Ndingakhetha njani iingxowa zamantombazana?

Ngandlela-thile iminyaka idlulile ingabonakali kwaye ihamba ngokukhawuleza, kwaye intombazana yakho encinci ye-pink-cheek yaba ngumntwana osemtsha, malunga nomntu omdala, onombono wakhe ngezinto ezininzi. Uthetha ngokuphathelele incwadi ayifunayo, kwaye ukucinga kwakhe akusoloko kufana neyakho, uphinda uchaze imeko ethile esikolweni, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uyamangalisa. Kuyafana okufanayo ngefashoni. Ngeli xesha "lokukhula", kunzima ukuba abazali bafumane ulwimi olufanayo nentombi yabo. Kwaye oku akusebenzi nje kuphela kwiingubo, kodwa kunye nezixhobo, izimo zengqondo kunye nokuzenzela.

Abazali kweli xesha elinzima bafanele baqonde kwaye bamkele ukuba umntwana wabo ukhulile, kwaye ke ngoko yonke intengo kufuneka yenziwe emva kokuxoxa naye. Namhlanje asiyi kuthetha ngeengubo. Siza kuxubusha ukuthengwa kwezinto eziphathekayo, oko kukuthi iingxowa zamantombazana asetsheni. Thenga into enje ngoku akulula, kwaye kungekhona ngenxa yokuba akukho nto inokukhetha. Ngokuchasene noko, i-assortment yabo inkulu kakhulu.

Izikhwama zamantombazana asetsheni zihlala ziqulunqa kwaye zilolu hlobo. Zihlotshiswe ngeempendulo ezimnandi, kuba kule minyaka abantu baphupha ukuba baphume ngokuchasene nemvelaphi yabo ontanga, jonga umzobo kunye nosuku. Intombi yakho iqalisa ukwakha isitayela sakhe, esifanele simelane nomlingisi wakhe kwaye, kubalulekile, njengaye. Ngaphandle, abazali abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba kule minyaka imantombazana ayayiqondi imfashini. Bonwabile ukugqoka iimfolokhwe zangasese zaseKitty, ezingabonakali kuphela ukusebenza, kodwa ziyanandipha kunye nezicelo ezihle kakhulu, imibala ekhangayo, i-sequins kunye ne-sequin.

Kubalulekile ukuba iikhonkco zamantombazana asetsheni zixhotywe ngokukhishwa kwekhwalithi. Izinto eziphambili ezivela kuyo umveliso kufuneka zihlale zizinzile kwaye zilula ukucoca.

Kukho iintsuku apho iikhwama zesikolo zentombazana ezishumi elivisayo ziyimfuneko ebulula. Namhlanje le yindlela yokuzibonakalisa. Izikolo ezininzi namhlanje zineendlela eziqinileyo zokugqoka: i-blue blouse, ingubo emnyama. Ngokumalunga nalokhu, umntwana usemncinci ithuba lokuzibonakalisa ngoncedo lweempahla. Kwaye oku kuyimfuneko kumntu omdala. Emva koko, ukhangele ngokwakhe, uzama kwimifanekiso eyahlukeneyo. Yingakho isikhwama sibe sisigxina, esinokunika ubungqina bokuqala. Iikhompysi zesikolo eziseSylish 4YOU zenzelwe ulutsha kunye nabafundi abaphezulu abafuna ukuphuma, bagxininise ngabanye.

Ungakwazi ukulandelela ezinye iintlobo zefestile ezidibanisa amantombazana aselula. Abaninzi babo bakhetha iingxowa ezinokugqithwa phezu kwegxalaba, kunokuba imodeli eneempendulo ezimfutshane. Enyanisweni, oku kuya kuchazwa ngokulula. Iimpawu zeBaggu, mhlawumbi, ziyaziwa kakhulu kule klasi. Ukongezelela, iimveliso ze-Hama (eJamani), i-LycSac (iGrisi), i-Walker (e-Austria) iyafuneka.

Umgaqo obaluleke kakhulu: xa uthengela iikhwama zamantombazana asetsheni, phulaphula uluvo lwabo kwaye ungabathethi kubo into abangayithandiyo. Ukuba izimvo zakho kwizinto azifani, zama ukuxubusha iingxabano zakho kwintombi ngokuhlakanipha nangokunokwenzeka.

Ngonyaka wezemfundo we-2013-2014 ngefashoni, iibhegi ezithandwayo zamantombazana (iifoto ozibonayo kweli nqaku) zemibala ekhanyayo, kunye nombala obomvu obomvu.

Musa ukucinga ukuba ubomi bentombazana ngumsebenzi oqaqambileyo esikolweni. Intombi yakho iya kudibana nabahlobo, ukuya kwixesha lesibini esikolweni, ngoko uhlangothi lwakhe oluhle luya kufuna imfolokhwe ehlakaniphile eya kugxininisa ubuhle bentombazana. Le ndlela yokufumana ifowuni makakhethe yena. Kufuneka afunde ukuqonda ukuba yeyiphi isikhwama esifanelekileyo.