Wedding - ukuba ukuba zithethe? Yintoni imfihlelo emtshatweni? Imigaqo Wedding eBandleni Orthodox

Kumsitho womtshato imvelaphi kakhulu yamandulo, yaba emva IX-X iinkulungwane, kwaye umxholo ezintle nje kuphela, kodwa kuthetha enzulu. Wedding - yinto lokukhula abazibandakanya indoda nomfazi phambi koThixo ngenxa phakade kunye ukuthembeka, ukwenza umtshato a umthendeleko, ubhekisela bayondliwa ngokomoya.

Kakuhle eli wedding

Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, ngelishwa, abantu abaninzi ngokungachanekanga ukutolika kakuhle umthendeleko, kwaye ningabaleli imibhiyozo ecaweni njengesiganeko nendlela kwaye ezintle ezinokuthi ndiqaqambe ngosuku lomtshato wamasiko. Ngaphandle kwanokucinga ngento emtshatweni - oku nje usana kunina. Ukuthatha eli nyathelo kufuneka ibe ngabo bakholelwa ingunaphakade komtshato emhlabeni kwaye esibhakabhakeni kuphela. Kwaye ukuba wenze eso sigqibo kunokuba kuphela kungokuvumelana, njengoko isenzo bayazi kakuhle ingqalelo. Asimele silibale ukuba sisithethe eso enxulumene omnye amiswa asixhenxe, nto leyo ekhokelele ubabalo uMoya oyiNgcwele wadlulisela ebantwini, yaye kwenzeka ngokungabonakaliyo.

imithetho wedding

Ukuba, ke, ulwalamano kwi ngeembadada ixesha kuvavanywa, iimvakalelo ezinzulu nomnqweno enze umsitho esikalini kakuhle, ngoko ke kufuneka uqhelane kunye neemeko ezo ezibalulekileyo ukuze umtshato eCaweni Orthodox. IMimiselo ziyabophelela:

1. Isiseko umshado isiqinisekiso somtshato.
2. Indima ephambili usapho inikwa indoda yakhe, ngubani makamthande umfazi wakhe ekondleni. Umfazi kufuneka ndithobele umyeni wakhe ngokholo elungileyo.

Luxanduva nendoda ukugcina uqhagamshelwano kunye nosapho ibandla. Isuke kuvunyelwa kuphela kwiimeko ezingxamisekileyo, umzekelo, ukutshintsha njengeqabane okanye Kwimeko yokugula ngengqondo. Hi ndlela leyi, akwazi kuba ngunobangela ukusilela kuloo mtshato.

Mandulo kwabakho isiko, xa umbingeleli oselula wafaka isicelo malunga emsithweni, nguye ocacise oko kwibhunga kazwelonke, kwaye kuphela emva kokuphela kwexesha, ukuba akukho abantu abangakwaziyo ukwazisa malunga nakwenzeka umtshato, kwabakho itheko.

Inani lilonke malunga nomtshato ebomini babantu ukudlula kathathu.

Yi isiko kuvunyelwa kuphela ubhaptizo abaselula kunye namangqina zabo, ngamnye kufuneka abe umnqamlezo pectoral.

Ukuba omnye isibini esitshatileyo akazi ukuba abhaptizwe okanye hayi, kubalulekile ukuxoxa lo mba kunye nombingeleli. Njengomgaqo, impendulo eyakhayo kunokwenzeka kunye kwemvume abaselula ukuba ukuzala ukukhulisa abantwana, elandela isiko Orthodox.

izithintelo Age: indoda kufuneka ube neminyaka engama-18 ubudala, yaye umfazi ayikho ngaphantsi kwe-16.

Wedding - na isiko lamaKristu lomthonyama, ngoko ke akuvumelekanga ukuba abantu abathi inkolo eyahlukileyo (amaSilamsi, amaYuda, amaBhuda, njl ...), Njengokuba kwakunye kubukho bukaThixo.

Lo mthetho kwi kumtshato kwimeko umtshakazi kunye nomkhwenyana yobudlelwane usapho, nkqu Kwesesine isizukulwana. Kwaye engafunwa Imitshato phakathi godparents kunye godchildren.

Ukuba umntu evela batshatayo wangena ngu-umtshato, wedding akuvumelekanga.

Kodwa iimeko ezinjalo, njengokuba ukukhulelwa umfazi okanye ukuba akukho intsikelelo lwabazali abo batshatayo akukho isizathu sokwala emsithweni,.

Xa kunokwenzeka ukuba aqhube emtshatweni?

