Eyakhayo, Okubuhlungu, etshabalalisayo - ukuba ngayo? Kakade ke, ungquzulwano!

Zityholo kuthukwa, nokuthotywa nomsindo, ndidanile kwaye ndinomsindo - ezi mvakalelo etshabalalisayo zikhona iimeko zongquzulwano. Ukuziphatha ngexesha wengxabano izimvo kunye nezenzo kumacala omabini - ukunyelisa, nokuba ndiyagxekwa, isandla eqhubela phambili, ukungahoywa, umsindo - isiphumo longquzulwano luxhomekeke khona.

Izizathu umahluko

Imbambano - ungquzulwano etshabalalisayo. incoko eyakhayo kungenzeka kuphela ngexesha eliqhelekileyo ukusebenzisana kwezentlalo. Umfutho longquzulwano babe neenjongo ezahlukeneyo kakhulu kwaye izizathu:

• ezoqoqosho;
• ixabiso;
• kazwelonke-uhlanga;
• nkqubo;
• inkolo;
• ubuntu;
• abanye.

Enye iqela labo enesifo izenzo sikweni - na into. Elinye icala - sifundo - enze izinto ezibangela imeko yongquzulwano a. Ngokuqhelekileyo, unobangela impi isifundo owenza izenzo ezahlukeneyo ngokunxulumene 'ukubandezeleka' ecaleni, ekhutshwe ukuphendula impendulo engeyiyo.

Iintlobo lweeyantlukwano ungquzulwano

Zengqondo umahluko phakathi kweentlobo ezimbini iimbambano:

• neyakhayo;
• ungquzulwano etshabalalisayo.

Indlela eluncedo kusoloko ukufumana indlela eza ukwanelisa omabini amacala. Ngenxa indlela ebubuchule ekusombululeni ingxaki yokuphucula nokuqondana kunye nolwalamano lobuqu phakathi kwabantu.

Ezitshabalalisayo - it ungquzulwano loo nto ikhokelele ukuba isisombululo kule ngxaki kwasekuqaleni. Ukungakwazi kunye nokungafuni ukuphulaphula kumdlali welinye icala, ukuhlalutya iingxoxo zakhe, ukufakelwa ukruthakruthwano - konke oku kukhokelela ekutshatyalalisweni ubudlelane.

Eyona uphawu inkcubeko post-eSoviet lo mkhwa "ukulahla 'ukungoneliseki kwabo kwindawo ngoko nangoko. Ukuvela "ungquzulwano chain" Ungaqala kusasa kwezothutho okanye esitratweni, qhubeka ukusebenza ziphelela ekhaya. quibbles Minor, nokumemeza nezityholo kukhokelela indlela efanelekileyo: abantu abasondeleyo bazive bengonwabanga, luvo. Enye simo esibuhlungu iphalale basiwa kwezinye iimvakalelo, "ibhabhame" kufana mlilo, komsipha yonxulumano uba sezintlungwini ... kwaye nje ukuba kude ezimbi kwaye hayi ukuba utsale "inkunkuma" kunye nathi.

Kutheni zimpi kucwangcisa

Of nembambano naliphi iqela, ekhaya okanye emsebenzini utyhila izinto ezingangqinelaniyo kunye ukungangqinelani phakathi yangaphandle, ugqabhuka izinto, nangezenzo, ulwazi Engcotyeni. Nazi iimeko ezimbalwa apho oku kunokwenzeka:

• imfundo okanye inkokheli ubomi amava iqela nganeno abasebenzi;
• inqanaba ngokwengqondo iqela utshintshatshintsha kakhulu;
• ngokungazi iindlela zonxibelelwano loshishino;
• ufakelo inkcaso yabucala;
• umnqweno kwiindlela ngamandla zonxibelelwano;
• imigomo mismatching.

