Iindlela self-isifundo kwi Budassi

psychology Modern asisiniki ekuqulunqeni olunye isenzeko ye self-mntu. Ukuchaza ngxaki yokusetyenziswa nobudlelwane ngokwayo, iindidi ezahlukeneyo kwengqondo. Ezi ziquka into efana ukuzithemba nolahlo ngokubanzi, nokuzamkela, ukuzithemba, ukuzithemba, isimo sengqondo neemvakalelo kunye nexabiso kuwe, ukuzithemba, ukuzixabisa, njl Okubhalwe kwezi ngongoma phendla ngoncedo iindidi nasengqondweni, nto leyo iquka i "ufakelo", "isimo", "intsingiselo lobuqu 'yaye' novelwano '.

Iindlela ukufunda self usoloko usebenza kunye nezinto ezifana "ukuzithemba", "iyonke ukuzithemba", enyanisweni "self-ngokunxulumene" yaye "sengqondo ngokweemvakalelo-exabisekileyo kubo."

Okwangoku, kwingcingane yesizwe evelele udidi ezifana 'ngokwasemoyeni kunye nexabiso i-Self. "

Iindlela zokufunda ye kumntu ngamnye ukuqwalasela ibandakanya self-isakhiwo ezibandakanya amacandelo amabini. Le yokuqala ezinxulumene naye njengomsebenzi loluntu sifundo, kwaye eyesibini - isimo sengqondo emphefumlweni-exabisekileyo kubo.

Ubuchule yomntu self-study kwi S.A.Budassi yenye ethandwa bengqondo, kwaye yenza kube lula ukuqhuba isifundo ubungakanani nokuzixabisa. Isiseko yale ndlela umgaqo simo, kwaye ixabiso le level kunye zigqitywa lulwahlulo efanelekileyo kunye real-Ya

imbono zomntu kwabo kusoloko kubonakala nezivakalayo kuye, kungakhathaliseki nokuba isekelwe kwizibakala injongo okanye uluvo ayinyani. Ngoko ke, umgangatho athethwa ngokwakhe umntu, ayisoloko ne yokwenene.

Le ndlela ibandakanya isifundo Budassi koluntu yovavanyo, nto leyo kwenzeka ngeendlela ezimbini. Okokuqala ukuba bathelekise amabango abo zalathisi yokwenene, injongo yayo. Enye indlela ukuthelekisa ngokwayo kunye nabanye abantu.

Kodwa nayiphi na kwimeko ukuzithemba kwabantu iya kuba kuphela luluvo, kungakhathaliseki yokuba isekelwe phezu: umgwebo yabo ngaye, ukucaciswa izigwebo ngawe nabanye abantu, iinjongo zakhe okanye iinjongo zenkcubeko ebekwe.

kwabantu ukuzithemba lisoloko linxulunyaniswa imfuneko ukuzifumanela isiqiniselo, kunye nomnqweno ukufumana niche izakhe njengelungu lombutho woluntu emehlweni abanye, ngokutsho indlela zophando Budassi. Kuwo nawuphi na umntu phantsi kweempembelelo iimvavanyo zangaphandle owawubumbela ngokwakhe isimo sakhe ukuzithemba zomntu lilonke kwiintlobo ngabanye umsebenzi wayo: Umsebenzi, unxibelelwano, iimvakalelo, indlela yokuziphatha.

Ukuzithemba womntu inokuba sub-ngokukuko nepheleleyo. Kwimeko isifundo sokuqala iqwalasela inkqubo yovavanyo abe phezulu kakhulu okanye asezantsi kakhulu.

Ukuba umntu anxulumana ngayo umsebenzi wakhe, ubona eziluncedo zayo zokwenene kunye neengxaki, ilungelo izama angqamane amathuba kunye nekhono lokubeka usukelo enokufikelelwa, bakhe ukuzithemba seliza ngokupheleleyo. Kulo mzekelo, ukuphonononga impumelelo, isifundo eso ezifanele le, kuthathelwa ingqalelo kuphela amadondolo zabo, kodwa uzama ukujonga indlela wayeza kusabela njani engqongileyo: abahlobo abasenyongweni, oogxa, njl

Ngamanye amazwi, ezama ukuvavanya ngokwaneleyo ngokwabo, le ndoda isoloko ufuna amanyathelo lenene, okt ngaphandle njengexatyiswe babebiza imali nobuchule babo, kodwa ngaphandle phezu nabagxeki zabo. Kwaye le self-vavanyo ezifaneleke kakhulu kwaye engcono kwiimeko ezithile neemeko. Self-ukuzithemba, "kwinqanaba eliphezulu" yaye "ngaphezu komlinganiselo" yeyona ukuzithemba kakhulu, xa umntu ohlonipha ngokwakhe, kufanele kakhulu kwaye uninzi lwabo nguye yedwa.