Owayesakuba Umyeni: Indlela sakhe asinakufumana okulingene ukubuyisela?

Ngaba usoloko waphupha ntsapho omkhulu onamandla apho indoda inkxaso othembekileyo kunye nokhuseleko. A ndiyaphupha, kokuba utshatile, kwaye kubonakala ukuba baphile fun and ndonwabile. Kodwa ngephanyazo nje konke inciphisiwe: zintanda umyeni usapho, ngokwenene echaza isizathu sokuba imali ekhawulezileyo enjalo. Ngaphezu koko, yena wafaka for umtshato, yaye kungekudala kuya kufuneka ukuba ihlanjululwa. Sound eziqhelekileyo? Inene, ngoku asazi ukuba siphile ngayo, emva kokuba zonke sisakuthanda indoda yakho. Oko ukwenza: ukuqala ubomi obutsha, okanye zama ukugcina endala? Nangona ex-Indoda kude kuwe kwaye akayi kubuyela kuwe, amanyathelo okuqala ngokuphathelele ukusebenzisa ungenza wena. Ubuncinane zama; kuba akukho namnye uya mandibe netyala kuwe yonke, ukuba enze konke okusemandleni ukuze siqhubeke union-kanye womelele.

Okokuqala, ubuthe nesibindi ukuze ayeke ukukhala zibe komqamelo wam. Noko kunjalo, oku kube lula kuwe, kwaye ex-indoda akayi kubona ezi ntlungu. Kulungile ukuba bachithe ixesha kwi oyithandayo, yiya evenkileni iinwele kunye nobuhle salon. Ngenxa yokulahlekelwa nomyeni wakhe - ukuba akukho sizathu ukuya kwi ukudakumba. Ingakumbi, uza ukubuyela indoda yakhe, yaye oko kufuneka kudandalaziswe fomu ekulweni. Yenza iinwele omhle, uthenga iperi ilokhwe ezintle kunye nezihlangu ophezulu beyingqube ngesithende. Ukuba ndindisholo intlungu, akukho mfuneko bangxame ukuya amaqebengwana okanye utywala. umzimba kunye nempilo enkenenkene engeyomfuneko kuyo.

Uhleli ekhaya, sonwabile, zama ukuhlalutya ulwalamano lwakho nomyeni wakhe. Nikelani ingqalelo iingxaki kwafuneka ukuba ukuhlangana kubomi bentsapho, na ukuba nibambane kaninzi kangakanani, yaye yintoni isizathu. Khumbula ukuba indoda icaphuke: ngaba kukudika omelet zakho zemihla ngemihla, okanye yena nesithukuthezi ukuba ahlale nawe qho ngokuhlwa phambi TV. Oku kuyimfuneko ukuze ukwazi ukuqonda isizathu sokuba ukushiya intsapho yendoda yakhe. rhoqo nosapho loo madoda abangenazo ngokwaneleyo ababhinqileyo ingqalelo, uthando ngesondo. Umel 'ukuba indoda yakho simshiya ukuba omnye umfazi: ukufumana lowo ikwazile ukuba anibetha (umzekelo, ngokwemiqathango sex), akazange alibazise peremetnetsya kuyo kukhangela ubomi obungcono. Kakade ke, kusenokwenzeka ukuba sele uyasazi isizathu sokuba umyeni wakhe ngasekhohlo. Emva koko ugqithele kwisicwangciso esilandelayo amanyathelo.

Kanye njengokuba sele ex-umyeni akaqondi kuwe, ukuba bambize, yayimbongoza ukuba eze umva, kwaye wasonga, kuba ngaphandle kwakho, akukho ingqiqo ukuhlala kulo mhlaba. Izenzo ezinjalo woyikise nje yena ophelelwe ithuba lakhe lokugqibela yokubuyisana. Zalyagte emazantsi. Zama ubuncinane okwethutyana kufuna zizihlandlo kwiintlanganiso yaye musa ukucofa inani aqhelekileyo. Ngamafutshane, ngaba bonke shwaka ebomini bakhe. Kungenzeka ukuba indoda owayesakuba ndidikwe ngaphandle uyaliqonda lucky waphulukana, yaye sele ucinga loxolelaniso. Asiyondawo nto bathi le ndoda kuhamba, kufuneka nje ukuba alibale ukuba khona kwalo.

Ngoku ke wokugcina osele. Emva kokunqumama, kuphuma ukuthatha inyathelo. Ukuze ukuzama ukubuyela endodeni yakhe entsatsheni, kufuneka ukuba zinyule loo mhla. Akukho mfuneko ukuba uzibekele itafile kwindawo yokutyela, ngcono bambize ekhaya, kuba apha baye basinda akukho namnye umzuzu onwabe. Lungiselela izikotile yakhe ayithandayo, balumeke amakhandlela uvule nemvaba yewayini. Khumbula, ngokuba eyaqala njengosapho lwakho. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ukuba inyanzelise ukuqeshwa engxamisekileyo. Ukuba indoda yokuqala ithi ukuba akanako, linda ngcono ubize ubuye ngomso. Nje mzekelo thembela kuxolelwaniso, kuye ukuba usenalo iimvakalelo.

Okokugqibela, uye wadibana. Okona kubalulekileyo, thetha naye. Akukho mfuneko ukuba bafunge nikhumbule iinkalo engasi ebomini bakho ndawonye. Nina ngoko yonke into zihlalutywe, kwaye bazi ke ukuba babesenza into engalunganga. Nje Khumbula ukuba indlela elungileyo kunye, khangela kunye albhamu ifoto yosapho. indoda umva? Kodwa oko kuya kuxhomekeka kulo ubaphatha njani le meko kwaye ufuna ukuba ukugcina umtshato wenu. Man - ekudaleni akucingeleki, kodwa uya kusoloko ukukhetha uhlobo lobomi apho kushushu kwaye mavoko.