Intsingiselo "wayezithandi-", izithetha-ntonye kunye nemizekelo nokusetyenziswa

Lala - koko kuvumela abantu ukuba uqalise imfazwe zonke ngeenxa zonke. Cinga ukuba ukuxelela inyaniso kubo bonke? Ukusuka ulwalamano lwethu wayeza kuhlala ngamanxuwa. Ngoko ke, asimele zilungiswe ngoko nangoko nxamnye ezithile zenze leyinene. Kutheni konke oku? Ukongeza, kule ndawo yokuba ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kwintsingiselo "wayezithandi-", ukuhlalutya-ntonye zawo.

intsingiselo

Kakade ke, inkoliso yethu owoyamaniswe kuloo Ekugudeni - yinto embi. Kodwa isichazi-magama sithi ukuba ulindelo yethu, thina kulungile. Ngenxa yokuba isenzi, sisibizo wabumba neentsingiselo ezimbini:

1. Woo ndoda, ukuba amnike yokuncoma bobuxoki, ukusukela izinto zobuqu. abantu abazizityebi okanye abanempembelelo uyazi ukuba yintoni na. Uyakwazi Ndisakhumbula intsomi ongalibalekiyo Ivana Andreevicha Krylova, "Unomyayi Fox", yaye zonke ziya kweyela ndawo.
2. Yenza nezincomo abanyanisekileyo, ezama ukuxhasa umntu. Nayo nantoni na ingqondo. "Patch, ukuba umntu ubingelela kolu shicilelo, bamthomalalisa bakhe obungamampunge."

Njengoko ubona, igama elithi "wayezithandi-" asikwazi ukubona nokuba yembi okanye elungileyo ngokucacileyo. Konke luxhomekeke kwinjongo yeengxelo nokuba, yintoni na le ngongoma xa imali indumiso lisithi. Lithetha ntoni igama "wayezithandi-", siye wajonga, kodwa yintoni na ukuyibuyisela?

Izithethantonye

Xa ixabiso phantse kwiNgxowa ngaphandle umlo, kufuneka sinikele ingqalelo analogs amagama-and-replacement amabinzana. Kuzo, ngethamsanqa, akukho ukunqongophala:

• lizoblyudstvovat;
• ukhathazeke;
• embellish ngokoqobo;
• ukuba amanga;
• ukuba amanga;
• prevaricate;
• inqubo imeko kanye yemicimbi;
• inkxaso;
• udumo;
• elohlokondiba.

Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba amazwi okulungileyo kwidilesi yabo kugqame ngenyameko, ngokwasentliziyweni ehlambulukileyo. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, kufuneka inkxaso yosapho, abahlobo, nabo. ukuba ixabiso le lilizwi "wayezithandi- 'HIV? Of course. Khawube nomfanekiso omnye ubonisa into, umzekelo, umfanekiso. Kubhaliwe kwathiwa kakubi, in a amabala ngelizwi. Ingaba umhlobo wokwenene uya kukuxelela inyaniso kule meko? Xa kungekho tyala, ngaphandle ukuba uceba lokuyigxotha le misebenzi engaziwa. Noko ke, Van Gogh nabo baqalisa ukumdumisa ngoko nangoko. Heart, abantu abalungileyo baya kumdumisa inyathelo lokudala, ngephanyazo kulo into eyenzekayo. Ngoko ke, kunokwenzeka ukuba wayezithandi- le, into elungileyo eziphambili - musa bafuduswayo.

Umgca entle phakathi "ezilungileyo" "nezingalunganga" ukunconywa

Ewe, Ekugudeni kunokuba zombini injini inkqubela Isemantiki zobuntu factor. Umzekelo, umntwana efunda ukuhamba, kwaye simdumisa kuphela umzamo, nangona ekuqaleni iwela zonke inyathelo. Nje nabahlobo bakho kunye nezalamane abenza into elungileyo kakhulu, kodwa elivuthayo elivela ngaphakathi, njengoko ishishini labo kuzisa ulonwabo lokwenene. Kulo mzekelo, Kakade ke, ibethe izandla Akuyomfuneko ukuba xa kwenzakalisa nabanye kule no. Lithetha ntoni igama "wayezithandi-" kule meko? Abile phantsi ukuxhasa nkqu amashishini usapho kakhulu engenamsebenzi, kodwa kumnandi.

Yaye simele senze ngendlela eyahlukileyo kakhulu xa umntu uzama "ukukhwela ihashe abafileyo", njengoko bathi kwityala lithemba. Umzekelo, a guy akukho italente ngenxa yokudweba, kodwa uchitha imali eninzi kwi kwizifundo ngezifundo, inkosi-iiklasi. Kodwa akukho ziphumo. Ngokufutshane, imifanekiso ukupeyinta waba ingcamango esisigxina kuye. Abahlupha abahlobo kunye nezihlobo, kuthatha izixa ezikhulu phantsi "intengiso ngemisebenzi elizayo" yaye, ke, akadinwa. Olu hlobo luvo kubhetele akasixhasi. Noko ke, ukuba umntu uthe ngononophelo zibonisa ukuba ithe ayaba italente, zithetha kuye ngokugudileyo amathemba ezingento, ikamva Magritte Shishkin okanye kukhubeka ngasemthonjeni-ubonge.

Ngoko ke, ukuba bathi izinto ezinjalo ukuba silumke ongaphumiyo ulunya. Kodwa ukwenza oku kuyimfuneko, okanye ngakumbi abazifica ayilawulwa lunokubulala nje kuphela kwikomkhulu, kodwa ubomi ophethe italente bangafi. Kodwa ke ukuba sithethe ngezinto ezibuhlungu. Siye sahlolisisa intsingiselo "wayezithandi-" zonke iinkcukacha zesifundo kwaye nemifanekiso eneenkcukacha.