"I hate bantu!" Buza okanye psychopathology?

Sikruqukile, ukucatshukiswa, owone umntu okanye yalapho, yaye ngoku ibhasi imxinwa kwisitora emgceni, ke umqeshi Wanikela wangotshayile. Kangakanani, xa loo mzuzu i bomthendeleko "I intiyo abantu" ivela zethu intloko? Kakade ke, oku yimvakalelo odlulayo. Njengomthetho jikelele, emi ngeenyawo ephosakeleyo, sinako ukuba noburhalarhume kwihlabathi liphela. Kodwa iyifanele bazibeka iLotto okanye ezincinane ezingcolileyo Interesting ukucaca, kunye saseka kakhulu elungileyo-natured. Noko ke, maxa wambi kuba nzima. Ngoko ke akukho ngozi ukuba la mazwi ezininzi "Ndiyithiyile abantu, kodwa izilwanyana uthando 'uba yokuphila. Yintoni ebangela ukuba misanthropy onjalo? Kuphela ukuba iinkolelo okanye namava? Ukuze, njengoko abize abantu babathiye abantu, kanye eliguqulelwe ngokuthi "misanthropes". Misanthropy. Kodwa ngokwenene ntoni oku? Ebaxiweyo uhlobo psychopathy ukuba ndifune ukuzitshabalalisa zonke zizinto eziphilayo? Okanye ithemba kunye lithemba ekhangela ulwimi olufanayo nabanye?

Konke kuxhomekeke kwimeko yentlalo bomntu, ukususela okucingelwayo sokuqala. Ukuba isizathu sokuba eli ligatya society zabo enjalo nendelo, ukugculelwa, ukuhlazeka, siya kuthathwa ukuba indoda igama elithi "intiyo abantu" zinkulu ezinxaxhileyo. Akukho nto ngenxa othile kunye profilers, okanye abaziingcali psychopathology, bakholelwa ukuba ixhoba-mthetho ubundlobongela kunye ukulahlwa ube elizayo kunye abonakalisi beprophathi. Bayisa ukuziphindezelela lonke uluntu, kwaye abantu abathile ukuba ngobuhlungu ebuntwaneni okanye lokufikisa. Kakade ke, ukuba iimeko ezimbi ezifana akusoloko kufika. Amaninzi amagama "Ndiyithiyile abantu" - yinto nje pose, umnqweno ukutsala ingqalelo. Okanye kubonisa ukudinwa ngokugqithiseleyo.

Sonke kufuneka imigangatho eyahlukeneyo adaptation lwentlalo, iimfuno zonxibelelwano ezahlukeneyo kunye namathuba. Umntu lo Best wazifihla, kumsebenzi enobuchule, ngokuyimfuneko amazwi "Ndiyithiyile abantu" kukwaquka ukuzibophelela wokwenene ukwenzakalisa okanye ukutshabalalisa uhlobo lwazo. Kuninzi kakhulu ukuba yi kukubaxwa nje, kodwa, nakuba kunjalo, lubonisa ngeempawu yomntu ngamnye. Ukuba elinye ubomi akakho yedwa, omnye kunzima yayama phandle igama elongezelelweyo. Kwaye akukho ngenxa yokuba uneentloni - zimane andiyiboni imfuneko amava ezingeyomfuneko abalozayo, exchange. Kuthekani ukuba umntu yinto introvert (self-wendele) okanye qavashe (zijonge omnye), kuxhomekeke ngokude hayi kuphela lemfundo. Kuqala kwinto zonke, ezi mpawu zobuntu zibangelwa uhlobo luvo, ingakumbi inkqubo excitation kunye inhibition, isantya kunye nobushushu ngayo ngokweemvakalelo. Kwaye nje wobeko lo eqhelekileyo.

Kodwa umntu lowo umthiyileyo nabanye abantu kangangokuba loo nto yenza kube nzima ebomini neemfuno uncedo. Yinto enye into - nje ukuphepha unxibelelwano okungeyomfuneko, kunye nezinye - bahlala kwempixano rhoqo kunye nongquzulwano kunye naye kunye nabanye. Loo mntu uya kuba nako ukunceda bengqondo kunye kwengqondo. rhoqo amagama "Ndiyithiyile abantu" lufihla intsingiselo enzulu: "Abantu abayiqondi kum, musa ukuba, asigwebe".

Ngamnye kuthi uphantsi kweempembelelo ngabanye, ngakumbi okanye ngaphantsi kwi kuye impendulo. Kwaye kuphela kakhulu ngokwasengqondweni iingxaki Meyi iyenze ubutshaba kwabanye ukuze lube yingozi loo mntu okanye zakhe izalamane. Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, imiqondiso isilumkiso - umnqweno kwahlula ngokwayo, ukuba uthathe umhlala phantsi, uphambuke ezintethweni zonke iintlobo zonxibelelwano - bafanelwe ingqalelo. Amaninzi, ezi ke imiqondiso yokuqala edandathekile, nto leyo ukumelana ngenkxaso esibathandayo kwaye ukuba ufuna umntu.