Nobu wedding

Akukho karhulumente kweli hlabathi 'kuqhayisa' eso sixa elijongene yaminyaka womtshato, njengoko amazwe post-eSoviet. Njengomgaqo, eYurophu kunye namanye amazwe isigqibo sokubhiyozela yaminyaka yonke imitshato kuphela 25, 50 ne 100 yeminyaka.

Mhlawumbi abantu Slavic - abanothando, yaye ke beze nayo phantse zonke ngonyaka zokuhlala kunye emva kokuba iimpawu zazo yomtshato nangeeholide. Eli lithuba elihle lokuba kukhumbuza kwisiqingatha sesibini iimvakalelo zakhe ngaloo mini namnandi xa wenza isifungo luthando nokuthembeka omnye komnye.

Hlukene malunga nomtshato kule minyaka kufuneka nezithethe zawo nexabiso, nangemiqondiso, kwaye nkqu uhlobo nemifuziselo engqinelanayo wachitha iminyaka emtshatweni. Ngale mini, itafile ngeenxa nga iyihlanganise abazali babo, abahlobo nezalamane kuni bantu. Zeholide uneempawu zawo, nkqu izipho, nto leyo yamkelwe ukuba eze ngaloo mini ukuba 'ukutshata "baboniswa.

Ekubeni babehlala kunyaka wokuqala bomtshato ngokufanelekileyo ukubhiyozela unyaka wokuqala - calico yomtshato. Kufunyenwe igama layo kuba indoda nomfazi nangoku bambalwa kakhulu onamava kunye ukuze umtshato wabo nangoku engenamandla kakhulu, ezifana izinto calico, yasiqhekeza lula. Abanye kweminxeba kulo umhla kodwa ngomtshato luyasuyasu.

Hlukene ubudala umtshato ziya kuthanda "omeleze" kwi kwisihloko umbandela, nto leyo ehambisana kunye holide. Kwasekuqaleni isikhumbuzo wesibini kumtshato ekuthiwa iphepha. Ukuphawula iminyaka emithathu zokuphila kunye kuthiwa ngesikhumba.

Emva ukuhlala kunye kangangeminyaka emine, "abaselula" ngokufanelekileyo babhiyozele zelinen yomtshato okanye ngentambo. Ngeli thuba, indoda kwakunye nomfazi sele sazana kwaye "ndikuqhelile" indlela yabo yokuphila, xa kuthelekiswa ne-kwimicu neflakisi, ezo zinxulumene ngokusondeleyo kunye nabanye kwaye bangabi Kulula kakhulu ukuba aphule.

Ngaphambi koku, yonke imihla Akukho nobu elide malunga nomtshato, imigubho nangaphezulu, isizathu yokuqala enzulu ngokuba umtshato ngomthi - ukuba iminyaka 5 umtshato. Tree - lo nto kunzima kakhulu ukuba sesona amandla nentsapho yakhe. Kukholelwa ukuba le engama kufuneka ibhiyozelwa ngokuyimfuneko, abamenyiweyo beze endlwini yosapho kule mini kufuneka anike ngamaplanga izinto indlu. Kungaba ibhodi ukusika, yimani ukutya eshushu, nkqu nesikhonkwane lothuli njengesipho kuya kufaneleka kule mini.

Kulandele lomtshato intsimbi, nto leyo ibhiyozelwa kunyaka-6 abahlala kunye. Eyona nto kukuba intsimbi ingqalelo, ngokuchasene eziphathekayo, kakhulu inkumnkum, kwaye Libonakalisa ntlekele okwenzeka kobudlelwane kwi kunyaka-6 zobomi. Ubudlelwane, ezifana kwesinyithi, ukuze ivale yaye isiba mbi nangaliphi na ixesha.

