Yintoni othanda

Ngamnye kuthi ubuncinane kanye, kodwa wazifumana sele kugcwele tai. Lo mbono, nto leyo rhoqo ujikeleza enqwondweni yam, oko lingakuphumlanga kwaye andifuni ukuya naphi, kwezinye iimeko, kusenokubonakala ngathi mnandi, ngoxa abanye baya kuba ngumthombo iingxaki ezinkulu lula. Ngokomzekelo, cinga ukuba uvale sokuhlambela amanzi endlwini, cima irhasi apho ekhitshini. iingcinga ezinjalo ngaphandle iingxaki kunokubangela neurosis yokwenene kukuthenga izinto.

Abanye abantu abakwazi kuzibamba kodwa ndicinga ukuba yonke usengozini. Oku akukho malunga clinical kwaye malunga xa umntu sisondela ngokupheleleyo imeko ebonakala yingozi kuye. Ngokomzekelo, umntu unako ukulandela phithi edityaniswe yokuba ukuba iphuma emva ngentsimbi yeshumi ebusuku, ngoko ke uya kuhlasela umphangi kwi ibhatyi emnyama ngemela esandleni sakhe kunye bandanna emqaleni wakhe. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ezi zimvo ukuzoba imifanekiso eneenkcukacha kakhulu. An into umdla kukuba umntu onesifo phithi ichazwe ngentla apha ayikazi kusenokwenzeka nokuba ndithini xa yayo esitratweni bazihluthe ibango umntu ibhatyi emnyama ngemela, kodwa ngaphandle neebhandana. Uya kubuya ekhaya kwaye iya kuba kwakhona imijikelo-on image yanto, kodwa inkunzi senzeke ukulibala kungekudala kakhulu.

Amaxesha amaninzi kukhathazeka ephuma umnqweno ukwenza into ethile. Akukho mfuneko kolu didi ucinga iholide, ndisiya eshukumayo njalo njalo, njengoko oku umnqweno njengesiqhelo, nemvelo apho ngokupheleleyo nto apho. Tai badla engaqhelekanga, engaqhelekanga, ezingamkelekanga - ngamanye amazwi, kufuneka kuyaphikisana nesimo salo mntu, lowo kwakufike. Amaxesha amaninzi le mibono bazizidenge kakhulu. Umzekelo: uvuke umthetheli etafileni phambi kwakhe, ukunika othengisayo evela evenkileni ibhrashi yamazinyo, ukuba bebe nantoni na evela endlini umhlobo wakhe. Konke oku kuvakala funny, kodwa abantu abane kulo akukho mnandi apha musa kubona. iingcamango ezinjalo zinokwenza umntu zomzimba luvo, efuna wedwa, Kakade, oko kuchaphazela ngokuyintloko psyche yakhe.

Kakade ke, lo phithi kusenokuba kuhle: ukwamkela i eninzi imali, intsapho yakhe, bahamba umhlaba. Le ngcamango ibonakala kakhulu eyaneleyo, kwaye ukusuka eqhelekileyo iminqweno yabantu ziyahluka kuphela okusemandleni abo. Le catch kukuba umntu athi phithi ngemali ziya kwenza ubomi babo bonke ngaphandle kwanokucinga ngokuba kutheni wayefuna. Kodwa indoda phithi malunga ulonwabo emtshatweni uya kuba ufuna bonke ubomi bakhe, kodwa uya kufa yedwa, uze wakuba ungakufumani lowo ngayo ukuqala intsapho.

Tai: indlela ukujongana nazo

Olokuqala ukuqonda isizathu sokuba kubekho lo neurosis: ukudinwa, ukungatyi ukutya okunesondlo, nokungalali, izakhiwo izakufihlwa kwaye njalo njalo. Ngaphandle ukuqonda nokwazi ingxaki akayi ukulwa nayo.

Bayavuma ukuba akukho kukunika uxolo phithi yingxaki, uze uzame ukuba mna sikholelwe ukuba osisiyatha, uze wenze engenakwenzeka. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba oku kuya kukunceda.

Tai, zinxulunyaniswa uloyiko, nolona nyango lungcono kwi "ezindle". Ngaba ucinga ukuba ikati emnyama - umthombo bonke ububi emhlabeni, ukufumana esi silwanyana ekhaya; Ndicinga kule eliphezulu ophilayo indoda engenakhaya ofuna kwabafileyo - hamba apho yaye uqinisekise yonke into cwaka yaye ezolile.

iindlela ezithile ukuba umzabalazo kunye nezimvo ezinxulumene umyalelo nokuqoqosheka. Ndicinga ukuba sele bekwazi, njani, ke, qhubeka ukuba akukho intsingiselo.

Kuyenzeka rhoqo ukuba bagcine neurosis yeentshukumo obsessional ebantwaneni. Ukunyanga kwenziwa kakuhle ngenkxaso oyingcali, njengokuba isifo abantwana ukuba undikhohlisile.

Ngokubanzi, ndifuna ukongeza ukuba lihlala likhona ukuba babuyele ngengqondo ngobuchule ukunceda balahle nkqu othanda kakhulu waphikelela kanye kunye bonke.