"Uthando lwabazali" - isincoko umxholo kakulu, kuzo kuphela

"Uthando lwabazali" - isincoko ubeka abafundi babhale izikolo becala zaseprayimari nasesekondari. Abafundi besikolo samabanga aphakamileyo "sikhule" liphuma isihloko, kufuneka into engakumbi "enzulu", kodwa ngenxa 7-, 8-, 9-ugrade wayeza kuba umsebenzi olungileyo ithuba ukubonakalisa.

Yintoni ukubhala?

Lo mxholo linzulu kakhulu, ngaphambi kokuba uqalise ukubhala, kufuneka ucinge kakuhle phezu umxholo. iingcinga ezininzi, kodwa kungcono ukuba angamchukumisi - kodwa ngumba eyahlukileyo. Kumxholo othi "Uthando lomsebenzi lwabazali kuba nantoni na, kodwa kaninzi ke yona ingqiqo.

Ngokuba kuhle ukuba uqale ingxelo. Uyakwazi ungeno ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: .... "Bazali - oku ngabantu abaninzi kakhulu ebomini bethu kuba ngabo abo bakunye nathi ukususela ngomhla wokuqala Abazali ubomi ukusinika ebuntwaneni, isinxibo, ukufundisa, ukufundisa Bona - yonke into umntwana wakho ukuba ekhula ngaphandle kwabazali, le ilishwa enkulu, ekubeni kuyimfuneko ukumelana nemingeni ukuba ngokuzimeleyo isigqibo nje ngqiqweni. badla ukunceda abazali. ngenxa yokuba umntwana lowo hayi, kuba nzima. " Kakade ke, lo entry ayikho omhle kakhulu, kodwa yenye yeenketho kunokwenzeka kuphela.

Ithemba nenkxaso

"Uthando lwabazali '- umsebenzi ifuna ingxoxo ngakumbi. Le yenye izihloko ambalwa onokuyenza ngaphandle imizekelo ezithile zobomi. Kufuneka ube entle engabonwa.

mbono yombhali kufuneka kuchazwe ukwenzela ukuba umfundi akwazi va uthando lwakhe intsapho yakhe. Unakho ukubhala ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: "Bazali, nokuba mhlawumbi, kuya kusoloko kukho inkxaso ethembekileyo umntwana wakho kangakanani mhlawumbi iminyaka - 5, 18, 25, 50 ..., kuxhomekeke ekupheleni imihla yabo iya kuhlala kubo. lo mntwana. abazali basoloko ukulungele ukunceda, ukuxolela nokwamkela. akukho nto ehlabathini ngaphezu bayamthanda. yaye naxa umntwana eshiya intsapho, ukuba ngendlela abadala abazali bakhe uya kusoloko ukukhathazeka ngaye, nokukhusela. "

Iingcinga baninzi, kodwa ukuze bakwazi umdla womfundi kufuneka ugxininise enye, bakwazi ukubonakalisa kulo uthando lwakhe abazali bakhe. Kokuqamba ulichule umdla, ukuba ubhale ngokunyanisekileyo nangokusuk 'entliziyweni. Oku kufuneka kukhunjulwe.

phakade

La magama mabini - kuba yintoni eyona uchaza ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu ababini kumntwana wakhe. Kodwa ke, abantwana nabo xa ebona abazali babo. Ngaphezu koko, amanye amava umama kunye notata kangaka iimvakalelo ezinamandla ezingekho ngaphandle ubomi babo jikelele. Oku uthando lokwenene kubazali babo.

Isincoko iincwadi ezibhaliweyo ngalo mbandela, kufuneka ugwetyelwe. Kodwa ke kule meko ukuthethelela ingcamango yabo ilula kakhulu. Ngenxa yokuba akukho mfuneko ukuba ukungqina nayiphi theorem ngokomsebenzi, kodwa kuphela uthando lwabazali. Isincoko-ngxoxo oku kuya kunceda.

Indlela engcono ukubhala? Ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: "Ethetha ngalo mbandela, ndingathanda ukunixelela buqu ngam Abazali bam - intle kwihlabathi Xa kunjalo, kuba mna, Ewe, siya kwenzeka engqeleni, yaye ngamanye amaxesha abaqondi omnye .... kodwa oku - nje umsantsa isizukulwana enyanisweni, enoba indlela baba noburhalarhume omnye komnye, kodwa kuza ixesha yoxolelaniso phakade abazali bakhe - .. yiloo nto ugqithayo nam ukusa kwinqanaba lokuba acele uxolo Kakade ke, -. kakhulu nto ixabisekileyo ebomini bam singafani nabo -. bekungayi kuba mna wayeza ".

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ukufumana amagama

izincoko Ukubhala uyakwazi ukubonakalisa uthando lwabo nabazali babo. Isincoko apho iingxoxo kufuneka zicaciswe lula iphezulu (kodwa hayi kwi izinto okanye uluhlu - nangoku hayi umsebenzi zohlalutyo kunye nexesha lokuphola), uyacebiswa ukuba ukubhala ulwimi lula kwaye elula ukuba kumnandi ukufunda.

Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba isincoko - uhlobo simahla apho umbhali ubonisa indawo yakhe, nokubethelela kuphela imizekelo yawo. Abanye - a inkululeko epheleleyo. Kufuneka unamathele nje ukuya kuhlolwa intshumayelo kunye, ke, iipateni design eqhelekileyo. Kwaye uyazi ukuba nkcukacha zomfundi ngamnye - ke nokonyulwa izihloko, intshayelelo, inxalenye ephambili (umxholo) kunye nesiphelo leyo ibeka yonke ingongoma oko umbhali wathi ngaphambili. Kodwa - hayi ukuba likhulu umthamo isincoko. Kuphephe amanzi kunye namagama ezingeyomfuneko - ukuba isincoko uya ngamafuphi, enentsingiselo, umdla, yaye elide iya kuhlala kwimemori yomfundi.