Yintoni unxibelelwano kunceda njani ukuze uphumelele

Ubomi bethu akunakwenzeka ngaphandle unxibelelwano. Le ndoda - a ngokwasentlalweni, ubomi bakhe ngaphandle oluntu ngenxa becala Akukhathaliseki. Kunye nonxibelelwano, inkcazelo apho abameli bengqondo, intanda, kwabantu, kunye nezinye izifundo zesayensi ukuze ukunciphisa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo yentsebenziswano phakathi kwabantu, ngeendlela ezininzi kuneempembelelo ukuba ukucinga isicwangciso ukuze uphumelele.

Abaninzi bafuna ukuba kuphunyezwe iziphumo ezithile kwikhondo, ubomi bentsapho, ubuzali, ubuhlobo, umnqweno malivakale kunye ukuphumeza ezinye iinjongo ezijongwa ubungqina eluntwini ukuze aphumelele. Ngelo xesha, wonke umntu uyaqonda ukuba lo unxibelelwano kunye nendlela kuchaphazela iziphumo ezidibanisayo okanye elibi nemcimbi ejoliswe ekuphumeleleni lonke.

(Ukuzimisela iisayikholojisti) Community imele iingcinga kunye nolwazi babelane ngamava abo kwinkalo ethile, iimvakalelo phakathi kwabantu ababini okanye nangaphezulu. Nokuba zonxibelelwano ukuze isebenze, kuyimfuneko ukucwangcisa nokwakha yababini, ukwazi iimpawu kunye neentlobo iingqiqo ezifana incoko kunye nonxibelelwano. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kufuneka usebenzise olu lwazi ukuze uphumelele ebomini.

Zahlelwa iintlobo zonxibelelwano ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Kuxhomekeka inxalenye ngokubhalwe kule nkqubo kunokuba unokuyitshintsha naziphi iimveliso zezinto ezenziwa luluntu (impahla), ukutshintshisana ngolwazi accumulated (cognitive level), izakhono nobuchule (imisebenzi zonxibelelwano). Kwakhona, iisayikholojisti ukwahlula ingxoxo ezikhuthazayo xa abachaphazelekayo mchazele usukelo zabo, amaphupha kunye neemfuno, iminqweno, yaye isixhobo - xa kukho kutshintshiselwano phakathi nxaxheba ithi ezizodwa komzimba okanye kwengqondo.

Ngokutsho iinjongo ekufuneka zizuziwe kwelo khondo unxibelelwano, kukho iintlobo ezimbini kuyo: yebhayoloji - eyona njongo ekuhlangabezeni iimfuno eziphilayo kunye kwezentlalo, ukomeleza iimpawu zonxibelelwano umntu. Kucacile ukuba uqhagamshelwano olunjalo kwaye oku kuya kukhuthaza ukukhula kunye nokuphunyezwa iinjongo ezikhokelela impumelelo yomntu ebomini.

Abantu bayakwazi ukunxibelelana usebenzisa yomlomo (ngomlomo) nangezenzo iindlela (okunye). Yinkxalabo ngamazwi yomlomo kunye nolwimi olubhaliweyo, kwaye nabangenakuthetha - izijekulo ezikhapha, imbonakalo yobuso, isantya, ubume kombala yezwi sisithethi, amagama. Kubaluleke kakhulu kunxibelelwano kunye neendlela ezingezizo ezomlomo ezifana indawo ye-nxaxheba kwisithuba incoko, ukuthenga esebenzayo okanye izijekulo, akhangele kwaye nevumba. Yomlomo ulwazi ngamnye ebona ngoncedo engqiqo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha non-ngomlomo, uyakwazi ukuqonda ungaziva kuphela.

Ngenxa yoko, unxibelelwano - yinto entsokothileyo iindlela ezahlukeneyo kunye neendlela apho umntu uzama ukubonisa loo mntu okanye inani elithile labantu ngolwazi oluthile. Injongo yakhe ukuba unxibelelwano ibunjwe-kakuhle, nto leyo enokukhokelela ekubeni afumane oko akufunayo, umzekelo, ukuqinisekisa nxaxheba kwintlanganiso okanye intlanganiso kwiimfuno zokulungisa lo mba ngendlela ngendlela ebonisa isithethi. Yinto eyaziwayo ukuba iya kuba nempumelelo ukulungiselelwa ezikhethekileyo zonxibelelwano ezifana: lomntu ofuna ukuba uphumelele, ubotshiwe ukuba ufunde intetho yezandla, yaye ngenyameko khangela ngokusondeleyo ukuya yobuso le interlocutor, kwaye kuchongwa ukubonakala ukuba alindele esitheni yakhe.

Kakade ke, amazwi iindlela zonxibelelwano nazo nakhelwe phezu kwimigaqo ethile. Kufuneka bakwazi uthethe uphulaphule. Yintoni na unxibelelwano ngomlomo? Ngawo la mazwi: oluthethwayo weva, olubhaliweyo ufunde, lidiza efuna neenzame. Ngoncedo lwabo, ukuvakalisa iingcinga okanye iinjongo. Ukuze la mazwi eziqondwayo abaphulaphuli abaninzi okanye abafundi kufuneka ilifa kuphela intetho enobuchule kwaye wazi imithetho zolwimi, kodwa ukuze bakwazi ukufundisa ngempumelelo la mazwi ndaweni kwamagama, kwindawo ethile ingqalelo. Ukuba umntu ufuna ukuphumelela ebomini, ngoko ke kubalulekile ukuba bagqwese inzululwazi lokunikela iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo zabo ngothethathethwano intetho.