Kutheni kukho intiyo yabantu, alwe njani

Wonke umntu uyayazi lo esithandwayo, abolekwe i "Bible" malunga yokuba kufuneka ukuba umthande ummelwane wakho, oko kukuthi, umntu ngokwengqiqo ebanzi yeli gama, njengokuba wena. Kutheni le nto nje ngoku ngokufuthi ke akabaxwa kumajelo eendaba, kwaye nkqu intetho eqhelekileyo yemihla ngemihla?

Ngenxa ngakumbi yaye ngokufuthi ngakumbi kuluntu lwethu ezothusayo ukuba intiyo yabantu phezu ekupheleni! Freaks, iindlamanzi, ezigcwele - kucacile, ukuba zonke izifundo kunye abagula ngengqondo. Kodwa ngoku ikhula kwemisinga ezahlukeneyo apho isixhobo wentshabalalo ngokwabo andithandi abantu nje eqhelekileyo, kodwa kuthiwa yokuziphatha "eyiyo".

Ngokomzekelo, omnye subculture ulutsha, ogama amalungu ibizwa ngokuba streyteydzherami, ngokwemithetho yokuziphatha yabo ukwala evela iziyobisi kunye notywala, ukutshaya kunye neentlobano zesini ngaphandle uthando. Bamdumisa ukunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka kunye nentlonipho kubadala, ekhusela amalungelo ezilwanyana kunye nendalo. Konke oku, Kakade ke, esincomekayo kakhulu. Kwaye nkqu akucaci ukuba yintoni na incoko luqhutywa yaye phi na intiyo yabantu. A lwalamano kakhulu ukuba asinguwo umgca othe ngqo.

Ingakumbi ezingcwele kwiingcamango indlela yokuphila esempilweni kunye nokukhuselwa izilwanyana yenze biocentrism anamandla ukuba baqalise ukwenza izinto mthethweni ukuze utshintshe zonke ngeenxa zonke kuwe. Bona iivenkile besaphula, leyo athengise inyama okanye noboya, nibatyumze nje abantu ifi phambi kwabo okanye basela. amaphulo enjalo aphela rhoqo nge yokulimala kwaye nokuba nesiphumo ngokufa komntu. Ngokwabo njengamalungu mbutho bakholelwa ukuba lowo ungenaye uyazixabisa ubomi babanye (umzekelo, inkuku okanye intlanzi), yena akandifanele kuyo. Ngaba le ntiyo wabantu?

Kukwasebenza kwanjalo kuyo i pseudo-namaqhawe ahloniphekileyo. Sithi "Russia ukuba Russian!" Namaqela niziqhekeze nezitali kunye neemarike, kuqotywa ekufeni, abantu ngolusu emnyama kunye nombala iinwele. Kuwa phantsi kwe "unikezelo" nje abatyeleli bamanye amazwe, oko kukuthi, abantu abavela kumazwe angabamelwane, kodwa inani enkulu wazalwa wakhulela eRashiya, abo bathi kuphela kwilizwe labo, kwaye kancinane okanye akukho okunayo ngaphantsi. Le ntiyo abantu ngakumbi bazitshisekisayo iinkokeli amaqela ezinjalo, kwamandla balawula abantu abatsha ngokokubona kwayo. Kule meko, kuba kunzima ukutsho kabani indima mbi: izikhumba zabo okanye isikhokelo abadala.

Lo mbuzo ubangelwa ngokwawo; yintoni na oonobangela ndlongo? Kutheni umntu ukulungele ukunika abantu abangenamakhaya ihempe yokugqibela, kwaye enye ngenkoliseko pnot unyawo elimdaka itakane - umngqibi. Yini senze lonke umqolo kunye ngebrashi efanayo: ukuphulukana amakhaya abo kunye nobomi nabanina. Kodwa ukusebenzisa ubudlova ebantwini sele behlelelekile, ubuncinane - ulihenyu, yaye ukhohlakele.

Kwathi kanti, isizathu ulele phezu komhlaba! Ezo sengqondo ehlasela ngayo abantu bemi kwinqanaba elisezantsi yokuziphatha okanye kungangqinelani ntetho ingqibelelo ngamnye, i nesigulo sengqondo kwaye sibizwa misanthropy. Kwaye ke badla abantu ubunzima uphuhliso lweengqondo, yenkcubeko, nokuba abanetalente neyobuchule. Eqatha ngokwabo ukuba kwisangqa imxinwa kwabazana, ukuzama ukunqanda iindibano abantu. Kwaye imisebenzi yakhe ngokuthe ngcembe (ngamanye amaxesha nesiphiwo) aba bantu ukukhuthaza ubundlobongela kunye nentiyo abahlala kufutshane.

Indlela ukuba balahle intiyo? Indlela ekucoceni ihlabathi kokubi? Le umbuzo-buciko. Misanthropy asikuko nokuba kuyabulala, abaninzi bathi kwengqondo. Kodwa ukuba kunjalo, usazama nje ukubeka umphefumlo wakho iingcambu, linyothule entliziyweni yakho ngaphandle ukuzisola! Ngapha koko, ukuba wonke umntu single azihlambulule intiyo ububi, ngoko sonke sikunye siza kuba ngobubele yaye cleaner.

uluntu lwethu yonke abangafezekanga kakhulu. Ukulungiswa makakubuze inkqubo isohlwayo karhulumente eyenzelwe ngokutsha osutupivshihsya. Nangona kunjalo, ibonakalisa ukuba ndichasane: noba wabetha ngayo emhlabeni, abantu 'akakude kangako "abaye ndaphula umthetho yokungakhathali, kungekho ububi umphefumlo emva phaya ngumsindo. Kwaye indlela kwakhona kudala ngeenxa zonke enye ngaphezulu uchuku.