Iintlobo zonxibelelwano: ezahlukeneyo, kodwa ohlobene,

Yintoni na unxibelelwano? Ngaba umntu aphile ngaphandle kwayo? Kutheni kuyimfuneko? Ziyintoni iinjongo ze unxibelelwano? Le miba umdla kubantu abaninzi, bona safunda bengqondo. Makhe uzame ukuqonda.

ingqiqo unxibelelwano kuthetha inkqubo yentsebenziswano okwenzeka phakathi kwabantu kwaye ijonge ukuseka nokuphuhlisa ulwalamano, ulwazi kwabanye. Unxibelelwano ibandakanya impembelelo sobabini abachaphazelekayo malunga nokusekwa izimvo omnye komnye, ummiselo ka yokuziphatha, ukusekwa izinto ezidibeneyo.

Ngamafutshane, zokunxibelelana nabanye abantu - kungenxa yobudlelane phakathi kwabantu, kuzo zonke iintlobo zezinto ezenziwa luluntu.

Izazinzulu ngenye indlela kuqwalaselwa ulwalamano Umsebenzi Sexual.

Ezinye izikolo bengqondo bakholelwa ukuba unxibelelwano kunye zomsebenzi macala mabini ezilingana yobukho (being) babantu. Abanye bona umsebenzi njengemeko kunxibelelwano nabanye, kunye nonxibelelwano ngokwayo - njengento efunekayo yoshishino. Kanti abanye bakholelwa ukuba oku okhethekileyo, umsebenzi ethile.

kwimboniselo nganye ngokwayo, ngoko, unelungelo lokuba khona. In ngemihla imisebenzi ubomi kunye nonxibelelwano bakholisa ukubonisa ngobunye, kodwa kwezinye iimeko bakwazi ukuthatha indawo ngokuzimeleyo ngalinye enye.

Unxibelelwano, njengoko naluphi na uhlobo ubuhlobo babantu, iye yayo injongo, umxholo, iindlela, iimbono, izithintelo kwicala umsebenzi.

Umxholo lonxibelelwano multi-disciplinary. Kungaba:

• Eziphathekayo, ngokusekelwe ngokutshintshiselana iimveliso zemisebenzi.
• Cognitive, ekudluliseleni ulwazi.
• Imisebenzi apho ukutshintshiselana izakhono nobuchule.
• Phantsi kwemiqathango, ejolise ekuguquleni imeko yengqondo, yovakalelo lo interlocutor.
• Inkuthazo, okuthetha nokudalwa iinjongo ezithile, iinjongo amanyathelo.

Contents kakhulu umisela iintlobo zonxibelelwano. Kwakhona zinika impumelelo yenkqubo yonxibelelwano, ukunceda ukufezekisa le njongo.

Zonke iintlobo zonxibelelwano lungohlulwa lube iintlobo ezimbini eziphambili: ngqo nengxelo-ntetho.

Namhlanje ngakumbi nangakumbi ixesha abantu bathabatha uhlobo yokuqala yonxibelelwano (ekwabizwa ngokuba ngqo). Ukutshintshelwa kwengcaciso ishishini ngefeksi, iinkcukacha ezikhutshelwa ngefowuni okanye nge-Internet, nokutsala kwimiba yabameli ukuba sacaciswa kubo, unxibelelwano ngqo. Owona mzekelo yacaca - yokuncokola. Ukuchitha iiyure lonxibelelwano buddies ekude, umntu abangenakuze bayibone nogxa wakhe.

Ukukhetha indlela ezahlukeneyo zokunxibelelana, qhagamshelana, okanye kufutshane, akusoloko kusenzeka, kodwa iisayikholojisti bekubona elinemveliso kakhulu. Unxibelelwano "ubuso ngobuso" ivumela umkhondo amaqela indlela ngqo sebenzisa intsebenziswano ngomlomo (ilizwi) and non-ngomlomo ithetha. Le yokugqibela ziquka imbonakalo yobuso, izijekulo, imvakalozwi njalo ke. Non-ezomlomo unxibelelwano kunceda ukweyisela abaphulaphuli ukuvavanya iinjongo interlocutor, ukunyaniseka kwakhe. ifomu ngokuphimiselayo nangokungaphimiseli-ngomlomo unxibelelwano ubudlelane bethu bunaye contact lobuqu. Sinokuthi ukuba akanako.

Iingcali zengqondo namhlanje ukwabelana ingqiqo yonxibelelwano ngeendlela ezininzi, ezona ziphambili zezi:

• Anonymous. Unxibelelwano phakathi abasemzini, hayi efuna ukuqhubeka. Imizekelo: abakhweli ezothutho, baze abantu abadlulayo esitratweni, abaphulaphuli kwi eekonsathi. Emva kokufumana ulwazi oluyimfuneko, okanye wachitha ixesha elifutshane kunye, abantu bayaphila.
• Ngokusemthethweni-nxaxheba (functional). Olu hlobo lonxibelelwano "awongamileyo-ayamileyo", "umthengi-umthengisi", "umsebenzi-umsebenzi". Eyona ulwazi inde kwaye apha ubuhlobo nkonzo. Abasebenzi ngokuqhelekileyo bachitha ixesha elininzi kunye yaye wazi lukhulu omnye komnye.
• Sikweni. Zonke iintlobo off-emsebenzini kunye nobudlelwane vnedelovyh:

- Ritual (umzekelo, emkhosini kwintlanganiso "uthabathe wakubulisa," iseti eqhelekileyo kuqikelelwa umbuzo omfutshane impendulo malunga nendlela kunjalo, njalo njalo).

- ejulile, okubonisa abantu zoqhagamshelwano-nonothando iseti ubuchule bokuthetha ngomlomo kunye non-ngomlomo.

- Ezinye iintlobo zonxibelelwano.

Namhlanje, ixesha elingakumbi kuthatha ukuba osebenzayo-indima zonxibelelwano kunye nonxibelelwano ngoncedo iindlela zobugcisa. Njengoko iintlobo ukutshintsha zonxibelelwano, iintlobo zalo kunye nezibonelelo ekuhambeni kwexesha.