Umbhali uAlex Novak: i-biography, ubugcisa. "Incwadi engekho"

U-Alex Nowak nguye umbhali weencwadi zokukhula komntu kunye nesazi seengqondo. Wakha inkolelo yakhe, apho ungayifumana khona ebomini kwimpumelelo ebalulekileyo kunye nempumelelo. Uthelekisa impumelelo yomntu onokukhuphuka. Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima, kunkwantya, kungabinakunzima. Kodwa kuyimfuneko ukuhlupheka. Kwaye ngoko ngandlela-thile kuba lula ukuhamba, ukunqoba izithintelo.

U-Alex Nowak ungumvelisi wenyaniso kwintsimi yokukhula komntu kunye nokuziphucula. Wayekwazi ukufanisa imida yobukho bemithetho engcolileyo yesibangele kunye nempembelelo kwaye uchaze ukuba kutheni kwinto yonke into eyenzeka ngendlela ethile, kwaye akukho nto enye. Kwiincwadi zakhe, uphakamisa umbandela wokuhlala ngokusemgangathweni ngumntu obelwe kuye ngokusisigxina kunye nesidingo sokuziqonda.

UAlex Nowak: biography

Njengoko kubonakala kungaqhelekanga kwaye kungenakuqondakala kumntu, kodwa ulwazi malunga nalo mntu ongavamile kwiNethiwekhi lincinci. Kuyaziwa kuphela ukuba uneminyaka ephakathi, unesidanga kwaye uthathe inxaxheba ekudalweni kweencwadi ezifanelekileyo kwizengqondo. Ukususela ebusheni bakhe, uNovak wagqoka entliziyweni yakhe umnqweno wokuguqulela injongo yakhe. Wayebona ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ubomi buphezu kwexesha, njani abantu bachithe ngokwabo. Ukufunyanwa kwaboniswa kwiincwadi zakhe ezimangalisayo, ezibhalwe kakuhle.

Bangakwazi ukufunda kwakhona ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye bahlale befumana iimbulelo ezimangalisayo. U-Alex Nowak wabelana nomsebenzi wakhe kwiingcamango ezinzulu kunye nemibono yokudala. Abo bawuphulaphula oko bakufundayo baya kufumana iimpawu ezingabonakaliyo zendalo zabo ezingapheliyo.

"Incwadi engekho"

Igama lomsebenzi akwenzeki ngokuqhelekileyo, ngoko litsala abafundi. Le ngxelo emangalisayo yenziwe nguAlex Nowak. "Incwadi engekho" iyisikhokelo esibalulekileyo ebomini. Ibonisa oko ungayifumana ngokwenene ngexesha elithile lexesha, kwaye yimiphi imisebenzi eyenziwa ukuba ayibekezelele. Iyintoni le nto kwincwadi yakhe? Ukufunda, unokufumana iindawo ezibalulekileyo ezibalulekileyo ezenza ingqiqo ebhaliweyo.

Isithuba phakathi kokufunayo kunye nokwenene

Uninzi lwabantu luhlala ubomi obumangalisayo, obunomdla kwaye obungenakuthandeka. Umbhali ugxininisa ingcamango yokuba akukho nto ibaluleke ngaphezu kokuzifezekisa kwakho, kuba akukho mntu uza kusenza kuthi. Yimangalisa njengoko kubonakala ngathi, abantu bakulungele ukunikela iminyaka yabo engcono kunayo yonke imisebenzi kwaye abayikufumana ixesha lokwenza izinto ezifanelekileyo. Bavakalisa ukungabikho kokungabikho kwamathuba emali, ubuvila, kodwa ngokwenene ingxaki ibangelwa ukungaqapheli ukuba sifanele sifinyelele ebomini. Bambalwa abantu abazibeka ngokwenene imisebenzi ebalulekileyo kwaye bafuna ukuyicombulula nayiphi na indleko. Kunyaka ngamnye, ikhefu phakathi koobani ngokwenene kunye nento esiyenzayo iyanda, kwaye ithuba lokutshintsha ubomi bethu ukuze libe bhetele alusekho.

