Indlela ukuba ifayile ukuze umtshato - iinkcukacha kunye bokuqonda

Ukuba ugqiba ukuba ndimaphule ubudlelwane usapho kunye mtshato, uwise nje iimvakalelo ezingasafunwayo, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, isigqibo sele yenziwe kwaye ethukile ngale engenanjongo kunye nempilo akulunganga. Ngaphambi indlela kwifayile uqhawulo-mtshato, khangela uxwebhu lwephepha uze uphawule imigqaliselo wena ebomini intsapho yakho: umtshato, ukuzalwa lwabantwana, ukuthenga izinto, izixhobo, indawo yokuhlala kunye nabanye. abantwana Minor xa mtshato - incoko eyahlukileyo, kwaye sifikelela. Bakumbona ke impahla elifeza zidweliswe ephepheni, kuya kuba lula ukuqala icandelo inkqubo. Ngoko ke, khangela nje iimeko ezimbalwa.

Esi sibini ebhalisiweyo kwizixeko ezahlukahlukeneyo

Faka kwimeko enjalo kunokwenzeka. Umthetho uvumela ukufakwa kwamabango mtshato kwindawo ahlala kuyo ummangali, kungekhona ummangalelwa. Ukuba une abantwana abahlala kunye nawe, yaye lokuhamba ukuya kwindawo yokuhlala iqabane kunzima, ungathumela isicelo enkundleni kuloo ndawo yobhaliso yakhe. Kwelinye icala, ukuba akukho bantwana, lo mtshato efanayo, ukungeniswa isicelo kwenzeka kuphela kwicandelo ukubhalisa umtshato. Ungathumela ibango ileta obhalise uluhlu lweziqulatho , okanye ukuba kokungeniswa abantu obathembayo (abahlobo, abazali). Isicelo sample-mtshato zingafumaneka kwi-ofisi yokubhaliswa endaweni ubhaliso lwakho lwangoku. Xa kungekho imvume iqabane-mtshato, isicelo uthunyelwa kuphela enkundleni.

Elinye iqabane usendlini

Kwiimeko ezilolu hlobo zibangelwa yi komsipha olupheleleyo yaye ibuhlungu kobudlelwane, amatyala ukuba amatyala, irekhodi yolwaphulo, elirhoxisa isondlo - nantoni na enokwenzeka. Ukuba ngaba le meko, nceda ujonge umantyi kwi indawo yokugcina eyaziwayo iqabane yokuhlala. Sample isicelo umtshato enkundleni kwiimeko ezinjalo zingafumaneka kule ngumantyi kwinkundla yomthetho okanye iingcebiso zomthetho. Ngokugcwalisa isicelo isicelo kubameli imvume yakho ukuze umtshato ngaphandle ebusweni bakho, ukuyeka "ixesha vangama kunye noxolelwaniso." Qiniseka ukukhangela idilesi apho uya kuthumela amaphepha komtshato. Phambi kokuba ifayile ukuze umtshato kunye ukuthumela ileta, ahlawule umrhumo chaza (zirisithi kwakhona iqhotyoshelwe kwisicelo).

Divorce nabantwana

Xa isigqibo umtshato nomfazi wakhe kunokwenzeka nantoni na ixesha, udinga inkcazelo yakho kuphela. Xa umyeni wakhe oku akusoloko mtshato akunakwenzeka, ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo, kwaye usana lungaphantsi konyaka omnye. Kakade ke, uyakwazi ukudlula omnye komnye kunye nomfazi wakhe, ngamandla akho ukuthethana kunye 'yangaphambili' ukuba ukwahlulwa kwepropati, inkxaso umntwana. Amaphepha mtshato esemthethweni ungafumana kuphela emva kosuku lokuqala lokuzalwa komntwana wakho. Ngalo lonke ixesha khumbula enye into: indlela kwifayile-mtshato - inkqubo ukufumana isondlo ukulungiselela abantwana - enye. Yaye mtshato akuthethi ngokuzenzekelayo abele isondlo. Oku kwenziwa mazwi olongezelelweyo.

Kakade ke, wonke umzali unyanzelekile ukuba ukunyamekela umntwana wabo, yaye vice versa. Ukwenza yokuzondla abantwana isondlo kunokwenzeka ezicingisisiweyo. Kodwa ukwenze ngcono, kungokuvumelana, yaye hayi ngamandla. Ukuba ubuhlobo okubi, imvelaphi ngokwasengqondweni phambi kokuba kwifayile uqhawulo-mtshato, hayi ezona entsatsheni. Kodwa ke kukho enye into - abantwana bakhula kwaye zisoloko izimvo zabo malunga nabazali bobabini. Ukwenziwa kwalo mbono, phantsi koxinzelelo ayinqweneleki. Ingakumbi kuba ukuhluthwa amalungelo abazali akwenzeki kwisigqibo sokuba umtshato. Ayikho into ethintela saka ndimdala yaye uyise nokuba ngunina emva kwexesha elithile ukumangalela ibango isondlo emntwaneni wakhe ngenxa incapacity yakhe.

Ukuze ufumane inkcazelo engakumbi malunga nendlela kwifayile uqhawulo-mtshato, ungafumana ingcebiso yezomthetho, ukuba imeko yakho inzima ngaphezu koko siye sakufunda.