Psychology kunxibelelwano yeshishini yeshishini yanamhlanje

Ukuze kufikelelwe isiphumo ndakunqwenela kufuneka ukwazi kwingcingane yonxibelelwano zoshishino - kodwa ikakhulu ubugcisa zonxibelelwano. Ongowayo lo art, kokukhona uya kuphumelela. Kule nkalo, le fomyula kulula.

Noko ke, yintoni le lwazi ingaluncedo practice? Apha yonke ilula: njengaye nawuphi ubuchule, unxibelelwano ishishini nako ukuphuhlisa. Oku ikakhulu kukho unxibelelwano, ukutshintshisana ngolwazi phakathi kwamaqela amabini okanye nangaphezulu. Olu lwazi kubaluleke kakhulu ngokukodwa yezingxoxo, yaye ngaloo ndlela, abo ilifa sifundo phantsi kwengxoxo, kwaye uyakwazi ukungenisa ulwazi kunye neembono zabo, babe nako ukuphumeza impumelelo kwingxoxo.

Kule nkalo, i-psychology of thethwano ishishini uba isihloko eyahlukileyo yokufunda, iingcali ezininzi nokuba kuqeshwe iingcali ukuze bancedise kuthethathethwano zoshishino.

Yintoni kwingcingane yonxibelelwano ishishini?

  Ngokwalo lula, le ukukwazi ukusebenzisa ngokwabo, ukwakha zabo zonxibelelwano kunye nabantu, ubuchule ukuzihambisa. Leli khono kubaluleke gqitha ebomini. Abantu abaye babe nazo unako ukuphumelela ebomini balo. Nakuba umntu oya ukusebenza, ziya kusoloko ubunzima ekusombululeni iingxaki zabo kubudlelwane kunye noogxa babo kunye namaqabane zoshishino.

Nakuba kunjalo, izifundo bengqondo unxibelelwano ishishini yonke le mibuzo, ukuba uthi Wasenza ngetalente yendalo akwanelanga, ukubaluleka esikhulu imfundo engakumbi, ulwazi kunye nobuchwepheshe. Oku kuthetha ukuba kufuneka incoko ishishini kunye thethwano ukuze bafunde, bafumane amava kunye isicelo kuyo.

Xa imeko namhlanje ehlabathini, ukuze ukuba unxibelelwano elula ngasekhohlo izolo, ngoku unxibelelwano zoshishino - yinto isayensi olufundwa rhoqo kwaye yaphuculwa. Idityaniswe nezinye izifundo zesayensi, nayo leyo kuzisa into entsha, ukunceda ukuba baqonde ngcono umba. Ngoko enyanisweni kwingcingane yonxibelelwano ishishini hayi kuphela omnye kuphela bengqondo, nangona kubaluleke kakhulu.

Iimpawu zonxibelelwano kunye ezisebenza azinampembelelo interlocutor

  Okokuqala, kufuneka wazi ukuba sonxibelelwano zohlulwa ngokwendidi ezimbini: ngamazwi nangezenzo. unxibelelwano ngomlomo - oku kanye into eyenzekayo ngamazwi, ukuba oko aqhele thina. Nomdla ngakumbi na imbalelwano non-ngomlomo - ulwimi lomzimba, babesima, njl Kuninzi ukuze athi malunga interlocutor, kwakunye ukunika inkcazelo ngawe.

Xa unxibelelwano non-ngomlomo zihlolisiswe imbonakalo yobuso, izijekulo, indlela yokuma, izijekulo, leyo zibonwa kwinkqubo yonxibelelwano. Xa isifundo yonxibelelwano ngomlomo ingqalelo kakhulu ihlawulwa Paralinguistics kunye yokuba - a pronunciation ethile, imvakalozwi yelizwi, isingqisho, kunye nezinye iinkcukacha.

Bebonke, oku kuyanceda ukufumana iinkcukacha ezongezelelweyo malunga interlocutor yakho, ngenxa ka apho izigqibo zingenziwa uwusondeze ityala neqabane apho uya kukuphulaphula. Oku kudla yakhiwe psychology of thethwano, ingakumbi phakathi abaphathi abanamava.

imithetho jikelele yezingxoxo

  Ngenxa yolwazi iyafumaneka, unako ukwenza uluhlu elifutshane lwemithetho ezithathela ingqalelo ongcono ngexesha ukulalana.

- Okokuqala, kufuneka bacinge kwangaphambili umxholo ezingxoxweni, kwakunye nezo imiba ofuna ukuxoxa. Kulo mzekelo, kufuneka ukuba sele uluvo ngomba ngamnye ubone indawo yayo.

- Okwesibini, musa akuyomfuneko ukuzama ukukholisa iqabane lakhe, ngokuba unxibelelwano kufuneka avulekile.

- Ngethuba lomnxeba, kufuneka ulandele zoqhagamshelwano nezibonwayo. Abantu abaninzi abayithandi, ukuba umntu ayikhangeleki kubo.

- Enye into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba le pose. Ebotshiwe umntu labucala ithemba encinane, umthombo siya kuqwalaselwa ukuba into abafihlela yona.

- Kuyimfuneko ukuba iliso unxibelelwano ngomlomo. izindululo zabo kufuneka ngokucacileyo ukwakha, ukuthintela ukubhideka kunye angekho ngqiqweni. Kunokuba elithi "Mna" Kubhetele usebenzise ibinzana elithi "Ngaba ucinga ukuba ...". Akukho mfuneko ukungcolisa intetho yakhe ngala mazwi ezintsonkothileyo, uhlolisiso lubonisa ukuba abantu bakhetha ibinzana elula necacileyo, nokuba bonke abantu abanobuchule kulo mbandela.

Kwezi mithetho kwaye kwingcingane yonxibelelwano yeshishini, esazi ukuba sele ukufumana iziphumo.