Ngaba I guess ndikhulelwe

Ukukhulelwa - alifani ezinye urhulumente ngayo Umfazi xa athe ezininzi ezahlukeneyo amava amatsha, amathandabuzo kunye namava, kwakunye iingcamango rhoqo angelutho. Kodwa bonke nyamalala ngoko nangoko emva kokuzalwa, kodwa kubi ngexesha lokukhulelwa.

Ukuba umntu wasetyhini lowo uyathandabuza, kufuneka kwaphela. Kwangaxeshanye, ziziphi iindlela oku kwenziwa akunamsebenzi. Nokuba yintaba uncwadi isihloko ukukhulelwa, okanye ukubhula - indima idlala akukho. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba abasetyhini abakhulelweyo ukuze bangazi? Impendulo yalo mbuzo iimvakalelo umdla kakhulu. Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ayikho neenkolelo, akunamsebenzi nokuba ucele ukuba zonke nokugquma wakho uya kukuxelela ukuba umntu omdala yaye wenza into ayifunayo, ukuze abasetyhini abakhulelweyo ukuze uyazibuza, nayo yonke enye into - oko ze engevayo.

Abasetyhini sikwimo bafune imali eninzi, nini, ngokutsho kubo, ngesiquphe kunzima. Of umdla kakhulu ikamva usana olungekazalwa. Le nzala mandundu ngakumbi xa ngaba kakuhle. Kulo mzekelo, kunzima kakhulu ukuba ukuxhathisa umnqweno ukuya fortuneteller yobungcali. omama ukwazi kuqala kuwa ngenxa bait.

Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba umbuzo wokuba ukhulelwe ndiyaqikelela ngokwabo fortuneteller musa ukuncoma, ngenxa yokuba nkqu esizalweni, kwaye kukho ukhuseleko ngokwasemzimbeni, umphefumlo umntwana yayisathe asemngciphekweni buthathaka. Ukuba uza kubandezeleka wavumisa kakhulu xa. Ngenxa yoko, i-eneji kubi nokubi impembelelo umntwana uya mabaqhelaniswe esibelekweni. Ezi ukubhula nokumisela ngesondo womntwana okanye sithandabuze ukuba ndikhulelwe, ayinqweneleki kakhulu, ekubeni kunokubangela kwezisu. Yaba kwaye ukuba abafazi, nokuba waziva okulungileyo, Noko ke, emva kweseshoni wabeka esi sifo nje pregnancy.

Sithandabuze ingqalelo izenzo zobugqi, leyo iyangenelela ubomi umntu sithandabuze. Kukho amandla otherworldly kwababezikhonza iimpawu ngeziganeko ezizayo kuthi, ngokubekwa amakhadi zabo. Pregnancy iyafana - lixesha xa umama okhulelweyo kwaye umntwana ongekazalwa basemngciphekweni kakhulu, intsimi yabo yamandla lulula punctured. Ngokusekelwe kwezi zibakala, bantu esazi bayacetyiswa ukuba inxaxheba sithandabuze kweli xesha. Ingakumbi yingozi bengachani abanye, ekubeni naxa ingumbandela ozaliswe ziziphumo ubambekile - unako ngokulula ukutsala ngexesha iingxaki nokuvumisa kunye nezinye sizi lwabantu. Ngoko ke, umbuzo wokuba ingaba guess okhulelweyo kukho impendulo ecacileyo - into categorical "hayi"!

Xa siqwalasela kungokuvumisa kwelinye icala, xa akunazintlobano bengachani yaye uyazibuza, kukho kungekho categorical. Kodwa kulo mzekelo, kukho kuyekela encinane. wemali ithamsanqa ngalinye kufuneka uyazi ukuba ukhulelwe ipropati "ukudubula phantsi" amakhadi iyayitshintsha intsalela yonke. Ngoko ke, ukuze ufumane iinkcukacha ezichanekileyo kule meko kuyingxaki.

Sekwenzekile maxa wambi xa umfazi uyazi ukhulelwe, yaye uza uqikelelo. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba abasetyhini abakhulelweyo ukuqashisela ukuba kule meko? Impendulo engagungqiyo lo mbuzo noba. Nangona ithamsanqa wemali onamava kufuneka ukuqinisekisa ukuba beza nomfazi reception sikarhulumente. Ukuba impendulo ngu-ewe, ngoko kuya wokhanyelwa ukuvumisa. Ngoko ke, ukuba zonke ngequbuliso kwiseshoni yokuvumisa akunalo kunikwa unaloo ngesigxina wakho umdla, ngoko yi abaxeli-mathamsanqa kufuneka usebenzise isibetho ngathi. It ngokupheleleyo sharlatanka.

Ngenxa yoko, nangantoni engile sijonga le ngxaki, ithamsanqa-ukubalisa ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo akufuneki. Cinga ngalo, oko umdla kweli xesha, umama okhulelwe? imiba bayo iza kunxulunyaniswa nokuba ngokusiwa ngumntu okanye ngesondo umntwana elizayo, okanye kunye ulwalamano kunye nomyeni wakhe. Kodwa ke impumelelo efanayo kuyenzeka ukuba isicelo kwezinye zobugcisa, sengqiqweni ngakumbi, ezifana-Psychologist ngumbelekisi. Abazange kuphela ukunceda soyise ixhala, kodwa kwakhona icebise ukuba ukulungiselela ngokufanelekileyo ukuze ukufika komntwana entsatsheni. Zonke endinxunguphala ngexesha efanayo shwaka. Ngapha koko, impilo ikamva umntwana ibaluleke ngaphezu eyayimele yenzeke iingqikelelo isiqinisekiso.