Ukuzibulala ngokuzibulala: Izizathu, imizekelo

Ukuzibulala yinto echaza ukuphela kokuzithandela kwezinto zobomi bomntu. Ukuzibulala kwabantu - imeko apho ngelo xesha, iqela lezinto eziphilayo liphazamisa ubomi babo ngokuthanda. Ngokuqhelekileyo sisebenzisa le ngcamango ebantwini, kodwa akubonakalisi nje kuphela. Yithi, izazinzulu ziyakwazi ukuxelela ezininzi malunga nokuzibulala okukhulu kweemikhomo eziphonswa ngaphesheya komhlaba. Izizathu zalo msebenzi azange zicaciswe ngokuzeleyo kulolu suku.

Umbono jikelele

Ukuzibulala ngokuqhelekileyo akuqhelekanga kunokuba yedwa, kodwa, njengoko bethetha, "uphalaza khona". Sekude ube nxaxheba kwiimeko, akunakwenzeka ukuba uphume kuwo. Kodwa enye inezibalo ezintle. Njengoko izazinzulu zithi, uninzi lwabantu abazama ukuphula ubomi babo, basinda. Nangona kunjalo, umngcipheko wokuphindaphinda kwimeko iphezulu. Phantse ukuba bonke abo bazibulala baphumelele, kukho umzamo ongaphumeleli phambi kwayo.

Njengoko oogqirha bathi, nayiphi na into yokuzibulala, ubunzima (abatsha, umzekelo) kuquka, kufanelekile ukuba ingqalelo kwiingcali. Ukongezelela koko, iimeko ezingatshatanga zifanele ziphathwe ngenyameko, ngokugqithiseleyo kumntu, kodwa abantu abasinda kwiqela lokuzibulala bafanelwe indlela ekhethekileyo kungakhathaliseki ubudala, isimo senhlalakahle, impumelelo, ukuziqonda. Wonke umntu ufuna uncedo lwagqirha.

Umngcipheko uphezulu

Kuye kwaziwa ixesha elide ukuba kukho abantu abanokuzibulala ngaphezu kwabanye. Akukho mfihlo yokuba kukho imibutho, amaqela apho abantu babhalisiwe khona, balungele ukuzibulala - abangatshatanga okanye kwiqela. Kukholelwa ukuba umngcipheko omkhulu phakathi kwabasetyhini, njengoko benza imizamo emininzi. Nangona kunjalo, abafazi bodwa bahlala bekhetha iindlela ezingafaniyo, ngoko ke inani lokufa kubantu likhulu. Njengoko bathetha, isondo esomeleleyo xa sishaya, ngoko ngokuqinisekileyo.

Ngexesha elifanayo, abantu abaguga baninzi baphelisa ubomi babo bobubele. Utshintsho luvele kuphela ekupheleni kwekhulu leminyaka elidlulileyo, xa indawo yokuqala iqhekeka abaneminyaka eyi-15-24 ubudala. Ukuba ngaphambi kokuba uluntu lungazi umxholo wokuzibulala kwabantwana, ukususela ngelo xesha bonke abazali bayazi malunga nalo (okanye bafanele bazi).

Ukuzibulala nokubangelwa ngumntu

Inzululwazi ezininzi zithi ukuzibulala okukhulu kwemikhomo ebomvu kubangelwa ngumntu. Kucingelwa ukuba akukho konke utshintsho olungagunyazisiweyo lobomi, kodwa kuphela ukulahleka kokuqhelaniswa kwendawo. Kwaye oku kungenxa yokungcoliseka kwendalo kunye nokungenakwenzeka kokuchithwa kwezinto ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Iingcamango ziphikisana, zinabalandeli, abachasi.

