuba bakhululeke kwaye ayeke ukuba bahlaziye iingenelo izinto ezimbi. Kule meko kuyimfuneko ukuphila ngokuvisisana kumgaqo - ". Uqale ishishini, lwalizisa ekupheleni ' Xa waphupha ukuba umvundla wayidla into, kwaye ngoku uyazibuza ukuba amaphupha imivundla kule ndawo, kungenzeka kwixesha elizayo kufutshane balindelwe uvuyo enxulumene nokuzaliswa yentsapho. Ukuba umvundla belele, ngoko mhlawumbi ngayo ukuba ukuhlukana kunye neqabane lakho. Kukho ngumqondiso: ukuqinisekisa ukuba oku akwenzeki, kufuneka utyale iintyatyambo kunye rhoqo kusasa asile ngeCawa ezinye ikofu, kuhleliyo benika intyatyambo. Kwelinye icala, oko kuthathwa njenge zingqubane ngokuhlonela, kodwa nayiphi na, nkqu ithiyori Amazing unelungelo lokuphila. Xa uphupha ubona nomvundla emhlophe, oko kuthetha revolution happy kwiimeko zemihla ngemihla, njengoko umvundla emhlophe sinokubonisa ukunyaniseka ngumntu omthandayo.

Ngokubanzi, yonke, utoliko ngokwenkcazelo yembali aphuphe kwemivundla, kukho kakhulu kakhulu, bona kuye ngo, ziziphi iimeko kunye nendlela waba umvundla. Ezinye iinkcazelo amnandi kakhulu, umzekelo, xa sele waphupha edlala kunye nokudlala ngeenxa nani imivundla, kulo mzekelo, nceda uya kuba nabantwana. Abanye abantu kube imivundla nemivundla ephupheni kunye nokubulawa neminqweno. Kakade ke, anqwenelela uninzi eyaba nomvundla aphilileyo, nto leyo inxulunyaniswa ubutyebi nolonwabo. Xa ungena liphupha nomvundla, ukuba kukho ulonwabo engalindelekanga. Ekutshintsheni iziganeko ebomini bakhe, bangasoloko kuphela nceda. Amanye amantombazana bakhetha uphuphe malunga nendlela zisitya nomvundla, nto leyo ethetha umtshato. Xa uphupha u sibumba imivundla, oko buyafuneka ukuze wonwabe. Xa upha umvundla, hayi ukuba uthando.