Njengoko umfazi wakhe: tips

Madoda, Noko ke, njengoko abafazi benza izinto ezingenangqondo yaye benze iimpazamo esingaxolelekiyo. Kwaye njalo, abameli besini ngokomelela, nanku umbuzo, indlela yokufumana umfazi. Amacebiso kule nzima, kodwa ephunyeziweyo okunene zama ukunika kweli nqaku.

Icebiso 1: Khangela izizathu

Ngoko ke yenzekile lo mtshato. Njengoko umfazi wakhe? Oku ndicinga ukuba wedwa kunye nendoda. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba sikhangela iindlela ezahlukeneyo, kufuneka ufumanise ukuba yintoni isizathu sokuba ngokwahlukana. Loo nenekazi isigqibo isigqibo ukwaphula kobudlelwane (kufuneka kuthiwe ukuba abasetyhini kunqabile ukuya linyathelo elinzulu)? Lo mbuzo ophambili, nto leyo ngokuyintloko umntu umele ukufumana impendulo. Kwaye emva koko azame ukulungisa le meko, oko kukuthi ukwenza yonke into umfazi waqonda ukuba oko kuya kwenzeka kwakhona yaye indoda yakhe iza kutshintsha.

Kaninzi ezi zinto isigqibo amabhinqa iba butywala, nogonyamelo, ukunqongophala umnqweno ngakwicala umntu ukuxhasa usapho lwakhe. Kuphela ulungisa impazamo yakhe, kunokuba isiqingatha edabini. Kodwa njani na konke oku ukuze bafunde (kuba abantu kunqabile niqashele malunga izizathu ezizizo ukulungiselela nekhefu ubudlelwane)? Kukho iinketho ezininzi:

• wacela umkakhe (ukuba kunokwenzeka), yintoni na unobangela okuhlamba ukungcola;
• cela ingcebiso ezivela kubahlobo abasondeleyo ukuba zoqhagamshelwano pretty olusondeleyo sibini, nazi ezinye bokuqonda zabo eziyimfihlo;
• uthethe izalamane umfazi wakhe (nonina-in-mthetho) kunye ukufumanisa ukuba kunokwenzeka ebangela kubo.

Icebiso 2. Surprise

icebiso elihle ngendlela ukubuyisela umfazi: ukuhlela kuye. Oku kungenziwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ngoko ke, ukuba inenekazi bakhalaza ukuba umyeni wakhe akenzi nto ngeenxa zonke endlwini, ungenza ulungiswe ikhaya. Ukuba iqabane kudla esela, kungenziwa iibhakhowudi. Lo mfazi ngokuqinisekileyo kuya nje, yaye kwelinye jonga ngesandla kwi ukhetho sakhe. Noko ke, unako kwakhona wenze inenekazi entle ngendlela ezahlukeneyo: ukudibana benze ngokuhlwa nomfazi wam Mna romantic kangangokuba babekholelwa lonke utshintsho. Ukuba uza kwenza into entle, kufuneka ucinge nzulu ngezinto umfazi wakhe angathanda kakhulu yaye ukuba ngokwenene malunga noku.

Icebiso 3. History

Icebiso zilandelayo ngendlela ukubuyisela umfazi, khumbula ukuba umyeni wakhe yoyiswa. Ngoko ke, apha kufuneka scan kakuhle elidlulileyo baqikelele ukuba yintoni isigqibo isigqibo amanenekazi. Kwaye usebenzise i enye kwakhona. Umntu umele womelele, ukhaliphe, nenkathalo (njengoko kangangokuba xa nisaqala ukuthandana). Ezi mpawu kufuneka aboniswe ngoku. Kodwa ke musa ukwenza wena kakhulu guy ogqibeleleyo, umfazi uyayazi into, naye ke wayethetha.

Icebiso 4. Xoxa

Uphawu olandelayo malunga nendlela umfazi wakhe; nje ukuthetha kuye ekuhleni. Kaninzi abantu abatshatileyo ukulibala ukuba ufuna ukunyaniseka ngokupheleleyo kunye neqabane lakho, maxa wambi yokuginya aweve akawunqandi umsindo wabo. Injalo loo nto ngoku kufuneka ukuthetha ngokukhululekileyo yonke into oyithandayo. Fumana izinto azithandayo, oko angathanda ukutshintsha kunye, ngokubanzi, njengoko ukholelwa unako ukuphucula imeko ibe ngcono. Nangona kunjalo, ngeli xesha uthetha lady uthando akukho mfuneko yokuba bephazamisa uzame ukuzithethelela phambi kwakhe, oko azizange zihambe kakuhle. Kubhetele ukuba cwaka ukuphulaphula yonke, yaye emva kuphela bathi uluvo lwam. Kuphela kwincoko cwaka, unako ukufumana ukhozo inyaniso.

