Imoya yentlalo: iinkolelo eziba zizenzo

Kunzima kakhulu ukuchaza ubunyaniso bobudlelwane babantu - into yokuphanda iphosa . Kunzima kunzima ukuchaza inxalenye yentlalo yolwalamano lwabantu, kunokungaqondi okanye ukungaziphathi kakuhle kolwazi. Nangona kunjalo, ezinye iindlela kunye neengcamango zengqondo yoluntu ziye zaphuhliswa. Injongo yabo kukuqonda nokuchaza indlela yokuziphatha komntu kuluntu.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuziphatha kuqala ngeenkolelo. Abaphandi baye benza igama elithi "indawo yentlalo" kwindawo ephambili yokuqonda ukuziphatha. Yintoni na?

Oku kuyilwazi okanye engaziwayo, kunokuba yinkimbinkimbi ekwakhekeni kwengqondo, ebudlelwane nabantu, izinto, iziganeko. Akuyena wonke umntu onokuphendula umbuzo othi "Yintoni isimo sakho sengqondo?", Kodwa izimvo zenza yonke into. Akunalo lonke uluvo olunokuthi lucinge ngolu hlobo, kodwa luhlala luzinzile (kumntu onikwe).

Njengoko sele sichazile, "isimo sengqondo sengqondo" sisicatshulwa esiyinkimbinkimbi. Ikwahlula ezintathu eziyinxalenye.

Okokuqala, uvakalelo. Oku kuthetha ukuba oku okanye loo nto okanye umntu uhlala ebangela uhlobo olufanayo lweemvakalelo. Eli candelo libaluleke kakhulu kubapolitiki abafunda indlela yokukholisa abaphulaphuli. Ulwazi luya kuba luncedo kumphathi, isimo sakhe sengqondo sithintela inzuzo kunye nokunyaniseka kwabasebenzi.

Okwesibini, icandelo lokuqonda. Ngokwahlukileyo, le mpawu yomzwelo, oku kuphantse kukho ngokupheleleyo kwiinkalo zeengcamango ezingabonakaliyo. Xa ukwenza uluvo, ufumana ulwazi malunga nenjongo yoluntu, umfanekiso wesimo wenziwa. Ukuba isimo sengqondo somntu ngokubhekiselele kule nto sibi, ngoko ulwazi oluthi umntu unqwenela "ukucoca" luya kuba lubi. Siyakwazi ukuphawula iimpawu ezimbi, ukuba ngokubanzi kusekwe ukukhishwa kunye nokukhanyela. Ngokwahlukileyo, ukuba sihlelwe kakuhle, imifanekiso yokucinga iya kuba nefuthe.

Okwesithathu, inxalenye yomsebenzi ibalulekile. Ukuqhelaniswa koluntu ngobuntu kumkhuthaza ukuba asebenze ngokuhambelana nezimvo zakhe kunye nemibono yakhe. Kakade ke, akunakwenzeka njalo ukuba kwenziwe ngokuhambelana nokufakela, kodwa ngokubanzi kunokwenzeka ukuqikelela ukuziphatha komntu ngokusekelwe kwienkolelo zakhe nezimvo zakhe.

Izicwangciso ziphuhliswa kwaye ziba nzima ngakumbi ukususela ebusaneni kuze kube sebudala, zininzi izinto ezichaphazela kakhulu ukubunjwa kwezi zixhobo kwi-psyche.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu kwiminyaka yokuqala yempembelelo yabazali . Kule meko, umntwana udla ngokucaphula abazali. Umzekelo, "Ubawo uthi bahluphekile, kutheni bafanele babe ngabahlobo"? Xa abantwana bekhula, baba ngathi bazimeleyo. Kodwa uphando lubonisa ukuba iingcamango zonqulo nezopolitiko zabazali kunye nabantwana abadala abakunqabile.

Njengoko uqokelele, ixesha lokuhlaziywa okubalulekileyo kokuqala kuqala. Kuphela kwiminyaka eyi-12 ukuya kwe-30, kwaye emva kokuba izicwangciso zentlalo zize zitshintshe. Ngoko ke, abantu abaselula banokuguquguquka ngakumbi kunabantu abaqolileyo.

Impembelelo yontanga iqala ukwenza isantya kwaye ingaba yinto ebalulekileyo ixesha elide.

Inkalo yokuqonda ibaluleke ngakumbi. Kakade, iimeko zentlalo yabantu abaninzi kangaka zenziwa ngumabonwakude, kodwa iindlela ezininzi ezizimeleyo zinokwenzeka - uhlalutyo oluzimeleyo lwamaqiniso, umzekelo.

Umbandela wemfundo -ephakamileyo izinga lemfundo, i-liberal ngakumbi yimibono yomntu, igweba kwiinkalo ezininzi. Ngokubanzi, kukho iingcinga ezilungileyo phakathi kwabantu abanolwazi oluninzi. Okungaziwa ngokuqhelekileyo kuyabalisa umntu.

Into ebalulekileyo yokutshintsha ukufakela yinkalo yokuqonda. Emva kokufumana iinyaniso ezintsha, umntu unokutshintsha ingqondo yakhe, nangona oku kuyinto engavamile.