Kodwa ukuba izizathu ze technogen ziyakhupha umntu ukuzibulala, ixesha elide alizange alityelele ingqalelo. Ukuguquka kwaba ngowama-2011, xa kwenzeka ingozi enkulu enkulu eJapan, isityalo senyukliya "Fukushima-1" sahlupheka. Le meko yabangela ukufa kwabantu abangama-55 ngomnyaka ofanayo, ngaphezulu kwe-24 kwinyanga elandelayo, kwaye ngowama-2013 kwesi sizathu, ubomi be-38 eJapan babuyeka. Inkoliso yayingamadoda. Izibalo zibonakalisa ngokucacileyo ukuba emva kweminyaka yokukhathazeka kwengqondo, ixhotyiswe ngengozi ezinjalo, iqhubeka ihluthe abantu.

Inkolo nokuzibulala

Ngokwesiko, iMelika lizwe apho ingxaki yokuzibulala ayinamahloni ukuthetha ngokuvakalayo. Indlela yobomi, iimpawu ezizimeleyo zesakhiwo somphakathi, umcimbi weendaba, ezithintekayo kwizihloko ezithengwa, kuye kwaba isizathu sokuba kukho ukuzibulala kukujoliswe kuyo. Yintoni esinokuyithetha malunga nemizamo eyadibanisa iqela labantu? Ngenxa yoko, namhlanje ihlabathi lonke liyazi ngokuzibulala okukhulu eGuyana, ukukhathazeka ukuba amaphephandaba ehlabathini lonke abhala ngayo ngamaphepha angaphambili.

Oku kwenzeka ekwindla ka-1978. Abadlali abakhulu bangama-secctari "yeNdlu yeZizwe". Emva koko abantu abangu-918, kuquka nabantwana, bafa ngexesha elinye. Phakathi kwezidumbu zafunyanwa iintsana. Kwiminyaka yeshumi elinamashumi amabini anesixhenxe, kwimeko enokuthiwa yiyona edumileyo. Kwimiba emininzi, ngokuchanekileyo ngenxa yeli ganeko nawaphi na amacandelo aqala ukuphazamiseka kakubi, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bahamba njani. Ibali kunokuba lidideke, kwaye nanamhla, ngaphandle kwegosa, kukho ubuncinane ezintathu iinguqu zokuphuhliswa kweemeko. Enyanisweni, umntu uxela izigqeba iziganeko kunye neenkonzo ezikhethekileyo ezizicwangcise idolophu encinane kubantu abayiwaka. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi abantu bathambekele ekucingeni ukuba isizathu esisekhokeli senkolo, owathi emva kokuphikisana nabasemagunyeni belizwe, wanquma ukuphelisa ubomi bakhe, kungekuphela kwakhe, kodwa i-commune ngokubanzi.

Kwaye namhlanje?

Nangona kunjalo, akukho ndawo, kodwa kwindawo yaseRashiya kuphela, kwimeko ebizwa ngokuba ngamaqela okufa. Kwakunokwenzeka ukubonakalisa, njengoko inkolelo esemthethweni ithi, uluntu kwiintanethi zentlalo, ukuqalisa ukuzibulala kwabantwana. Kukholelwa ukuba abantu abasemva koko abafumani nantoni na, kodwa banceda abanye - abo bafuna ukuphazamisa ubomi babo, kodwa abakwazi ukuzibamba isibindi. Nangona kunjalo, esi sikhundla sabo, sichazwe khona, kwiintanethi zentlalo. Akunakukwazi ukuphuma ngokoqobo, kuba izenzo ezenzileyo ziphulo-mthetho.

Imeko eyenza ukuxhaswa koluntu kunye namaqela okufa akhangele ingqalelo engafanelekanga. Ngokwabanye abahlalutyi, abahlali abahlali nje babangele ukuphazamiseka kwimeko yengqondo yabantwana, kodwa kwabangelwa nokuzibulala. Ubuncinane abantwana abangama-130 kunye nabaselula abaswele. Nangona kunjalo, amanxibelelwano asekuhlaleni awafihli nje kuphela iRashiya, kodwa nakwabanye amazwe, kunye nabantwana banamhlanje banako ukukwazi "ukutshitshisa imizila", kubandakanywa kwi-Intanethi. Oku kuthetha ukuba abantu abaninzi banokubandezeleka.

