Ukunyakaza okugqithisileyo kumntwana: kubangela, unyango

Ukunyakaza okugqithisileyo kumntwana kuqhelekileyo. Kunzima ukungaqapheli, kuba zimela ukuphindaphinda rhoqo kweentshukumo ezidityanisiweyo kwixesha elide. Ngokomzekelo, abazali bangaqala ukukhathazeka ngombuzo othi kutheni umntwana ebopha izipikili, aguqulwe, agubungele intloko yakhe njalo njalo.

Siza kuzama ngokubanzi iinkcukacha ukuze siyiqonde ngale ngcamango, njenge "syndrome of movement movements". Ukongezelela, siya kuqwalasela iimpawu, izizathu, iindlela zokonyango kunye nokukhusela ingxaki.

Kutheni kukho i-syndrome yokunyanzelisa

Ngubani othe wanyamekela kulolu hlobo lwesifo? Iyintoni imbangela yokunyakaza okugqithisileyo?

Ngokuqhelekileyo bahlala behlushwa ngabantwana abahlala bexinzeleleke kwiimeko, bekhuliswe kwiintsapho ezingasebenzi, okanye abantwana emva kokuxhatshazwa kwe-craniocerrebral. Kodwa kukho na matyala xa ukunyuka okunyanzelekayo kumntwana kubonakala ngaphandle kokubonakalayo (kubazali kunye nabanye) izizathu. Kukho nawuphi na umzekelo, kubalulekile ukuchonga into ebangela ukuphuhliswa kwengxaki, kwaye iyakususa ngexesha, ukwenzela ukuba ingabonakali ngakumbi imeko.

Iimpawu zokunyanzelisa

Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokubonakalisa olu hlobo lwesifo. Abazali abanononophelo kufuneka baqaphele imeko xa umntwana wabo esoloko ehlala

• Uhlutha iminwe yakhe okanye uyasondeza;
• Gnawing kwiiphonkwane;
• Ukhawuleza intloko okanye uguqula umzimba wakhe wonke;
• Ngokuqhelekileyo i-sniffs (ingabandakanywa nobukho bomshushu);
• Utshitshisa ngezandla zakhe okanye adibanise unyawo lwakhe;
• Nips isikhumba kwizandla okanye kwezinye iindawo zomzimba;
• Ngokuqhelekileyo ixhamla;
• Ngokuphindaphindiweyo ujika entanyeni okanye amqubise kwelinye icala;
• Uphikisa iinwele zakhe.

Ngelo xesha, kubalulekile ukuphinda kwakhona ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba uthethe malunga nobukho beengxaki kungekhona kwimeko enye yokusebenza okukhankanywe ngasentla, kodwa ngokuphindaphinda rhoqo.

Ngakuphi ukudibanisa ukunyanzelisa

Kubantwana abancinci, iimpawu zeengxaki zibonakalisa kakhulu ixesha. Kukho ukuphindaphinda kwakhona kwanoma yimuphi na okanye izinto eziliqela ngexesha elilodwa.

Ngokuphathelele abantwana beeminyaka zesikolo, ukunyuka kwabo okunyanzelekayo kunokuhamba kunye ne-enuresis, ukugubha okanye ukulala. Ngokukodwa, oku kubandakanyeka nge-neurosis of expectation, ebonakalayo ngenxa yokoyika ukwenza impazamo (umzekelo, xa uphendula kufuphi nebhodi, njalo njalo). Ngethuba elifanayo, ukunyanzelisa ukunyanzeliswa komntwana kunokuhamba kunye nekhaksi ngendlela yokukhwehlela, ukukhenkceza, ukukhenkceza, ukukhenkceza. Ukuvuthwa kwabo kudla ngokugqithiswa ngexesha lovuyo, ukwesaba, ukuxhalabisa.

Ngaba ukunyanzelisa ukunyanzelisa kumntwana kusemgangathweni?

