Isincoko "Yintoni luthando?": Ukuze uncede abafundi

Bhala isincoko esikolweni - oku into elula. Kufuneka ube uyakwazi nje ukuba ingcamango ngobuchule, kodwa ukwenza oko ngentliziyo, kunye nenzuzo bona abanye. umfundi Modern nzima ukuba babhale isincoko: "Yintoni na luthando?". Kutheni le nto isenzeka?

Liyintoni na eli lizwi "inceba"?

Abantu baye ndilibele ukuthanda ngokwenene. Inkoliso yethu bazama ukuba ukhethe ngokwabo intle yonke indlela umvuzo ngokwakho. Ukuba abazali umntwana ubhuqiweyo yokuzingca kuphela, indlela ufunda, yintoni uthando nokusesikweni? Umbhalo ayiyi ukubhala izihloko ezifana yayintsha kuye konke oku.

Indlela ukuba yesikolo mihla? Apho ke wafumana izifundo ububele? Kuya kuba isenzo elungileyo, ukuba omnye ootitshala baya kuququzelela iihambo abantwana endaweni yokubonela, kunye, umzekelo, abo basweleyo: amakhaya abantwana iinkedama, olo sana kwikhaya labalupheleyo izilwanyana kwimikhukhu. Abantwana kufuneka ukubona indlela yokwenza imisebenzi emihle.

Ngaba ikho into kweli hlabathi ukulunga?

Inceba kweli hlabathi, nje musani qaphela oko. Isikakhulu ntliziyo zibonwa njengabantu crazy abangenanto yakwenza. Kodwa akunjalo. Ngaxa lithile (malunga nama-2000 kwiminyaka eyadlulayo) Iisus Hristos wamisela umzekelo ububele, imfesane, uthando. Beza kuye abantu ezahlukeneyo kunye iinkathazo zabo, yaye iNkosi yabo bonke inceba. Nantso loo apho ubona eli lizwi!

Ekuhambeni kwexesha lethu, ingxaki nokoyika inceba. Ukubhalwa abantwana babhale ngalo oku nje kuluncedo, kodwa into ebalulekileyo ebomini. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba sa nokubakho kwizinto ezincinane, ezifana ukunika indlela eya ngwevu kule lori.

Indlela ukuba ube nenceba novelwano?

Inxalenye ebomini yaye umboniso ungabona indlela umntu omnye kunceda komnye. Nabani na kuhlaba kwi emehlweni intombazana uza zinokubakhubekisa uninakhulu kwaye ziya kuthwala ikhaya lakhe izinto. Umntu athi: "Andikwazi ukuyenza loo nto, yaye ndifuna!". Kodwa kwenzeka ntoni ngokwenyani? Xa kukho into elolo hlobo apha kwaye ngoku, umntu uya kuba ndikhethe nokuba kuyanceda besengxakini, okanye ukupasa. ubomi Real - ayikasebenzi. Yintoni iluthando xa kunjalo okuchazwe? Sa apha lithetha uncedo engxakini. Kuyimfuneko kuphela ukuba athathe inyathelo. Xa umntu esenza umntu into entle, uba onwabile. Ndifuna ukuziva, phambi kokubhala ngayo.

Okubaluleke ayikho uncedo okungaka, kodwa ukunikela nje uvuyo ummelwane. Ukuba umntu avume ukuba ukunceda, yena lokutshangatshangisa, kunye ezilungileyo natured uzive lusizi. Akukho mfuneko ukunyanzela ukwenza okulungileyo, ayiyi kunceda. Yonke kufuneka kwenzeke ngokwendalo.

"Ububele Nemfesane" - isincoko, nto leyo mhlawumbi lungohlulwa lube iinxalenye ezimbini esemantiki. Yeyiphi yaye ngoba? Inceba ngaphandle ukulunga ayinakuba khona. Nokuba umntu embi kakhulu, nokuba imbewu elincinane luthando. kuza ixesha, kwaye uya kuba nako soyisa ububi ngenxa ithuba. Kufuneka ukuninika umzekelo: besiziintshaba nesifungo esikolweni, omnye umntu ofuna ukufa. Kodwa zombini usengozini. Omnye kubo kumgca yokufa. Lowo bafuna ukufa utshaba lwakhe, ngesiquphe ufikelela ngaphandle kwaye inceda ngaphandle. Zombini basindiswe. Uphi na umsindo? Mhlawumbi iintshaba baya kuhlala ngokunxulumene omnye komnye, kodwa imeko lubonise ukuba kukho ububele nenceba. Ukubhalwa kufuneka ubhale, ngokusekelwe kwibali lokwenyaniso ubomi kunye noncwadi.

Phendula kwisicelo

Umntwana unako ukufunda isimilo indlu nobubele. Abazali bona kufuneka bakwazi ngenyameko, ngokwasentliziyweni ehlambulukileyo, ebonisa ngokunyanisekileyo imizekelo. Ntoni?

"Nyana, uthabathe, nceda, iimveliso ugogo" - wabuza unina wakhe, abethe unyana wakhe phezu kwentloko. Lo mntwana ufunda oku, ukuqonda ukuba uza kwenza into ebalulekileyo ukuba oomama kunye ogogo. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, ukuba kukho into nomsondlo unina, unyana emva kwakhe, nokuphosa ipakethe, inkwenkwe akazi ukuba yintoni na uthando, ukuba inceba. Nje mechanics ukwenza lo msebenzi. Ukuba ubhale isincoko, "Yintoni na uthando?", Kuyancomeka ukunika imizekelo zobomi.

