Ukuqinisekiswa kwothando oluya kutshintsha ubomi bakho

Ngaphandle kothando, mhlawumbi, ihlabathi lethu aliyi kuba khona. Kuboniswa kuyo yonke into ejikelezileyo. Kwaye akukho mntu unokusivuyisa, ukuba asiyiyo.

Ukuze athande uthando ebomini bakhe, wayehlala ebusa kuye, kwaye umntu owamthandayo wabonakala waza wabonakala, umntu kufuneka aqonde inyaniso enye elula: umntu kufuneka azithande kunye nayo yonke into ejikeleze, unike umfudumalo kuwo wonke umphefumlo osijikelezayo kwaye uhlale esichazela Uthando.

Ekuqalekeni, kubonakala ngathi kunokulula kunokuzithanda wena? Kodwa ngokwenene yonke into ibonakala ihluke kakhulu. Abantu abaninzi baneenambuzane ezisezintloko zabo abangavumeli uthando luyingenelo ebomini bethu. Ngaba uyazazi amagama anjalo?

- "Andiyidingi mntu (akudingi)"

- "Akunjalo kum"

- "Andiyinto enhle (ayiyinto enhle)"

- "Ndiyatyebile (amanqatha)"

Kwaye-njalo-idatha yokuqinisekisa ngothando kunye nokubandakanyeka kwayo ebomini kuyonakalisa. Bayikrakra lo mzwelo.

Ukuqonda ukuba ubomi bakho buphela kuwe, kwaye ukuba ufanele uzithande, nokuba uyintoni na, uya kuqonda umgaqo obalulekileyo wobomi. Ewe, unokuthandana njani nomnye umntu, ukuba wena ngokwakho awuthandi wena? Ukuba unemiphumo ebonakalayo, ngoko kufuneka uqonde ukuba uluntu luye lwakwenza wena, wena ngokwakho, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo uthathe ntoni na, ziziphi izinto ezingalunganga? Mhlawumbi, ucinga nje. Khumbula "indlela yokubiza umnqanawa - ngoko kuya kuhamba", okufanayo apha, njengoko uzibona ngokwakho, ngoko abanye baya kukubona.

Ukuba uhlushwa ngeengcamango malunga neepounds eziliqela, malunga nokungapheleli komfanekiso - sebenzisana nayo. Zinike imizuzu elineshumi elinesibini ngemini yokuzilolonga okulula kakhulu kwaye kulula, ukuphosa ngaphandle kokutya kwakho okunobungozi - inqatha, i-spicy, usike i-sweet. Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uhambe ekudleni, ungazitshutshisi, yidla nje imifuno, izithelo kunye nosanhlamvu - ubuninzi obufunayo. Uza kuzaliswa, kwaye umphumo uza kuzibona, xa ngokukhawuleza ufumanisa ukuba iintolo zezikali ziwile kakhulu. Kwaye ungacingi ukuba baqhekeza, uvele ube nomphumo wakho.

Kodwa ukuba ufumanisa kunzima ukuzithandayo, makhe senze uqeqesho oluncinane oluya kunceda kule nto. Yithi rhoqo ngezi ziqinisekiso ukuthanda ngokuvakalayo kwaye ubomi bakho buya guqulwa.

Iziqinisekiso ezithandayo uthando:

1. Ndiyimbonakaliso ebalulekileyo yobomi, kwaye ndiyamthanda.

2. Ndiyithanda ngenxa yokuba ndingubani.

3. Ndiyathokoza ngabantu abakujikelezile, kwaye abantu bayonwabile ukundibona.

4. Into endiyenzayo yinto enhle kakhulu. Indlela endibukeka ngayo iyinto enhle kwaye ilungile.

5. Ndingumfezeko wangempela kuzo zonke iziganeko.

6. Ndiyamthanda kwaye ndiyamthanda ubomi bam.

7. Ndiqinisekile ukuba ndiyamtsalana kwaye ndibukhali.

8. Ndingumthombo wangempela wothando, uvuyo novuyo.

9. Ndifanelwe kuphela okulungileyo ebomini, kwaye kunjalo.

10. Uthando luqhelekileyo lobomi bam.

11. Ndizungezwe ngothando.

12. Ndiyamthanda kwaye ndivumele uthando kum ubomi.

13. Ndixhalabele ngamandla omthando.

Unokwenza into enomdla, kodwa into eyona nto kukuba kufuneka ibe yinto enhle, kwaye kuphela ngexesha langoku. Emva koko kuya kusebenza.

Umele wazi malunga nendlela yokutsala uthando ngo-feng shui. Ikhaya lakho lithetha kakhulu, linokukuxelela konke malunga nomfanekiso wobomi bakho. Khumbula ukuba kufuneka ibe yinto ecocekileyo, enhle, apho umntu angathanda ukubuyela kwakhona kwakhona.

Okokuqala, cima yonke i-debris, yenza ucoceko olupheleleyo, uhamba kuzo zonke izinto ukuya kwiinkcukacha ezincinci kwaye uphosa okanye uphume konke ongenakukufunayo. Yaye amagama anjengokuthi "ngeluncedo" okanye "ngemini yokuvula" akufanele azwakale nonke, kwaye ungalindelanga usuku olumnyama, vumela iintsuku eziqaqambileyo zibe phambili. Yaye khumbula ukuba xa unikezela, xa ufumana ngakumbi. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka ulahle yonke into - yazi umlinganiselo.

Misela apho kwindawo yakho yokuhlala, indlu okanye igumbi lisezantsi-ntshona. Leli candelo liyinxalenye yothando nomtshato. Umzimba walo mmandla ngumhlaba, umbala we-terracotta kunye nobomvu. Kufuneka kubekho obomvu obuninzi. Kukulungele ukubeka apha umfanekiso wesibini esithandweni (kodwa kungekho ngandlela-thile umntu!) Kwaye ngokwenene uyavuya - akukho ngcamango embi kunye nemifanekiso, kunye namabhandlela amabini abomvu kwizibane ezikhanyisayo. Ezifanelekileyo kule ndawo ziya kuba zonke iimpawu zothando, kodwa zimbini ezibomvu, iintliziyo, iifestile ezimbini njalonjalo.

Qalisa indawo yakho yothando, cingisisa ngokuqinisekileyo, uthi ukuqinisekiswa ngothando nothando, ngoko ke le mvakalelo yemilingo ayiyi kuthatha ixesha elide ukulinda kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo iza kungena ebomini bakho, kwaye ukuba sele ikhona, iya kuba yomelele kwaye ivuke ngamandla.