Kuthetha ntoni oogqirha malunga nale nto, kubandakanywa noDkt. Komarovsky owaziwayo? Ukunyakaza okugqithisileyo akusoloko kubonisa ukuba kukho iingxaki nge-psyche. Kwiimeko zobunzima obucothayo, zingaphinde zinyamalale zodwa. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba amaxesha amaninzi amanyathelo afana nesigaba esilandelayo ekufundeni ihlabathi kunye nokukhula.

Kodwa ukuba umntwana sele sele ehlwitha iminwe yakhe ixesha elide, udibanisa emininini, uyigubungela intloko okanye ayibone ezinye iimpawu zengxaki, kungcono ukuqhagamshelana nomntwana wezithili zezilwanyana ukuxilongwa ngokukhethekileyo kwaye, mhlawumbi, ukuqeshwa kwoluhlobo oluyimfuneko lwonyango.

Ukuxilongwa kwesifo

Asimele sikhohlwe ukuba ukunyuka okunyanzelekayo kubantwana akusisifo esahlukileyo, kodwa kunokubonisa ubungqina beengxaki ezinzulu. Kwaye kuphela ngoncedo lwezoxilongo ezikhethekileyo kunokwenzeka ukuba ungabandakanyi okanye ubhengeze ubukho bentlalo. Ngokomzekelo, imbangela yokunyakaza ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokuba khona kwezi zifo:

1. Syndrome yeTretrette.
2. Ingxaki yokunyamezela.
3. Trichotillomania.

Ngethuba elifanayo, banokuzibonakalisa ngokwenene nakweyiphi na ubudala, bobabini ebantwaneni abaphilileyo kunye nalabo ababhekiselele kwizinga eliphantsi lokuphuhliswa kwengqondo.

Unyango kwi-neurosis of movements

Indlela yokulahla iingxaki ezinjengokunyuka kokunyamezela kubantwana? Unyango lubonelela ngeentlobo ezahlukeneyo zonyango, ngokuxhomekeka kwinqanaba lokubonakalisa kunye nobukhulu beempawu zesifo.

Ukuba ngamanye amaxesha, amayeza ayimfuneko, ngoko kwabanye, amayeza asetyenziswa. Inhlanganisela efanelekileyo kakhulu yeeseshini ze-psychotherapeutic kwi-psychologist yengqondo kunye neyeza. Ngelo xesha, abazali kufuneka baqonde ukuba kuya kufuneka benze imizamo ethile yokubuyisela umntwana ngokuphumelelayo.

Okokuqala, kuyafaneleka ukuhlaziya iindlela zakho zokukhulisa. Akwamkelekanga ukusebenzisa ukugwenxa nokunyangwa komzimba kumntwana. Ukubukeka kunye nelizwi kufuneka lihlale lizolile kwaye libubele.

Ukongezelela, umntwana kufuneka afundiswe ukuba azimeleyo, achanekileyo kwaye ahlambuluke, kwaye ukususela kumncinane. Akuyi kuba yinto enqwenelekayo ukuphumeza, ukuthetha kunye noontanga, ukufunda kunye kunye nokunye. Kubalulekile ukuba ungadluli kwaye ukhusele kokubili ukhathala ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo.

Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukudansa imihla ngemihla ubuncinane imizuzu embalwa nomntwana. Sidinga ukuthabatha iingoma ezihlekisayo kunye neengqungquthela, eziza kubhenela kuqala kuzo zonke.

Amachiza

Emva kokuba ibonakaliswe isizathu esivakalayo sokuba umntwana adibanise izipikili okanye enze ezinye iintshukumo ezithintekayo, udokotela wezingane unokugqiba ngesigqibo semithi.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, la mayeza ayalelwe:

• "Asparks".
• "Glycine."
• "ICinnarizine."
• IPantog.
• "Persen".
• "I-Milgamma."

Asimele sikhohlwe ukuba ezi ndlela zonyango zingasetyenziselwa kuphela umyalelo wonyango, ekubeni zichaphazela inkqubo ye-nervous central. Zisetyenziselwa kuphela kwiimeko ezigqithiseleyo, xa kukho ukuphambuka okukhulu okanye eso sifo sisesigxina esingekho nto.

