Ntoni abafazi Ucinga xa becinga amadoda litshate kwakhona?

Akukhathaliseki ukuba ziye umtshato elide kangakanani - iinyanga ezintandathu okanye iminyaka emithandathu. Kodwa xa yakho ex-indoda uza ngokusemthethweni kwakhona kunye nobudlelwane umntu, intloko nokukhwela iingcinga bezinye iintlanga. Nantsi into abantu bacinga abafazi ezahlukeneyo xa iihafu zabo zangaphambili kwakhona ukufumana ulonwabo.

"Njengoko abantwana bethu sisinde le nto?"

Ingcinga yokuqala elafikayo entloko Tiffany kaThixo, oluninzi kuye baxakwe. Njengoko lomtshato ex-indoda iya kuchaphazela abantwana babo kunye? Njengoko ngoku baya kuba unxibelelwano lwabo nendlela ukuba ubasuse kutshata nayo elitsha? Kubonakala ukuba le ntsapho phambi kweentsuku kulindeleke nzima, ezenza ukuqhelana umlinganiswa yomnye umntu.

"Ibuhlungu"

Ngokutsho Patti, intlungu eyaphukileyo nemvo ilahleko zange sekubonakala akafuni kubhubha. Okubuhlungu liyabonakala umfazi oqhawule umtshato ukuba bahlala ndawonye abantwana ngeli xesha yaye Ninganeli ulonwabo kwabo. Xa Heroine yethu bafunda iindaba, wagqiba ukuthetha yeforam yabafazi. Phambi kokuba umshado kweentsuku nje ezimbalwa, yaye uPatty bamfuna ukuyila lwakhokela umfanekiso idyll yosapho. Ngokutsho kwakhe lo darling entsha indima nabakhohlisi kunye namasela, kodwa eneneni oku ukhozo inyaniso. Yaye ngoxa ngaphakathi iimvakalelo zakhe ezingquzulanayo bemgxeka ngaphandle bonke abahlobo yena wahlala ezolile. Akukho namnye babengayiqondi ukuba awongamela ikhwele zasendle nomona. Emva bethetha abaphethwe mfo qonga, waqonda ukuba eyona ndlela yokuphuma kukwazi ukukhulula intlungu ngaphandle. Kulungile ukuba babe ababuthathaka ukuba sithethe inyaniso ngaphezu uncumo wayenza.

"Ngaba ndifanele khawuleza ukuba semthethweni ulwalamano lwabo omtsha?"

Kakade ke, asingabo bonke abasetyhini emva komtshato kuhlala engatshatanga. Abaninzi kubo Kwakhona bengafumani abanyulwa entsha. Njengoko kumtshato ifuthe indoda eyayisakuba kwisigqibo yabo ngokusemthethweni ubudlelwane ngoku? Kwaye ukuba akuyi kuya kukhangela njenge impendulo. "Owu, wanikela ubomi bakho. Khangela, mna azalwe shita ", - ucinga malunga nesiqingatha abafazi umtshato. Ngaba akukho bhetele ukuba sithobele icebiso Cindy elo xesha waliphulaphula izwi ngesizathu. Umfazi wayecinga ukuba usisidenge bangxame izinto ze uzame ngokukhawuleza kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuba atshate umthandi entsha, kuba kwaoko hawu yayo yaveza kakhulu.

"Poor uMtshakazi ..."

Nantso into Ndandicinga Lindsay, xa owayesakuba ngumyeni wakhe wathabatha epasejini kokuva kwakhe elitsha: "Ndiyathemba ukuba bomelele kunam. Le ntombazana Ihlwempu akayazi indlela ezininzi iingxaki wosondeza umtshato wakhe. Kodwa mhlawumbi baye bafumana omnye komnye ... ".

"Kulungile na ukuba ube nomnye umama?"

Cherie wayecinga ukuba ngoku nabantwana bakhe abayi kuba nako ukuyiphepha uthelekiso, sithethe rhoqo nomnye umama wakhe. Yintoni eyayiza kwenzeka ukuba ulahlekelwa lo mfazi kuzo zonke iinkalo? Oku ngeke kwenzeke!

"Wafumana inguqulelo entsha ngam"

Nokuba umfazi oyikhethileyo mathathu ex-yendoda baxhasa umntu oselula - yinto ngesibetho enzima ukuzigwagwisa. "Kwakhona, utshata wavele kunye amehlo aluhlaza. Kodwa ngokungafaniyo kum, eli nenekazi liselula akafuni ukuba babe nabantwana, kunye lokulala-ezimbini eqeshisayo "- kakuhle, maxa wambi amabhinqa aselula izicelo ezimbalwa kakhulu.

"Ngubani khathalela?"

Kakade ke, abantu akuyomfuneko ukuba azise ex-nabafazi kwi umnqweno ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba baxhase ubudlelwane. Kwenzeka ke ukuba xa abafazi umtshato bafunde umtshato ezayo zabangeneleli, bamangaliswa, kodwa zange bazive le mvakalelo ethile. Bona sijonga emva, khumbula amagqabantshintshi zokuhlala kunye, kodwa akazange azisole mtshato. Ngoku la abasetyhini yonke into babefuna: umsebenzi ngempumelelo kunye ubomi ngokupheleleyo ezaliswe kunye nabahlobo. Awanalo ixesha never, ngoko naluphi na utshintsho kubomi babanye bamjikelezileyo.

"Yena ke ukhulelwe?"

Yintoni eyabangela owayesakuba indoda ukukhokela omnye lakhe elitsha owukhethileyo nesibingelelo? Abantu ababhinqileyo abaninzi bacinga ukuba rush enxulumene nokuzaliswa kukuba intsapho. ukwazi Emmy waba mkhulu kangangokuba wagqiba ukuze afumanise oko izitya etafileni leeholide wadla umtshakazi. Ngequbuliso, phambi kwayo kumi Umphanda pickles, kwaye endaweni champagne kwiglasi wakhe isoda? Ingcamango yokuba umntwana wabo ingomso liya kuba ezinye DNA efanayo naleyo abantwana bakhe abane, kwaba ngathi Punch esiswini. Wayecinga iminyaka embalwa uye ezivenkileni kwi evenkileni kwaye babone inkwenkwe ngathi ngamathontsi ezimbini amanzi efana unyana wakhe. uya kukwazi ukumthanda lo mntwana?

"Bendisazi ukuba!"

Imitshato emininzi ziwe ngenxa yokungathembeki abayeni babo, yaye indoda darling omtsha, lanje razluchnitsa isibini. Umlingane Kathy ndatshata kwiinyanga nje emva komtshato wabo. Heroine yethu wasibona ithuba enjalo lweziganeko. Engqondweni yakhe kwakukho into enye kuphela: i-ex-Indoda ethembekile iinkanuko zakhe elitsha elide kangakanani?