Self-idini - ukuba ... Oonobangela kunye esisiseko nokuzincama

Self-idini ... Yintoni unxulumano na unalo igama? Kakade ke, ukuzeyisa ukuphika ngenxa iinjongo ezikumgangatho ophezulu, ubuqhawe, ukusindisa ubomi kunye emi babelinda imilinganiselo yokuziphatha, yokuzincama kunye nesisa. Kunzima ukuba iphikisane. Kodwa ngaba umbingelelo - kuba imbuyekezo ngokunyanisekileyo, ukuba uyakwazi bakubize yokuziphatha kunye nobukhulu komphefumlo? Okanye ngaba zokulwa lobuxoki, usoyiswa? Zama ukuqonda.

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Umbhali enkulu academician Wawongwa Lev Nikolaevich Tolstoy, owayephila kwinkulungwane XIX, wathi kanye ukuba idini - likwimo kakhulu ahlabayo nokuzingca. Ukuba sobulumko olumkileyo, ubeyazi yena uthetha. UTolstoy yabhekisela iinkolelo Slavic: ukususela ekuzalweni ngamnye wethu umnqweno lokuba anikele ubomi bakhe injongo ephezulu. Ngokwemvelo na thina individualists. Ukongezelela, kumazwe Slavic, ziyakhuthazwa sabasiza ukusuka ebuntwaneni umnqweno zizinikele: okulungileyo ummelwane lizwe lethu, iimbono.

Kucacile ukuba sizincame ngexesha lemfazwe ugwetyelwe. Ukuba hayi nabanye wookhokho bethu ngexesha Second World War, akwaziwa ukuba yintoni na iingxaki kunye neengxaki ulindele isizwe sethu. Ke ukuba azincame ngenxa ngumntu omthandayo, nayo abaninzi bakugqala uphawu incasa elungileyo. Malunga abantwana, akunako ukukhumbula: kukho uluvo lokuba umfazi ubophelelekile nje ukubeka ubomi babo esibingelelweni sivumelane kunye neminqweno zabantwana. Nangona zombini zikhule wonwabile esazi ukuba umntu osondeleyo kufuneka ubunzima kuyo.

umbingelelo Osnova

Kukholelwa ukuba isiseko ngeempawu, zokuziphatha kunye neenkolelo luthando. Njengokuba, ingqiqo enzulu ukuzityhala ukuba uqulukubhode: I ufuna ukukhulula azinikele ukuya kwisiqingatha sesibini, abantwana, kwaye kwezinye iimeko nqu nogxa kunye nomsebenzi othandekayo xa iyonke. Kodwa kwengqondo zithi oko yintsomi. Ingxaki bokuzincama ukuba lusekelwe akuthandeki ngokupheleleyo - ukuba ukungaqiniseki kunye noloyiko.

Uthandabuzayo umntu uziva ngaphakathi kwakhe amandla, amandla, kobulembu. Onjalo umntu ucinga ukuba ngokwalo ukuba ayikwazi ukwenza izenzo ezaziwayo, ngoko ke uqala ukuphila impumelelo kunye neengxaki zabanye abantu. Ukongeza, uqinisekile ukuba, ukuba isiphukuphuku, nkqu ixabisa yanelisa yoluntu. Ngenxa yoko, aqale ukulwa kuba indawo omthandayo, lo gama uthatha up ikhadi zabo enemikhono ixilongo - ukuzincama, nto leyo uya umxhalabisa isixhobo yokuntlokothiswa. Ukoyika na ngenxa yokoyika yokufelwa ngumntu omthandayo.

Ukuzingca - isiqalo

Eyona nto ibuhlungu kakhulu eli bali oku kulandelayo: i ngakumbi ukuba sijonge Kaka- sizincame, ngoko kakhulu kubi kuwe. Kungaba nemiphumela zibuhlungu. Khangela - apha imizekelo emininzi: abantwana abadala, lukhulu ukubukelwa ngabazali, musa bakubize kangangeenyanga, yaye umfazi washiya umsebenzi kunye ukuncokola nabahlobo bakhe ngenxa ukunyamekela umzali omnye, ayashiywa ngabayeni babo okanye isiphelo sobomi ubunzima ewolo. Musa ukusondela ukuze aligwebe abancethezi, ngenxa yokuba kule meko, ityala kuphela wena.

Ekupheleni abangenambulelo yeyona ngxaki iphambili yokuzincama. Le iimpikiswano usiva ebantwini zingenakuphikwa: "wabuza Ungubani na?" Yaye baya kuba kulungile. Akuyi kungqiba ancame izinto zabo kunye neminqweno, choice eyenziwe nguwe. Esola, umzekelo, ukungakwazi yomntwana ukuseka ubomi lobuqu lokukhathalela yanaphakade kuyo, cinga ukuba sele udlule kwi emagxeni akhe uxanduva iimpazamo zabo neentsilelo kubudlelwane nomntu wesini esahlukileyo. Yiloo nto ukuzincama - kukuzingca ecocekileyo. Umntu wenza njengoko lula kunye nenzuzo, ngaphandle ndicinga ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuyivala.