Ngokwekhalenda Orthodox, emtshatweni enokwenziwa unyaka wonke, ngaphandle ngemihla Omkhulu yokuHlawula - Christmas (ukusuka 28 Novemba ukuya kwi-6 Januwari), Omkhulu (iiveki ezisixhenxe phambi Easter), iposi Petrova (ukusuka ngoMvulo yesibini emva kwePentekoste de-12 Julayi), ingcamango ( ukusuka Agasti 14 ukuya ku-27), Shrovetide, ngosuku olwandulela kweeholide ibandla elikhulu. emikhosini Wedding zibanjwa ngoMvulo, ngoLwesithathu, ngoLwesihlanu kunye ngeCawa. Kodwa ke, ngokutsho inkolelo edumileyo, ngoLwesithathu nangoLwesihlanu ayifanelekanga ukuba isetyenziselwe umthendeleko. Kwaye kungcono ukuba kumtshato 13.

Kodwa umtshato yonwabileyo na ixesha emva kokuwa soMthetho Wokukhuselwa Ubhaptizo ukuya Shrovetide ubusika, phakathi Petrov kwaye i Dormition Fast ehlotyeni, Krasnaya Gorka entlakohlaza.

Abantu abaninzi bafuna ukutshata ngomhla ligosa sobhaliso lomtshato, kodwa aninako ukubiza kakuhle. Abefundisi bavame ukuphambukisa lo mfana ngenxa yezenzo ezinjalo ngokungxama. Best zonke, xa isibini sitshate kwi isikhumbuzo babetshata okanye emva kokuzalwa kwabantwana. I kamva kwenzeka, kokukhona uya kuqonda esi senzo. lomtshato Unyaka iya kuba sisiganeko ekhumbulekayo, apho kuya kufika olwenu imvakalelo kunye nokuzithemba amaqhina entsapho.

Amalungiselelo wedding

Okubaluleke kakhulu inkqubo yokulungiselela eli isiko wedding eCaweni Orthodox. Imithetho nabo ngoku.

Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenze - kukuba isigqibo nebandla nombingeleli oza kwenza le nkonzo. Oku kunika umdla kakhulu umsebenzi uxanduva, kuba yokuzikhethela ukwenza umphefumlo. Young ebandleni kufuneka ekhululekile yaye sonwabe, nje ngoko yonke le nkqubo iya kuba nexabiso elikhulu ngokwenene. Ngaba iya kuba ibandla encinane okanye yecawa ngobukhulu, kuxhomekeke ikakhulu phezu iminqweno kwamathole lawo, yonke umoya indawo engcwele kakhulu kufuneka kakuhle ukungena nje kuphela kakuhle ngokomoya kulenkonzo, kodwa ukuhlangabezana imeko engqondweni isibini oselula sagqiba ekubeni unxulumanise nakwizibetho zabo ngonaphakade.

Ekubeni uyise, kakhulu, ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuthetha, ukuze kuxoxwe ngemiba sombutho kuphela, kodwa ukuba bajonge omnye komnye, ukufumana into enivumelana - Kukwabalulekile kakhulu isiko. Too ababingeleli abaninzi anikele ingqalelo ekhethekileyo incoko abo batshatayo, ukuba maxa wambi mabacetyiswe ukuba enokulibazisa ukudlalwa kwesohlwayo okanye elinye inkqubo, ngoko icebiso yombingeleli kulalelwe.

Kodwa, into ebalulekileyo, asingabo bonke ababingeleli banelungelo kuqhuba umsitho womtshato, umzekelo, oko Akuvunyelwe ukwenza ukhakhayi nangokuxhomekeke nezithintelo eziphefumlelweyo. Ngamanye amaxesha isiko ngokucelwa isibini oselula unokuchitha umbingeleli ukusuka kwelinye ibandla okanye isonto elithile, umzekelo, ukuba uyise yabo yokomoya.

iinkalo sombutho we isiko

Umbingeleli kuyimfuneko bavumelane ngomhla kunye nexesha apho unikwe ngumtshato Orthodox. Imithetho phezulu ubomi ibandla kulo. Ngamanye amaxesha ebandleni ngexesha inye sitshate izibini eziliqela, le ezincinane kwakhona kuyimfuneko ukuxoxa. Ukuba ukhathazeke ukuba iifoto yomtshato kunye nevidiyo iya ukuchitha abasebenzi bambalwa ukuba akukho ephithizelayo, kwaye ayizange konakalisa yonke msitho.