Kulo mbuzo kwafika uAlex Novak. "Incwadi engekho" yithuba elihle lokufunda kangcono amakhono akho, amaphupha kunye neenjongo. Ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kukunceda ukuba ulahlekise izinto ezichasayo kunye nokubandlulula, ukuphonsa kwihlabathi lemfihlelo engabonakaliyo.

Ukukhawuleza kwesidyulo sobomi

Ngaba uqaphele ukuba lo mncinane unako ukuqonda yonke imzuzu yobomi bakhe? Sisoloko sihlala sihamba ngokukhawuleza, singayazi, singaqapheli ukuba ixesha lidlula ngokungenakwenzeka. Abantu kwiimeko ezininzi abazi indlela yokuxabisa iintsuku nganye, bachithe kwizenzo ezingenangqiqo nakwizenzo, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo bayothuka kukuba baye balahlekelwa yiminyaka emininzi yemveliso. Ukuba ubeka ingqalelo kwizinto abantu abazenzayo emini, unokubona ukuba benza izinto ezininzi ezingenalusizo, bazibandakanya ubuchopho babo ngezicathulo nje kuphela ukuze bangacingi ngento ephambili.

Ukukhawuleza kwengqungquthela yobomi yingxaki ngokuyinhloko kwiphondo lama-20 leminyaka. Abantu basebenziselwa ukugqoka, ngokugqibeleleyo bengacingi ngempilo yabo. Bathemba ukuba iindawo zokuhlala zangaphakathi ziza kuhlala ixesha elide, kodwa ngokwenene yonke into iyahluke ngokupheleleyo. Emva kwexesha, umnqweno wokusebenza ngokuzimisela, ukufezekisa iinjongo ezibekwe phantsi. Kukho uvakalelo lokuba akukho nto iya kwenzeka, ngoko akukho mfuneko yokubeka iinjongo ezinjalo.

Ubunono bukho konke

Kuluntu kukho uluvo lokuba inkqubo yokudala ibhekisela kuphela kubantu bobugcisa. Okokuthi, ngabaculi kuphela, abaculi, abaculi baxhamla ngobuchule bokwenene. Kwaye ngoko ke kwiindawo eziphambili ziyabonwa ngabantu bobugcisa. Ukubala alithathi naziphi na izakhono ezingaphezulu, ukuba umntu akaphumelelanga impumelelo enkulu. Kwaye akunakwenzeka kubo bonke abaye bayityelela iminyulo yokuphefumlelwa.

Enyanisweni, ubuchule buhlala kuyo yonke into ejikeleze. Nabani na owenza into enonwabo, udala ngokukhawuleza. Kufuneka ukuba utyalole umsebenzi ngamnye ngentsingiselo ekhethekileyo kunye nengqiqo, ngoko kuya kubonakala kungenakuzithemba kuwe. Ukubaluleka kubaluleke kakhulu: ngexesha lemisebenzi, kufuneka uthumela iingcamango ezintle kwindalo yonke, ufumane uvuyo lwenkqubo ngokwalo kwaye ungathinteli kwisiphumo. U-Alex Nowak ungumbhali ophethe isipho esicacisayo sokukholisa.

Inkqubo yeenkolelo zangaphakathi

Indlela umntu acinga ngayo ithonya umgangatho wobomi bakhe. Akukho mntu, mhlawumbi, uya kulwa nombono wokuthi ubuntu ngokwayo luziqhelise ngokwabo kwimpumelelo eyahlukeneyo kunye nokulwa. Ukuba mhlawumbi ngaphakathi kwakho ingcamango yokuba awufanelanga impumelelo kunye nolonwabo, kuya kuba njalo. Inhlanhla ingaphenduka, ihambe. Inkqubo yeenkolelo zangaphakathi ibangela izimo zengqondo ezifanelekileyo ezidala umgangatho othile wobomi. Ziyichaphazela imbono yomntu, ukuzimisela ukwamukela okufunwayo, umgangatho wemisebenzi kunye nenkqubela phambili ekujoliswe kuyo.

