Ukuphoxeka - imvakalelo Ndandizisola malunga kube njalo

Igama elithi "inkathazo" - yintoni na? Akuthandeki ukuba ukhe wacinga ngale nkcazelo. Nangona imvakalelo kokuphoxeka zonke abanamava ebomini ezininzi wam ukususela ebuntwaneni.

A inkathazo - nto ...

Umzekelo, umntwana ugqibe ukukholisa abazali babo ahlambe izitya, okanye ukuzama ukwenza ukucocwa kwi indlu, kodwa ekugqibeleni umama Sasindingxolisa kuye, njengoko waba nomsindo embi, yaye akazange ukusebenza itakane njengoko angathanda. Kakade ke, umntwana sifumana imvakalelo ingqumbo okanye umsindo. Okanye, umzekelo, umntwana ubusuku bonke ulungiselela isifundo, kodwa xa kwakufuneka uphendule ngosuku olulandelayo, zidideke, ayilibale into oyifundileyo waza wafumana "iindlela ezintathu". Shame ... Le imvakalelo ke njengoko abadala, xa bathe benza konke okusemandleni ukuba ukufezekisa into ebalulekileyo, kodwa ekugqibeleni akukho nto yenzekayo. Not wavuma ukuya eyunivesithi, akazange athathe isikhundla esiphezulu ... I imvakalelo ekruqukile na ukwakha ngaphezu kwexesha yaye ekugqibeleni abe izakhiwo ezahlukeneyo nokuphoxeka ebomini xa iyonke.

amazwi Folk malunga Heartburn

Kukho izaci ezahlukeneyo ezicacisa imeko lomntu asinda ukudana. Umzekelo, "ukuba basike iinwele zam", "yaluma iingalo zakho", "bakhwela udonga uyayeka," njalo njalo. D. Hayi urhulumente ezimnandi kakhulu uyavuma.

Umqobo - yinto Kubuhlungu ukuba kwenzeka akufuneki ukuba indlela abantu. Noko ke, amaxesha amaninzi oko akafuni ukuvuma ityala labo oko kwenzekileyo: hayi yonke imigudu, hayi evuthiswe, hayi kuthathelwa ingqalelo zonke iinkcukacha. Kwiimeko ezininzi, umntu uzama ukusulela ityala komnye umntu, bathi, ayilotyala wam, kunye nabo, abahlobo, kunye neemeko zemozulu nokuba karhulumente. Kakade ke, zonke ezi zinto zidlala indima, kodwa inkoliso zonke kuxhomekeke mntu.

Kunzima ndidandathekile

Kokuvelela - yimvakalelo negative, ekufuneka Umzamo. Kungenjalo, kunokuba abe uloyiko kunye nezakhiwo. Kufuneka abayi kulala esofeni kunye adikwe yonke into kwaye wonke umntu, emva kwenye ukusilela. Njengoko bathi, iinyembezi aziyi kukunceda izinto. Kufuneka sihlolisise le meko ngocoselelo ukuzama ukuphucula imeko. Ukuba asikwazi ukulungisa, ngoko akumele icaphuke. Kwenzeka ntoni, loo nto yenzeka. Konke oku amava. Kuyimfuneko ukwenza izigqibo uze uzame ukwenza ngakumbi ezi iimpazamo. Kwakhona, awufuni ixesha elininzi, "skrola" engqondweni imeko, ukuba babe buhlungu hayi nangakumbi. Cinga ngento ubomi uya kukuzisela wena iintlobo ezininzi amathuba amahle. Ungaphoswa kubo, sebenzisa ukuba ngokupheleleyo!

ithamsanqa! Makhe imvakalelo kokuphoxeka uzisole zange mnyama iingcinga zakho!