A kwiveki ngaphambi komtshato namathole kufuneka uqale ukudla: musa kudla inyama, musa ukusela utywala, ungatshayi, ukuba nikhumke neentlobano zesini. Phambi kokuba umsitho sibini kufuneka ukuya unqulo, izono kunye yobudlelane.

Kuyimfuneko ukuba ukuthatha unonophelo kwangaphambili yokuthenga i icon koMsindisi kunye uMama kaThixo, apho limele lingcwaliswe, nemisesane lomtshato, ezo ukuya isiko kufuneka inikwe kumbingeleli, amakhandlela, iitawuli ezimbini ezimhlophe kunye iitshefu ezine. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ngokoMthetho izimiso ibandla kufuneka uthenge amakhonkco ukuba umtshakazi igolide, nesilivere umtshakazi. Njengomthetho jikelele, ekufunyanweni zonke iimpawu eziyimfuneko yabelwa amangqina.

Isithethe yokusetyenziswa kwezi zithethe kwe icons yomtshato kananjalo iingcambu yamandulo zembali. Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, abazali basikelele abantwana babo kunye nokusetyenziswa icon ezingcwele: unyana - uKristu uMsindisi, intombi - uMariya, enika ngaloo umyalelo endleleni efanelekileyo.

Ngokubamba umsitho womtshato kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ushiye umvuzo, imali Kufuneka kwakhona ubuze ukuba umbingeleli. Ukuba abantu abanayo ukukwazi mali ukuhlawula yonke imali ngokupheleleyo, uyakwazi ukubona. Ngamanye amaxesha, le mali eso olusana, kwaye uyise anikele ukunika amalizo ibandla, kangangoko, nto leyo enika ithuba besanda-utshata.

Ukukhetha zamasiko ukuba umakoti

Njengoko for umtshato ilokhwe lomtshakazi ukuba uya kunxiba ukuya kumtshato kwiCawa Orthodox, imigaqo zezi zilandelayo:

• ilokhwe akufuneki ukuba kakhulu ifomu-isilinganisi samanzi okanye elifutshane, kodwa nohlaza kakhulu kwaye gorgeous izinxibo, kakhulu, ngeke isebenze;
• kuyo nayiphi na imeko akufuneki uyihlubile emagxeni, entanyeni okanye ingalo ngaphezu engqinibeni;
• Ungasebenzisa ingubo leyo iya kuhlawulela iindawo ubuze beli umzimba;
• dress kufuneka emhlophe okanye omnye umbala shades luthuthu;
• intloko kufuneka ukuba wayityabeka, isebenzisa isikhafu okanye komkhusane;
• Awukwazi ukusebenzisa eqaqambileyo kakhulu make-up, izele sisiqhumiso;
• endaweni isipha emtshatweni ezandleni umtshakazi ukuba ikhandlela yomtshato.

Kufuneka uthathe unonophelo kwangaphambili malunga izihlangu, izihlangu best akaphenduli ifascia avaliweyo phambi izithende ephantsi, kuba umsitho womtshato ithatha malunga neyure, umtshakazi kufuneka azive ekhululekile ebudeni balo lonke eli xesha.

Kukho lamandulo umdla kakhulu. umtshakazi kufuneka ube enesihlwele elide. Ngokutsho legend edumileyo, i ixesha elide ziya kuba yomtya - ixesha ngakumbi iya kuba abaselula kunye. Ukuba umgca osemsebenzini unganikezelwanga, oko iqhotyoshelwe kuphela ngexesha lomtshato.

Kwakhona, xa mtshato luthatha indawo Orthodox, le migaqo isebenza kuzo zonke iindwendwe inkangeleko langoku. Abasetyhini kufuneka abe iilokhwe okanye iziketi amadolo afihle kwakhona akufuneki denude intamo kunye nezandla, intloko kufuneka ukufihla kunye itshefu okanye isikhafu. Kumsitho, umshado akukho mfuneko phambi zonke iindwendwe emsithweni, kunokuba abantu ngokwenene bakholwe imfihlelo isiko kwaye abhekise kule nkqubo ngentliziyo. Ukuvumelana iziganeko ukuhleleka okunjalo kubhetele ukuba beze, uze kuphela esidlweni.