Abantwana kubalulekile ukuba bakwazi ukuphendula izicelo nje kuphela abantu abadala, kodwa nabahlobo, nabo. Yintoni na ngoko intsingiselo yobomi, ukuba abantu bayancedana kwenye into? Man ikhona ukuba bafunde yonke into elungileyo, ukukhanya.

Ukuze sithande ummelwane wethu. Kuthetha ukuthini?

Ngubani na ummelwane? Relative, abazali, umzalwana nodade? Hayi nje kuphela abo. Abamelwane ingqalelo ngokupheleleyo wonke umntu, nokuba izilwanyana neentaka ekunokuthiwa apha. Kutheni amaKristu ndinyuke eli lizwi? Ngenxa yokuba bonke ingqalelo close imali eninzi. Ngapha koko, zonke izidalwa eziphilayo - i indalo kaThixo. Malunga melee bangabhala umsebenzi multi-volume.

Yintoni iluthando malunga ummelwane kabani? It ububele kuqala. ntoni kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba nenceba kulila ngokulila, phezu koko, umsebenzi wayo kukuba ukuthuthuzela, inkxaso kunye noncedo ukunandipha ubomi kwakhona. Ngubani ongazange ulambile okanye neembadada ukuqonda ukuba, musa ukuba kunzima kangakanani na ukuba ube ukwimeko enjalo. Ke lowo waziva into enjalo, zama ukunceda ngandlela zonke. Apha kuza indoda kakuhle enxibe ebusika ndinengxowa ngokupheleleyo ukutya ngendlela edibana umngqibi olambileyo kunye becela uncedo. umntu onovelwano ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo uya kuba iingubo zenu nokutya kule ndoda, ukuba yothani waza wadla. Ngelo kuhlwe kakhulu kunye nophahla phezu kwentloko yenu ayenziwanga phantse ezikhule yenkanyamba.

UKristu uthando umbingelelo efundisa abantu, wayengumntu elula, hayi wavuka, musani ukuzidla ngokwam, andizange wathi ediniwe waza wafuna ukuhamba. No. Bonke babephulaphule. Abantu bale mihla kufuneka simxelise.

Nkqu nezilwanyana bazi ukuba nemfesane ngayo

Ngubani ungakubonanga ingcuka konga nomvundla ekufeni, nangona ukuba utshaba? Kubonakala ukuba izilwanyana, nathi, yiba nenceba nobulungisa. Umbhalo ngezi zihloko, mhlawumbi wamxelela ukubhala, ngaphandle kokuba ngokwahlukileyo, kungekhona uviwo, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba cwaka. Kwezilwanyana, nathi, ungakwazi ukufunda.

Kwi-Internet uyakwazi ukufumana ezininzi imifanekiso kunye nezilwanyana sanga ezibonakala iintshaba kwindalo. Kodwa akukho, kanye ikati isindise eli Lithole waza wondla ubisi lwayo. Ukondla pawl imvana ibhotile. Izilwanyana ngamanye amaxesha ngokubukekayo kunabantu. Kodwa ngubani owaziyo enoba okanye nethuku kusekho inceba? Abantu badla ukunceda izilwanyana.

Kukho amavolontiya abanonophela izilwanyana kwimikhukhu. Abantu abaninzi Ukonga yindlala wayicola ekati kunye njana, kunye nabantu abadala (nokuba endala) izilwanyana, yoyigodusa, kakubi, wamkhulisa, wondla. Ngaba loo inceba?

Unoyolo lowo uyakwazi ukuthanda indlela

Yintoni ulonwabo lokwenene? Le ubutyebi? No. Kuyinto ukuthanda ummelwane. Umnqweno ukuba luncedo bonke abantu bazuze yaye ukuphendula izicelo - njengenyathelo encinane ulonwabo. Akuyomfuneko ukuba ukhangele ukuze adventure, khangela nje uqaphele. Mhlawumbi lifikile ixesha lokuba ukunika indlela ukuthutha, ukucaphukisa ofunda osisiyatha ayeke wokona? Endaweni izenzo ezinjalo zomxhesho ngcono pooch nokwakha indlu ngaphandle kwebhokisi, ngoko ingasombululwa ingxaki inceba. ukwakheka Kufuneka sibe bahle, kulula ukufunda kunye nenzala, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba ovuselela abantu imisebenzi elungileyo.

Kwakhona kubalulekile umzekelo umntu omnye komnye. Yinto enye into ukubhala malunga nothando novelwano, enye - ukuba ababonise kakhulu. Makhe emva ofunda ahleke, kodwa ngomsebenzi wokumsiza ukuba yenziwe. Mhlawumbi omnye umntu uya kulandela ekhondweni kwaye ihlabathi ngobubele.

Indlela engcono yokulungiselela ngokubhala

Ukuze ubhale isincoko elungileyo, kufuneka ulungiselele ukubhalela kuphela, kodwa igrama, upelo. "Ingxaki zenceba" - iimviwo isincoko - kufuneka ubhale, ngokusekelwe kulwazi sizuzile kule minyaka yoqeqesho.

Nice ukufunda iincwadi ezilungileyo zobubele kunye nothando. Abayi kangako. Amaxesha amaninzi, uncwadi inokufumaneka elayibrari Orthodox okanye ivenkile.

Enyanisweni kukho inceba ehlabathini namhlanje. Ukwakhiwa ukuba abafundi babe inkuthazo ebomini. Ngaphandle izenzo ezilungileyo baya kuphila nzima kakhulu kwaye ezingenamsebenzi. Ngoko ke, ezi ndumiso, kwakunye utyelelo abasweleyo uya kuba kukukhanya osisikhokhelo sibe nekamva eliqaqambileyo.