Unyango ngamachiza endabuko

Izilwanyana zesilwanyana zengxaki zingasetyenziselwa ngokubambisana nonyango oluphambili. Abanye babo banceda ukunyamezela umntwana kunye nokuphazamisa ingxaki, ngelixa abanye banceda ukuzinza inkqubo yakhe yeentlungu.

Makhe sicinge ngamanyathelo athile:

1. Amanzi okuhlambela. Ngexesha lenkqubo yamanzi yemihla ngemihla, unokusebenzisa imifuno efana nokujika, i-chamomile, i-lavender, i-mint. Bazolalisa inkqubo ye-nervous and relieve tension.
2. Amanzi ngobusi. Kubonakala ngathi ithuluzi elilula kangaka, kodwa linomphumo omuhle kakhulu. Ukwenza oko, kufuneka uhlaziye i-teaspoon yobusi kwi-glasi efudumeleyo (kungekho nto ishushu!) Amanzi uze unike umntwana ngokusela ngqo phambi kokulala.
3. Ukuchithwa kwe-oatmeal. Ukuze lulungiselelwe, kubalulekile ukuhlanza i-oatmeal kwaye upheke kuze kube yicatshulwa ephekwe ukushisa okuphantsi kwithayitha yamanzi. Emva koko, gcoba umhluzi obangelwayo kwaye ungeze kuyo enye i-spoonful ye honey. Mnike umntwana udinga iglasi enye ngosuku.

Ukuthintela ukubonakala kwesifo

Ngamandla omzali ngamnye - ukukhusela okanye ubuncinci ukunciphisa ubunokwenzeka bokubonakala komntwana ukunyuka okunyanzelekayo okanye nayiphi na enye into engafanelekanga yengqondo kunye neentsholongwane.

Okokuqala, iindlela zokuthintela ziquka inani elaneleyo loqhagamshelwano nosana. Kubalulekile ukunika ubuncinane ixesha elithile ngosuku ngalunye ukuthetha nomntwana (kungakhathaliseki ukuba uneminyaka engakanani, nangona umntwana), funda kuye iingongoma, fumana ukuzonwabisa ngokubambisana (ukudweba, ukumodanisa, ukudansa, umdlalo osebenzayo njalo njalo). Oku kuya kunceda ukuseka ithemba kunye nokwenza umntwana akhululeke ngakumbi.

Isinyathelo esilandelayo kukugada kwiimeko ezixinzelelekileyo. Kakade, yonke into ayinakucingelwa, kodwa ngamandla abazali-ukwenza konke okusemandleni ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana ulungiselwe ngokusemgangathweni. Ukwenza oku, unokwenza, umzekelo, udlala iziganeko ngeemeko ezahlukeneyo ezingalindelekanga, ukwenzela ukuba xa kwenzeka ukuba i-kid ilahlekile kwaye iyothuswa, kodwa iyazi indlela yokwenza ngokufanelekileyo.

Kubalulekile ukusetha imihla ngemihla kwaye uhambelane ngokucacileyo. Ukongezelela, kubalulekile ukuba ufunde umntwana ngokuzimela kunye noxanduva lwakhe.

Elinye iphuzu elibalulekileyo, eliye lakhunjulwa ngasentla: akakho nawuphi na umntu onokunyamezela ukukhathala kwengqondo nangokwenyama, njengoko bengenayo impembelelo engcono kwimali engqondo. Kubantwana abanobuchopho, ungasebenzisa iindlela ezichazwe kwicandelo elithi "unyango kunye neyeza zendabuko" - iibhotile ezihlambululayo kunye nemifuno kunye nolwandle lwetyuwa, amanzi kunye nobusi ubusuku nokunye.

Into ephambili ekufuneka ikhunjulwe ngokupheleleyo kubo bonke abazali: impilo yomntwana (kubandakanywa nengqondo) isezandleni zabo ngokupheleleyo.