Ukukwazi ukuvuya kuzo zonke izinto ezizungezile ngokuqhelekileyo yinto ehlukeneyo, isipho eso, isilwanyana, asifiki kuwo wonke umntu. Nangona kunjalo, ngethamsanqa, inakho kwaye kufuneka ifune ukuphuhliswa. Imvakalelo emihle iyakwazi ukunikela kakuhle, ukulungelelanisa nomonde, ukunceda ngexesha lokufumana intsingiselo. Inkomfa yokuphumelela nenwaba kukufunda indlela yokuphila ngokuhambelana nemvelo yakho yangaphakathi, ukugatya konke ukwesaba nokungathandabuzeki. Yiyo leyo uAlex Novak athi kule ncwadi.

Yiba njengabantwana

Ngaba uye waphawula ukuba abantwana iintsuku zenza njani iimpawu zabo ezimangalisayo? Bakulungele ukufumana amava amatsha, nangona kungenjalo. Abantwana abayiki ukuwa, kuba bayazi ukunyuka nokuhamba. Emva koko, emva kwenyathelo elingakhathali, isenzo esilungeleyo nesenjongo silandela. Kwaye kwakhona: umntwana uyazi ukuba ufuna ntoni, ngokungafani nomdala! Buza nayiphi na imbuzi isiphi isipho afuna ukuyifumana, kwaye uya kuphendula umonde wakho umbuzo, kwaye uya kuvuya nomdla obonisiweyo. Umntu omdala uhlala ethanda ukushiya impendulo ngokuthe ngqo, kuba akafanekanga amele amathuba namakhono analo.

U-Alex Novak usibiza ukuba sivule kwaye siyamkele. Ukuphonononga malunga nencwadi ikuvumela ukuba wenze iziganeko ezifike ngexesha, ukuze usondele ngakumbi ekuqondeni kweyona nto.

Enye incwadi engekho "

Imele ukuqhubeka ngokuphumelelayo kokuqala. Kule tekisi, kukho iindlela ezingamashumi amabini ezisebenzayo ezichaphazela ngempumelelo ukuqonda kwethu kwaye zisenze sikwazi ukujamelana nobunzima obukhoyo. Ezi zixhobo zokuphuhlisa zifaka isandla ekuwandiseni imida yazo kunye nokukhululwa kwamandla afanelekileyo okufunekayo ekudaleni indalo yokuvelisa.

"Weekly Idealist"

Uninzi kangakanani owaziyo abantu abayaziyo ukuba basebenzise njani ixesha labo? Enyanisweni, iiyunithi zabo. Kweminye iminyaka bazama ukuqeqesha ukuthanda kwabo, kodwa abaphumelelanga iziphumo ezibalulekileyo. "I-weekly ideistist" U-Alex Novak uza kukunceda ngokufanelekileyo ukusabalalisa umthwalo okhoyo, ungazibopheli ngokungathandabuzekiyo kunye nokwesaba. Le ncwadi ifundisa isicwangciso esifanelekileyo kunye nokwabiwa ngokulinganisela kwezibonelelo. Iqulethe izixhobo eziyimfuneko zomsebenzi ovelisayo. Yonke into yenzelwe ukuba awukwazi ukucima indlela ejoliswe kuyo kwaye uhlale ulungele ukuphumelela.

Ngaloo ndlela, iicatshulwa zale mbhali zifanelekileyo kwaye ziyimfuneko ekuphuhliseni ngokupheleleyo komntu ngamnye. Ngoncedo lwabo, ukwakheka komntu ovelisayo, ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo yolwazi, kunokwenzeka. Yeka indlela emangalisayo ngayo umbhali uAlex Novak. Iincwadi (uluhlu oluncinci) lo mbhali lunokukunceda ukhethe iinqununu ezincedo kakhulu, apho kwakufuneka umntu ngamnye asebenze.