Icebiso 5. Utshintsho

Enye imadlana olukhulu ngendlela umfazi wakhe back: utshintsho. Ngoko ke, kuba ukuba ungaya kwezinye izifundo ukufunda ityala entsha, ukufumana ikuba entsha, ukuba benze izinto zonke ngokunga bangabonwa yaba ngenxa yomsebenzi. Kufuneka ukuba sibonise inenekazi ukuba emva washiya ubomi akukho wayeka, ayajika, kwaye yonke into ilungile. Kodwa nantsi ke kubalulekile ukuba ungayibaxi kwaye baqale ukungqina nenekazi ukuba ephosakeleyo, eshiya usapho kunye nendoda enkulu oku apha (nangona kusenokwenzeka, ayikho njalo).

Icebiso 6. Plans

Ukuba ufuna ukubuyela umfazi wakhe, yena kwafuneka ukuba usixelele malunga nezicwangciso zakho elizayo. Kwakhona kwavusa. Ngapha koko, ladies badla musa ukubona ikamva eqhelekileyo nale ndoda, t. To. Yena nje akazange izicwangciso kwangaphambili kwaye ucinga ngomso. Makuthathelwe kufuneka banikwe ubomi bakhe nkcukacha zincinci nokubonelela yonke intanda yakhe. Noko ke, apha simele silumke ungayibaxi kunye nezithembiso, ingakumbi ezo nje kungenzeki ukuba sifezeke.

Icebiso 7. Abantwana

Indlela Ukuba abuyise umfazi wakhe emva komtshato, ukuba usapho unabantwana? Ngoko ke, umfazi kufuneka ubonise ukuba ubuhlobo kunye daddy umntwana kubaluleke kakhulu yaye kuyimfuneko. Kufuneka uzame ukuhamba kangangoko kunokwenzeka umntwana, waya kumkhawulela kunye naye, ukuze abize ufumanise njani izinto. Women bayamxabisa ukuziphatha okunjalo. Kodwa ukuba phambi kokuba uyise akazange ukubonisa nayiphi na inzala bebamba yakhe Chubby encinane, sebenzisa eli cebiso akunakwenzeka ukuba baphumelele.

Yintoni na ukuyenza?

Ukuba umntu ukhangela iindlela ukubuyela nomfazi wesifuba sayo, yena kufuneka axelele, yintoni na kuyenza. Ngoko ke, kukho uluhlu lwe iimpazamo ukuba oyindoda womelele ukwenza ezintle, kodwa ngokunjalo ndilunyothule zonke imitya niyitshise ngomlilo kwo ngazo kube lula ukufumana le umva.

1. Akukho mfuneko ukuzama ukujonga emehlweni umfazi wakhe olungileyo kakhulu, uzenza ekunene ukusuka guy egqibeleleyo (umfazi wakhe ukuba uyayazi indlela ngokwenene izinto, yaye nje musani ukukholwa kuzo zonke ezi yeqonga ubukhazikhazi).
2. Xa incoko umfazi lowo awufuni ukusebenzisa ubungqina ubhalo (amabhinqa bacinga ngokwahlukileyo kancinci, kuba kubo le nto iphambili - ingxenye ngokweemvakalelo, ngoko ke kungcono ukuba adlale ngayo aze abangele ukuphazamiseka wakhe amthandayo iimvakalelo ezakhayo iintshukumo ezithile).
3. Xa kungekho tyala akanakuba indoda ukugoba kwinqanaba le whiner kunye uyimfama, ecela umva wakhe amthandayo esifubeni intsapho. Lo mfo kufuneka womelele kwaye bakwazi ukuthatha izigqibo olungenazo nayiphi na imeko, nkqu nzima kakhulu.
4. Awunako ngathi ukuba ngaphandle umfazi ukuba umyeni wakhe kulungile kakhulu (ingakumbi ukuba akukho), ngenxa yokuba lo mfazi ukuphefumla gidi emva ukufunda ngayo.
5. Ayikhuthazwa ukuzalisa intanda yakhe izipho kunye neentyatyambo, akubonakali ukunceda kwaye kwakhona kuphela ukuqinisekisa nenekazi ukuba indoda, ngaphandle icandelo eziphathekayo, loo nto ukunika.
6. Xa kukho umtshato, kukho indoda okunene ayifanele ukuba silibale ngayo inkangeleko yazo. Ngapha koko, nkqu ezitalatweni kunye intanda yakhe, yaye ndizele oku kufuneka uyakwazi ukuhlangabezana njalo nomtsalane kwaye kakuhle.
7. Akuvunyelwe ngokungqongqo ukuphinda rhoqo ibinzana "Ndiyakuthanda." Nicikida ukuba isimo sakhe kufuneka izenzo, kungekhona amazwi. Ngenxa yokuba eneneni la magama engenanto ukuba engaxhaswa ngezenzo.