Ujungujungu embi

Ukuba umnikelo wenziwa kwinqanaba olunye usapho okanye iqela, hayi isikali yaso ebuhlungu enjalo ehlabathini. Xa abachatshazelwa yi izilangazelelo amagunya enkulu yabantu okanye iqela elikhulu labantu, kungaba nemiphumela ntle kakhulu. Ingxaki bokuzincama, apho iingxoxo ijoliswe ukhuseleko kunye nokulondolozwa into, badla zenza isiseko abanqolobi. Ngapha koko, abo kujongela ngokwabo kwaye nabafo abazizibambiso, bakholelwa ukuba ukufa ngenxa yonqulo.

ngakhanyi kakhulu kwaye kwacaca oku logic bunokubonwa kwizenzo abagrogrisi ukuba Muslims. Amalungu ombutho "ngeerokethi" yaye "Hezbollah", umzekelo, ukubulala amakhulu abantu, musa ukuziva unetyala. Bathi ukuba enze umbingelelo, apho uza kuvuzwa kubomi elilandelayo. Sele kuphela kule mizekelo, sinokugqiba ukuba umbingelelo - akukho kusoloko kukho into elungileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha kunokukhokelela iziganeko ezibuhlungu kunye namaxhoba abaninzi abamsulwa.

iintlobo kukuzincama

iisayikholojisti abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba isenzo esinjalo iyakwazi asinguye wonke umntu. Kwinkolelo ezinye izazinzulu, wadluliselwa ngasedinini lilifa. Oku kuthetha ukuba umnqweno ukuba anikezele ukuphila kwakhe kwabanye abantu babeka kwinqanaba yemfuza. Ligalelo kunye nemfundo: umntwana eyakhulela kwintsapho apho unina unika yonke mali sa, ngokutsho eyabangumzekelo yokuziphatha efanelekileyo, kuba akukho lijongene eyahlukileyo. Yenza ihlabathi kunye nemibutho kutyhefeka kwengqondo, nto leyo kaninzi kubonwa amahlelo yonqulo okanye ezinye uluntu.

Ngaphandle kwenye indawo, ukuzincama lisezingqondweni na yaye oko usebenza kwinqanaba ienjini. Olokuqala ukuqonda umntu exhoba kunye ixabiso ngazo, intsingiselo kunye njongo. Eli joni, ukuwa esifubeni kwi utshaba ndlu, kule imizuzwana zokugqibela zobomi uyazi ukuba izenzo zakhe kusindiswa namaqabane akhe ekufeni ethile. njengofanelwe yintlonelo Loo umbingelelo kukuthi, zobuqhawe ngokwenene. Njengoko kuba zingqondweni, yiyo kanye le meko ukuba sitshilo. Asifanelekanga, engenamsebenzi ukuzincama uba ngomgibe, nto leyo ithi kukho umntu ozama ukulawula ukuziphatha kwakhe kwaye ufuna ukuyeka uphuhliso ngamnye kwi oyifunayo kuye.

Self-umbingelelo iincwadi

Ababhali abaninzi Russian njengoko nokuxubana okwenyaniso, ngokufuthi yachukumisa kule kwiincwadi zakhe. Imizekelo ngomnikelo umkhondo, umz, ku Dostoevsky. Heroine of inoveli yakhe 'Ulwaphulo-mthetho kunye Ukohlwaya "Sonechka Marmeladova kunye Dunya Raskolnikov zizinikele abantu esibathandayo. Iqumrhu yokuqala, intsapho baphile. Unesifo, kodwa babe nelungelo ngisho nokuzibulala banal kufutshane ekhohlo ngaphandle iqhekeza lesonka. Eyesibini uza kutshata i ndithiyiwe, kodwa umntu osisityebi, kuphela ukunceda umzalwana amahlwempu.

Esiye Gorky idla kwimeko yokuzincama. Umzekelo, kwi "Endala Isergil" oko Danko lwalo. hero Romantic, ekukhokeleni abantu emahlathini, wazikrazula esifubeni sakhe waza waphuma intliziyo, likhanyise naye isikhuni, nditsho indlela ecanda ebumnyameni. Abalandeli bamlandela, bahlulwe hi ndlela yo vava. wabulawa Danko, kunye nabantu ngokukhawuleza kakhulu ukulibala iqhawe zabo. Kuvele umbuzo wokuba ingaba oko kuyimfuneko ukuncama? Cinga ngalo ngaphambi kokuba umnikel eyakhe amaphupha neminqweno zabo ezinyaweni komnye umntu.