umshado

Wedding usoloko luqala kuphela emva kwenkonzo. Isiko iqulathe izigaba ezimbini: eyokuqala - uthethathethwano, lomtshato - oku ke lesibini ibakala. Kwixesha elidlulileyo, ukuba yahlukanisiwe ukusuka kwenye nenye ixesha. Emva kokuba sibini amale ukushiya xa kukho isizathu esilungileyo, umtshato unokuba kwenzeka kuphela ukuba iimvakalelo babomelele yaye unyanisekile, ngenxa yokuba indoda nomfazi khetha omnye nomnye, hayi nje ubomi emhlabeni, kodwa ngonaphakade. In umsitho namhlanje, omabini amacandelo msitho othatha indawo ngamini-nye.

amale

Amale ithatha indawo emnyango ukuya ecaweni. Umtshakazi ifumana ukuya ekhohlo umyeni. Umbingeleli ufunda umthandazo, ngoko ke uyalisikelela sibini amaxesha amathathu kwaye ibanika esandleni kwamakhandlela lighted. Kwakhona uthandaza kwaye engaganiweyo amakhonkco abaselula. Amakhonkco ezingaguquguqukiyo esandleni umtshakazi oselula kangangezihlandlo ngesandla kathathu, ngenxa yokuba ngomsesane umyeni legolide likho isandla abaselula, kwaye umsesane wakhe isilivere ngomnwe ngumyeni wakhe elizayo. Kuphela ngoku isibini eso asinakukwazi azibiza umtshakazi nomyeni.

wedding

Umbingeleli ufumana isibini wetempile kwaye umngeni eqongeni phezu itawuli emhlophe. Indoda nomfazi bacelwa ukuba beze nokuba apha yabo yokuzikhethela, akukho iziphazamiso emtshatweni. AmaNgqina ezandleni zeengqukuva nokubamba kwabo phezu kweentloko umtshakazi nomyeni. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba oku lula kakhulu, ingakumbi ukuba amangqina ezimfutshane, abade, abatsha, kwaye umsitho ayikho ngaphantsi kwe amane imizuzu ezicaweni zasezidolophini, kwaye ukuba umsitho ubanjwa woonongendi, uze emva koko ngaphezu kweyure. Ngoko ke, kungakuhle ukuba ukhethe amangqina eziphezulu. Emva komthandazo oselula anyamezela indebe yewayini ukuba basele kathathu njengomfuziselo yokuba ukususela ngoku zonke ziza kwabiwa sibini ngokulinganayo - nolonwabo nobukrakra.

Kuyimfuneko ukuba alumkise lomtshakazi; ngexesha ukusela indebe yewayini inokuba imeko xa isigqubuthelo iya kuba kufutshane kakhulu kufutshane ngasekhandleleleni phemba. Ukuze uphephe oku, kungakuhle ukuba kusengaphambili ukuba ukhathazeke malunga zetepile ubude, ekufuneka ukuba ube mkhulu kakhulu.

Izandla abasandul tie itawuli abamhlophe ukulujikeleza macala eqongeni kathathu. Ngeli xesha, ukucula kwikwayara yecawa. Umbingeleli ukhokela sibini ukuya esangweni loKumkani nesibingelelo ufunda lakheke ubomi obungunaphakade kunye. Emva komtshato, zonke iindwendwe baqale Siyavuyisana abaselula, yaye niya kuva isandi iintsimbi, ephawula ukuzalwa lentsapho oselula.

Ukuba abantwana kufuneka umnqweno kuthimba memory yomtshato elide, iifoto kunye nevidiyo kwenziwa imvume lombingeleli. Into Ilungelo ukuvumelana apho kufuneka umqhubi njengoko kungcono ukuma okanye ukuhamba. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ezicaweni kunye icawa ethile ukukhanya okwanele, ngoko, ukuze nobude umgangatho waphoxeka kamva, kungakuhle ukubhekisela oyingcali elungileyo. Kukho iimeko apho ukudubula kuyathintelwa, ngoko, ukuba ahlale isiganeko engalibalekiyo kumathala usapho, uyakwazi ukuthatha imifanekiso yangasemva yecawa okanye itempile.

le ibekwa

Kukho nenye indlela yakudala, leyo kufuneka zikhankanyiwe ukuze ukwenza zokucacisa zembali - le ibekwa. Eli siko wenziwa ngexesha lokuthweswa le ibekwa yasebukhosini, waza waqalisa kuqala Ivan Grozny. ezantsi kwimbali Crown, nto kulo mzekelo lalisetyenziswa, waya phantsi igama kubo bonke - isivalo Monomakh. izenzo Kufuneka lesiphumo baba bartenders, orb kunye nentonga. Kwaye inkqubo yaba yinxalenye sacral engundoqo okuqulathwe ke chrismation mfihlakalo. Kodwa akunanto yakwenza kumtshato lo mkhosi na.