Usuku Okulandelayo (7), wayebizwa lomtshato zezobhedu. Ndimele nditsho ukuthi nobu emitshatweni baya basoloko amagama ezinxulumene izinto ezixabisekileyo. Kucingwa umhla lomtshato ubhedu yokuqala, nto leyo ezihambelanayo kuphela oluqinileyo, kodwa isinyithi esinexabiso, ukususela ulwalamano otshatileyo iye yazuza ukubaluleka ukuba amaqabane.

Kulandele ithini faience yomtshato, leyo kunxibelelana kwiminyaka 8 no-9 baphila ubomi kunye.

Iminyaka eli-10 sitshatile sibhiyozela isikhumbuzo, ebizwa ngokuba ithini yomtshato. Iindwendwe kule mini kufuneka unikezele naluphi na imveliso eyenziwe etotini. Kukholelwa ukuba le evuthiweyo, ngathi ubudlelwane phakathi couple nezimo kakhulu.

ubudlelwane ezingoomahambehlala yomelela '11 umtshato wamnika igama le holide - kumtshato sentsimbi, ilandelwe yi-nickel - engama-12.

Ngentambo Wedding oluhambisana babehlala kunye kweminyaka eli-13, ngeli xesha, ubudlelwane entsatsheni kwakhona ibhityile kakhulu kwaye ophule nawuphi na umzuzu.

Kodwa ke kunyaka olandelayo, kwixeshana uthathwa ukuba abanamandla kulwalamano. Ukuba amaqabane baye bahlala kunye kangangeminyaka eli-14, asinanto ukoyika, ngoko isikhumbuzo ogama lomtshato neerubhi, ngeempahla zakho.

ubudlelwane ezithembekileyo phakathi amaqabane banikwa igama engama-15 - Crystal yamsitho. crystal ezicocekileyo ekhalayo kuye, nangona kunjalo, ukuba amandla eliphezulu. Oku nabo wathelekisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Ndagqiba ukunika waminyaka akhazimlayo zentengiso: zitsha, iiglasi, njl

iminyaka eli-18 sitshatile kuvela ubudlelwane esimi kakuhle amaqabane, xa bazibonise abantwana, yaye abazali uselula yaye lwamandla, lweholide ebizwa ngokuba "umtshato aluhlaza".

Emva kweminyaka engama-20, babehlala kunye kwakhona kuza ixesha xa kufuneka silumke kakhulu ukunyanga ubudlelwane babo, ngenxa yokuba zibuthathaka kakhulu kwaye inokuba kwakhona nangaliphi na ixesha, "ikhefu", ngoko ke lo mhla ngokuba "porcelain lomtshato."

Kwaye kwakhona isikhumbuzo lomtshato ukonyulwa siyafikelela metal anqabileyo, eli xesha siza kujolisa isilivere, izinto zobunene kwaye luhlala - yomtshato yesilivere - ukuba iminyaka engama-25 kunye.

Pearl wedding ibhiyozelwa emva kweminyaka engama-30 kwelinye. Coral okanye nelinen ndawonye intsapho enkulu etafileni equka abantwana nabazukulwana, eneminyaka engama-35 sitshatile.

Emva kweminyaka 50 ndayichitha emtshatweni ibhiyozela iminyaka, ogama lakhe unxulunyaniswa omnye izinto zexabiso kunye ixesha elide. Wedding Golden kuthathwa ukuba ngexesha leeholide inkulu nebalulekileyo. Abantu abaye baphila ecaleni iminyaka emininzi kangaka, ngokwenene sibe nolwalamano olomeleleyo, ixesha-kuvavanywa kunye neengxaki ezahlukeneyo ubomi.

Ngaphandle kwento yokuba imitshato nobu zilandelayo zinqabile, nangona kunjalo, ukuba azenzeki, kwaye ke ngoko, kufuneka abe nelungelo lokuba khona.

Ukuba awuyazi into ukuze 'ukutshata "kwi iminyaka yabo, amtsale bakhuthazwa igama. Njengomthetho jikelele, ukunika naziphi iimveliso ezenziwe ngezinto elo ligama isiseko iholide yosapho.