iinkqubo etshabalalisayo musa ukuzisa ulonwabo, kodwa ke ngamanye amaxesha kuluncedo: kwimeko ungquzulwano kukho phezu komhlaba ezingangqinelaniyo lwangaphakathi kwiqela qubha, ukungavumelani efihliweyo kunye ukunganeliseki. Ukuba usebenzisa ubuchule yonxibelelwano yeshishini, nayiphi na imeko ungquzulwano ulwalamano atshabalalisayo iguqulelwe incoko eyakhayo. Impikiswano etshabalalisayo - kuba ngumzabalazo amandla, kuba umsindo, ukungabi ubuso, ntshikilelo, ukungabikho kusonjululwe ingxaki le.

ungquzulwano Malunga eyakhayo

Ukusebenziseka inkcaso ukuba abachasi sikhundla acaciswa apha ekuhambeni kwencoko yenu, kunokuba umzabalazo kunye ukuxhathisa. Abantu banolwazi ngakumbi lwezimvo zabo ngexesha ukucacisa amaqabane abo. Akukho akhwaze, recriminations kunye nokuthotywa nokuxabisana. Ubuninzi ingqalelo nxaxheba ngxabano ejolise ekufumaneni iindlela zokusombulula ingxaki, kunokuba kwezithandani le iqela ngamnye. Ukuqwalasela ezibangela ingxabano phakathi nxaxheba na ukungqubana kwezimvo ukwakha ubuhlobo eziqhelekileyo, nendawo zazo zitshintshiwe.

Izinto ezibangela ingxabano phakathi kwamadoda nabafazi zahluke kakhulu. Kuba namankazana kubalulekile ukuze anelise iimfuno zakho, ezifana imivuzo, izibonelelo, ibhonasi kunye iholide. Iqela nge emoyeni kwingcinezelo okanye ummeli eliphezulu Umsebenzi omninzi "landa" besini buthathaka kuqala, kodwa ngokukhawuleza kwaye kube lula ndizole.

Kuba kwisiqingatha inkunzi ixabiso waka iwonga, ukuthobela amalungelo abasebenzi kunye nemisebenzi, ubukho uhlobo ngaphantsi. Kwimeko sithwalisa kwaye ukwaphulwa kwamalungelo, amadoda okubandezayo elide nenzondo, hayi ngaphakathi ibe iqela.

Indlela yokwenza ubudlelwane ishishini eyakhayo

Ukusebenzisa imithetho ethile kunye neendlela zonxibelelwano loshishino, amalungu eqela ziya kusebenzisana njenge eyodwa. Kwixesha elidlulileyo ishiya wengxabano iimbono kunye ungquzulwano ezifana etshabalalisayo - yinto ndlela 'itanki ", indlela yokulwa, leyo yango ezingqondweni usapho kunye ishishini. Ukuze ngoxolo ukufumana isisombululo enemveliso omabini amacala ngokwaso maluqhutywe ngolu hlobo:

• ukuxoxa kuphela kulo mba, kwaye hayi iimpawu ngamnye zobuntu;
• ukukhumbula ukuba amaqabane omnye komnye hayi utshaba;
• bamzama obubonakala ingqumbo, umsindo abathintelwa, ufuna ukuziphindezelela okanye abohlwaye;
• Iindlela zokulawula amandla angenza umonakalo kuphela;
• ekulweleni ingongoma lwabo lwembono, kubalulekile ukuba uthathe ingqalelo iimfuno welinye icala;
• intsebenziswano kufuneka ube nobubele kwaye ivulekileyo;
• okhuphisana kufuneka Ngena kwi ukuqonda kunye nentsebenziswano.

Ngokungqongqo ngokulandela imigaqo nokunamathela sikhokelo yonxibelelwano ishishini, ungasoloko ufumana indlela ukuphuma meko. Ukuba omnye amaqela aphikisayo wenza ngolwaphulo ingcwaba, yonke inkqubo angaya ingalawuleki kwaye abe etshabalalisayo. Ayizi engeyiyo nawuphi na amaqela, kunye ukuphikisana nzondo kuphela.