Kubomi nantoni na enokwenzeka. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha izibini bayaqonda ukuba isikhephe usapho lwabo wabalekela izixhobo nasekugqibeleni yawohloka. Kwaye le yindlela abo wayehlala kumtshato waseburhulumenteni, ngokufanayo nabo bayagqobhoza, bayangena yomthendeleko wedding. Ke ukuba umtshato esemthethweni obangela naziphi na iingxaki ezithile, le ukuveza komtshato - into ngokwanelisayo ezintsonkothileyo. Kwelinye icala, ibandla unikwa isifungo, leyo akunakwenzeka ukuba aphule, yaye kwelinye - akukho mntu omzimba kwiimpazamo. Ukuba kanye ebomini ndenza impazamo, yaye intsapho iye yaba neshologu, ngokuqinisekileyo uThixo ethanda, kule meko uphumelele? Ingakumbi kwimeko apho nayiphi na enye indlela yokusombulula iingxabano nje akunakwenzeka. Ngaba ukuba ukuveza umtshato zonqulo kunokwenzeka?
Ngaba unqulo Orthodox ivumela ukuba umtshato
Okokuqala, kufuneka ukhumbule sengqondo weNkosi kumba, nto leyo ibhaliwe encwadini Malaki 2:16. Oku kuchazwe ngokucacileyo ukuba uThixo akazamkeli mtshato emtshatweni. IBhayibhile ithi ngokucacileyo ukuba iqhina lomtshato - ukuba ubomi. Kule ncwadi ka Mateyu 19: 6 uthi uThixo akumanyileyo, makungahlulwa mntu. Ngelo xesha, uThixo uyavuma ukuba manyano athathe ngabantu abanesono, ngoko kwenzeka ukuveza umtshato. Kuba amalungelo abo baye bagqiba ekubeni umtshato, ingakumbi abasetyhini, kwi kwiTestamente eNdala (Duteronomi 24: 1-4) yasekwa imithetho ethile. KwiVangeli kaMateyu (Isahluko 19, ivesi 9) uthi aphinde atshate zinokwenzeka ngenxa yokuba imbuka. Kulo mzekelo, imvume ukuphinda-manyano kunikwa iqela owenzakeleyo.
mtshato ibandla
Njengoko e Orthodox kukho imfihlelo lomtshato, sinako aphethe ukuba kufuneka kubekho ukuveza umtshato zonqulo. Noko ke, loo lokukhula kubuKristu akakho. Kwaye ke eli gama ukuveza kule mbono na ezingafanelanga kakuhle. Church ivunyelwe kuphela ngokutsha nghena umtshato ibandla. Ukuze zibambe yomthendeleko of lomtshato, kufuneka ufumane imvume dioceses zabo. Ekuqaleni umtshato ibhalwe kumaqumrhu karhulumente, emva koko, emva kokufumana sisabele isicelo, kuyenzeka ukuba isicelo ibandla ekhethiweyo aze aphinde atshate. Xa iphinda isiko yenye into: ukuba omabini amaqabane wazeka ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ngexesha umsitho apho izithsaba akaqhotyoshelwanga ebekwe, kodwa ukuba namnye kubo manyano okokuqala, kungekabekwa neminatha lwenzeka njengesiqhelo.
Ngubani na ukufumana intsikelelo ukuba atshate
Ukuveza umtshato ibandla kuvumelekile ayikho bonke. Kukho uluhlu ezithile izizathu zokuba oku kunokwenzeka:
- Licebo.
- Ubukho kwezifo ezosulela ngesondo okanye ezinganyangekiyo.
- Drug mkhuba, butywala.
- ukugula ngengqondo esinganyangekiyo.
- Engozini impilo kunye nobomi kunye ebangela umonakalo omnye wabalingane.
- Ukushiya intsapho.
Noko ke, izizathu ezifana nokunqongophala yengeniso, dissimilarity abalinganiswa, unxulumano olubi kunye nezalamane, ibandla asibonakali ukuba sikho ze, mhlawumbi, xa uhlanganise kubo uza kuyinikwa. Ngoko ke, lo mtshato kufuneka aphathwe kakuhle, kuphela xa uqinisekile ngokupheleleyo intanda okanye banyulwa bakhe. Kwaye ukuba kukho iingxaki zisekhona ukuzama ukufumana kwizibhambathiso, ebonisa ngaxeshanye uthando nenceba, njengokuba iNkosi uthi encwadini yobomi obungunaphakade.