Xa indoda ndikhohlakele: umntu uyazikhethela kunye neemfuno yoluntu?

utshintsho olukhawulezayo enjalo ezingqondweni likarhulumente akuzange kwenzeke. dudes Izolo kaThixo, metrosexuals banyanzeleka ukuba zihambe kwaye kuphoswa indawo ephezulu ngqwabalala-imithi abantu. Xa wayethetha ngale ndoda wasebenzisa igama elithi "ndikhohlakele" - ukuba uhlobo kunconywa, isiqinisekiso yokuhlawula amatyala kunye nomtsalane ngokwasemzimbeni besini esahlukileyo. Into oyiyo; umkhwa omtsha okanye abuyele kwiziseko?

A leminyaka eyadlulayo, ubudlelwane usapho kunye nothando ilula kwaye icacile. Man ukudlala indima umkhuseli kunye nemali ekhaya. Ke kwakufuneka ndondle intsapho yakhe ngemali, ukukhusela ngokuchasene ubungozi. Ubomi ezininzi madoda kwakugcwele yabasebenzi ngokwasemzimbeni kunye neemeko ezinzima kokuhlala. Umfazi ukudala cosiness waza waqhubeka ekhaya.

Ekuhambeni kwexesha, imfuneko ukhuseleko ngqo ngokwasemzimbeni, njengoko enjalo, ukuba kancane. Bandakanya libizwe lobungcali "njengendoda" (nabamasango, abakhi, imithi, abaqhubi itrekta, abasebenza) kodwa ezidumileyo. Abantu baba abayili, fashion nabayili, abapheki. Kwakukho sisixa esikhulu besilisa kwi ofisi ze web-studio. Abafazi kahle nakwezobugcisa, bekusoloko ingqalelo kuphela oyindoda: engineer, a bhanki, umqhubi weteksi, igqwetha, kwaye nkqu ngunogada. Olo ulungelelwaniso ekuqaleni kwenkulungwane lokugqibela okwakubonakala lee.

Akumangalisi ukuba kwimeko zokuguqulwa loluntu ezifana strong batshintsha iimfuno ngokwesini omnye komnye. Ngokukodwa, abasetyhini baqala ukuba ifune ubungqina "isidima oyindoda"-ofisi zawo onyuliweyo. Amantombazana amaninzi bafuna mfo lwabo ndikhohlakele. Kufuneka luboniswe zombini imbonakalo yayo kwaye kwezinye iinkalo zalo. Enyanisweni, kukho imfuneko esinjalo ngokuhambisana nomnqweno babantu ukubona abathandekayo babo ilokhwe entle izithende eliphezulu. Ke ukuba ubuhle yabafazi Kuyacaca - Marilyn Monroe kunye Odri Hepborn nangoku zokuhlolwa of ubufazi, ngoko ngokungenalusini - hayi kakhulu. Ngoko ke yintoni "umntu ngokungenalusini", nendlela ube nguye?

Njengoko ngokobuhle ababhinqileyo, kukho eminye imizekelo ukuyilandela. Okokuqala, le intsha Hollywood zolinganiso Jason Statham, Gerard Batleyr kunye Hyu Dzhekman. umzimba Relief, ezifumaneka veki ungqongqo jonga - ukubalelwa isigxina retroseksualnosti namhlanje ethandwayo. Ke ukuze balungele isimbo yokwambatha, akukho iimbekiselo ezininzi ukuya yakudala nokusebenziseka: obukhulu ngelaphu zangaphantsi, impahla yesikhumba, ijini evakalala eluhlaza, T-shirt, ihempe plaid. Abantu abaninzi babechanile ngokucinga ukuba le ndoda ngokungenalusini - oku ethile retroseksual kunye stylist lobuqu. Lo mfanekiso thile nzulu. Xa bathi "ndikhohlakele", nto leyo ithetha ukuba inani iimpawu zobuqu. Isibindi, namandla, ezolileyo, uxanduva nokuthembeka.

Sinokuthi ukuba lo mfanekiso ingcole ngokukhuthazwa kwishishini lokwenziwa kweefilim mihla. Ngaphandle kokuba abantu abaninzi badla khangela abangenatarhu, uhlobo onjalo uyibone ebomini. ukuba uya kuhlala njengebhakana ukuba izizukulwana ezizayo babantu, okanye enye into yoluntu iya ilityalwe? Asikwazi kuthi ngokuqinisekileyo. ubudlelwane ngokwesini siqhubeka sikhula ngokukhawuleza kwaye zibe nzima ngakumbi. Mhlawumbi inkolelo yokuba indoda yokwenene kufuneka ndikhohlakele - yeyona ankile ukuba linamathela umzekelo endala yobudlelwane, ukufaneleka nesingaphantsi yaye ngaphantsi suku ngalunye.