Self-kulinywe, Ulawulo uxinzelelo
Njengoko emigrant ukumelana yokulahlekelwa bangoobani
Eli nqaku lijongana ingxaki ebalulekileyo, kodwa bedla ngokungasiwa eSpain ixesha elide. Kunika umdla ukwazi ukuba ngengqondo lula ukuba kwamanye amazwe ukuya kwelinye ilizwe nendlela kokuhlala kwilizwe lasemzini inokuyichaphazela ingqiqo yesazisi kunye nelizwe card. Oku kuye kwenza abaninzi ukwabelana ngamava akho emfundo kwaye idla Akumangalisi yokuhambisa ehlabathini lonke.
Akukho ndawo, wavum
Xa izimvo ku Facebook Wendy Skroch wabhala wathi: "Kukho indlela ekhethekileyo namakhaya, nosebenza kuzo yokuhlala ixesha elide kwamanye amazwe." Lo mkhwa asihlali ekhaya kutshanje iye yaba zizinto eziqhelekileyo.
Abantu abaninzi njalo onilwelayo kwakhona ukuba phantsi iingcambu kwilizwe labo ekhaya emva emakhaya, kodwa iinzame zabo ukunxibelelana neengxaki ezithile, ukususela ubuzwe yalahleka.
Utshintshe
"Buyela ekhaya ukuya US emva kweminyaka 26 bahlalise Australia waba kum Njengokungeniswa pretty big - utsho Bryus Feliks. - Ukuba lo mfo omtsha kweli lizwe, endicinga ukuba likhaya lomthonyama, maxa wambi nzima kakhulu. Ukusetyenziswa kwamagama amatsha kunye namazwi ingatshintshwa nge sagxila kuqhagamshelwano ekhaya umsebenzi kakhulu yingxaki. Ngenxa yokuba abantu ugxininiso cinga nje ukuba engaqhelekanga. "
Emva kweminyaka engama-20 bahlalise Melika Mary Syu Konnolli yena uthi xa wabuyela Ireland, waziva ulikheswa.
Enye ovela kwelinye Allison Lee wabuyela Australia emva kweminyaka emithandathu Latin America kunye London. "Inkqubo ukuhlanganiswa iza kuthatha ixesha elide. Ezizama ukwenza abahlobo kunye ilizwe labo ikhaya akukho bani ofuna lokumba imbali yakho ", - Uthi.
Yunis CH Ba Vi uvela Hong Kong. Uqhuba ukuba nothuke inkcubeko, nangona ehlotyeni ebuyela kowabo. "Ngalo lonke ixesha ndiza ekhaya, ndiye nje ndiziva ngathi xa ndandineminyaka ngasemva yaye ndim kuphela esahlala ngaphambili", - Uthi.
abavela Tips
Ngoko ke, njani uziva emva kokunyamalala elide? Ezinye iingcebiso olungqiniweyo ukuba onokuwoyisa ngayo umqobo kunxibelelwano kunye bakuthi zabo ilula kakhulu kwaye aluncedo.
"Musani ukuya emva msebenzi kunye nabantu efanayo, ukuba unako - icebisa UK umhlali John Simpson. - Uhlale uzakuva ukunganeliseki efanayo, kunye nabalingane iingxaki ngemihla luza kukhangeleka ezingenamsebenzi ".
Spring Thomas, emva kweminyaka eli-16 e Sydney, i-US kunye Singapore, sasinda bathelela kanye kwiqela ekhaya ekugqibeleni wamisela club incwadi, bahlala esikolweni part-time.
Abanye abantu bazama ukuhlanganisa kunye abahlali kwilizwe langaphandle, eli ekhangela uluntu Expat. "Kwaba luncedo kuba ndazama ukuba hobnob kunye baseMerika amaninzi kangaka. Kodwa xa amazwe, kwakufuneka ukuqonda yinkcubeko yaseMelika ngokusebenzisa bemilo ka 'zabo - UAlexis Gordon ubhala.
Njengoko reintegriruetes?
Mhlawumbi eyona mpendulo umdla isicelo sethu iibhodi babuyiselwe ingxaki zale lo mbuzo. abafundi abaninzi baye bafumanisa ukuba kunzima kwenye ikhaya, kodwa hayi inkqubo engenakwenzeka.
Nikol Dzhons uye zokundwendwela emithathu bahlala kumazwe amahlanu. "Mna akukhangeli ngeendondo rose-obugolide kwi onke amazwe Ndiye ndatyelela. Ezinye iintlanga zabantu kukho omabini amacala akhabayo kunye navumelanayo. Ndivakalelwa kukuba mna ungummi weli hlabathi, neqhayiya ngayo. "
Ngokutsho abaninzi, ukuzama ukumelana kuluntu wayo wangaphambili, impazamo. "Awukhe reintegriruete, - saphawula ingxaki Paula Alvarez-Kucheiro. - Abantu kufuneka baqonde ukuba siphila inkcubeko eyahlukileyo, baye batshintsha indlela abacinga ngayo, uze uzame ukuba ebezikuyo ngaphambi -. Kokuba impazamo enkulu, nto leyo eya ngoyaba ukukhula buqu ukuba basemzini wabandezeleka kwelinye ilizwe "
Zonke izibakala zisixelela ukuba basemzini abaninzi inkcazo kwilizwe nesazisi ayikho injongo ngqo. Kuba abo bazama ukuba baphinde bangoobani ekubuyeni ukuya elizweni labo ikhaya libe intuthuzelo abemi, abathe baba lixhoba jikelele. Ngenxa kubo, babuyiselwe i khetho, kodwa hayi isibopho.
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