Ukukhetha isikolo sobugcisa kumntwana wakho

Kukho amaxesha apho ungakhululekile nesikolo umntwana wakho efundayo. Ungathandi amanqaku, iindlela zokufundisa, iimeko. Ezi zizathu zinokuba zininzi. Kwaye ucinga ngokutshintsha isikolo.

Ukukhetha isikolo sobugcisa akusiyo isinyathelo esilula. Uninzi lwabantwana aluvumelani ngokukhawuleza ukutshintsha. Ngokuchanekileyo, njengabo baqala ukuya esikolweni esitsha sobugcisa. Njengomthetho, abazali banenkxalabo yokukhetha isikolo, kuba le nto ibalulekileyo ekubunzeni ubume babo. Kwaye ngexesha lethu baqala ukugijima amehlo abo, abakwazi ukugqiba isigqibo ngokukhetha. Kwaye kamva, udliwano-ndlebe nabahlobo, iifom zokufunda, njl njl njl.

Into yokuqala okufuneka uyibeke ingqalelo yinto umntanakho unomdla kuyo, apho umhlaba wakhe wokuziphatha neyomzimba uhamba phambili. Udinga ukunxibelelana nootitshala abavela kwizikolo ezahlukahlukeneyo ukukhetha ukuthambekela komntwana wakho. Jonga nje ngootitshala abaziphatha kakuhle nabafundi babo, ukuba babenobungani na bafuna ukufundisa. Ngoko ke, okokuqala, ungaqhelana nomfundisi wexesha elizayo yonyana wakho okanye intombi, uze uqhathanise iindlela zezikolo ezahlukeneyo nootitshala.

Emva kokudibana nootitshala, kubalulekile ukufumana ulwimi olufanayo kunye nabazali babantwana abakhuliswe ngulo titshala. Ekugqibeleni, uya kubeka umfanekiso wesititshala, kwaye unqume ukunika umntwana wakho kuye, okanye uqhubeke ufuna uphando olungcono.

Ngokuthe ngqo, ngexesha lokufunda kwisikolo sobugcisa, utitshala womntwana wakho uya kukuxelela ngokuthambekela kwakhe. Emva koko, unokudlulisela ngokuzithemba umntwana wakho kwisikolo esikhethekileyo okanye kwiiklasi, kuba emva kokuphela kwebanga lesi-5, ngokuqhelekileyo ukhetha i-gymnasiums, i-lyceums ngokufunda ngokujulile izifundo ezithile. Kwakhona, kuxhomekeka kakhulu kwiimeko zemali zabazali, kuba kumaziko akhethekileyo kukho iindleko ezinkulu ezincedo.

Iinkalo eziphambili xa ukhetha isikolo sobugcisa:

- Nguwuphi uqeqesho oludumileyo esikolweni.

- Iimeko zentlalo kuluntu lwabazali, abafundi babo abakhuliswa esikolweni.

Umgangatho wemfundo uthelekiswa nezinye izikolo.

- Iqondo leemfundo zootitshala. Inani labo, impumelelo, ubude benkonzo.

- Izixhobo zobugcisa zesikolo. Ngaba isikolo samhlanje. Ngaba kukho naziphi izinto ezinokwenza umntwana wakho azive ekhululekile.

- Unxibelelwano namanye amaziko emfundo. Ngokomzekelo, ngeekholeji, iziko, iiyunivesithi. Isikolo kufuneka silungiselele umfundi ukuba angeniswe kwiyunivesiti ethile.

- Ngaba iprogram yesikolo esingaphandle kwesikolo iphuhlisiwe? Ukongeza kwisifundo esicacileyo, umntwana kufuneka akhule amanye amaqela, ezemidlalo, uhambo ukuya kwiivenkile, ukuhamba, njl njl.

- Ukutya okunjani.

- Ngaba ummandla ugcinwe.

- Ingaba izakhiwo ziphuhlisiwe kwisithili?

Ezi zinto ziphambili kufuneka zincede ukhethe indlela efanelekileyo yomntwana wakho, kwaye wenze uchwephesha kwishishini lakho.