Iingcamango zokuzibulala kwabantu

Kukho imithombo emininzi eqinisekisa ukuba ukuxelisa ukuzibulala kungabangela ukuzama ukuzibulala kumaqela abantu. Eyona nto ingenakunqandeka kulo mzekelo intsha. Uphando olubhaliweyo lukaKarstensen, uPhillips, olunikezelwe kwesi sihloko, lwapapashwa ngo-1986. Ngokukodwa, basungula uxhulumaniso kunye neenkqubo zethelevishini kunye neendaba. Eyona ndlela ininzi iprogram yabaselula ibona, ukuphakama kwamaxesha okuzama ukuzibulala.

Ezinye iindaba ziye zabakhokelela abantu kwiimeko ezingazinzileyo. Ngoko, ukuzibulala ngokubanzi kwaqatshelwa ngokuphathelele ukufa kukaMarilyn Monroe. Enyanisweni, oku akusihlandlo yokuqala, xa umculi uthintela abemi abathintekayo ngokwengqondo. Ngaloo ndlela, nangona uGoethe omkhulu, owashicilela ngo-1774 Iintlungu zoLutsha uWerther, wafumana uxanduva lokushukunyiswa. Ukugqithiswa komsebenzi eYurophu kwakunzima, kodwa ngelo xesha kwaba nefuthe elibi - ukuzibulala ezithintela kakhulu abafana. Oku kwacaphukisa nokuqaliswa kwekota elitsha - "i-Werther effect". Namhlanje, kuqondwa njengempembelelo elandelelisayo eyenza ukuphazamiseka kokuzithandela kobomi.

Impembelelo kaWerther

Le nto iye yagcinwa nanamhla, nangona uluntu litshintshile kakhulu ngexesha elidlulileyo. Izibalo zibonakalisa ngokucacileyo ukuba ubude bokuzibulala buphezulu, ngakumbi kubonakaliswa kumaphephandaba. Kwakhona, izazi zengqondo ziyazi: xa kwindawo ethile ethile (umzekelo, isikhungo semfundo) umntu uyazibulala, kukho ukuphakama okukhulu ukuba abanye bangaphinda benze umsebenzi wakhe.

Ukuqhawulwa yindlela yokusingatha kwengqondo, ngokukodwa impawu yabantwana abaselula njengengcinezelo yengqondo, amalungu angabonakaliyo kuluntu. Kodwa phakathi kwabo abaneminyaka engama-21 ubudala nangaphezulu, amathuba okuphazamiseka kobomi ngenxa yempembelelo kaWerther incinci kakhulu.

Psychology kunye neMithetho

Kwaye nanamhlanje akukho sikhundla esisodwa sokuba izazi zeengqondo, iingqondo zamazwe ahlukeneyo, kunye neengcali zomthetho, zilandelwe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kubonakala ngathi siyadinga iindlela zokulawula amaphephandaba, iimpapasho ezikarhulumente ezahlukeneyo, njengoko zisetyenziselwa kumanethiwekhi asekuhlaleni, ukwenzela ukunciphisa umgangatho we-Werther ubuncinane. Ngelo xesha, kukho amalungelo kunye nenkululeko evakaliswe ngumGaqo-siseko, kunelungelo lokuthetha kunye nenkululeko yokuzikhethela, engavumelekanga kuluntu lwentando yesininzi yanamhlanje. Oku kubeka abagwebi ekupheleni kokufa - njani ukusindisa abantu abancinci kwaye bangabangela umtsalane wokubhikisha?

Mhlawumbi, ngolunye usuku le ngxaki iya kufumana isisombululo sayo. Okwangoku, sifanele sifunde kuphela iimeko zokuzibulala ngokuzibulala, ezaziwa kwiimbali zabantu, ukuba zitywantwe yiyo kwaye sizikhusele ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwezenzo ezinjalo. Ngaphandle koko, thobela kwaye unakekele abanye-ngegama, uluntu. Akumangalisi ukuba izazinzulu kwi-chorus zithi ukunyuka kwenani lokuzama ukuzibulala kubangelwa ngumntu ohlala kwintlalo. Ewe, sininzi, kodwa sihlala kude. Mhlawumbi oku kungumngcipheko we ntlekele.