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Ukuphefumlelwa: Ngaba Ukulungele Ukuthatha Indwendwe?

Ndiyabuza ukuba ukuphefumlelwa kuza kum ukuba ndibhale ngaye? Mhlawumbi umxholo uya kutsalela umnyuzi, kuba ndicinga ngaye? Kwaye ndicinga ntoni ngoku? Ngezinto engingaziyo okwamanje-malunga nokuphefumlelwa.

Kwaye, njengawe, kuyaziwa ukuba le ngqiqo, isimo sovuyo, ulungelelwano lokudala, inqabileyo engabonakaliyo ezayo kwaye iyahamba xa ifanelana nayo. Ukuba kuyinqweneleka ukulungiselela ngokufanelekileyo intlanganiso kunye neendwendwe ezifunwayo: ukuseta itafile, uyihlose nge roses, ikhandlela zokukhanya. Ngelinye igama, emva kokuphefumlelwa kuyimfuneko ukuzama ukuba "ungayifaki". Makhe sibone kwaye siphulaphule ilizwi ngokwalo. Ukuphefumlelwa kukuphefumlelwe, oko kukuthi, ilizwe apho isipho, umoya okanye ukomoya kuye kwaphefumlelwa. Ekuqaleni, kwakucingelwa ukuba ukungena kwangaphandle kokomoya kungena kumntu, kuthatha iimbono zakhe zobuphekula, ukuphakamisa nokuziqinisa. Umntu ufumana "ugqozi". Ngokukhawuleza ungene eqinisweni, kuba amandla okudala, okomoya okomntu nolwazi olupheleleyo lweSizathu Esiphezulu xa kwenzeka ukuba umntu azibone njengenxalenye yendalo yonke. Lo mgangatho wokuvisisana kuwo onke amanqanaba: "Ndiye", "Wena", "Siye" kunye nolwazi lwenyaniso.

Masizibuze: Ngaba wonke umntu uya kuphefumlelwe? Okanye ngaba sifanele siqale ukulungiselela "umgca wokumisela" kule nto? Ubungcali bethu, ulwazi lwethu kulo mbandela wobomi, apho sikwazi ukuqonda ukukwazi ukuphefumlelwa, kuyimfuneko yokuba "ukutyala" kuphefumlelwe. Umzekelo, ubhala isingci. Ngaphambi kokuba ubhale, ufumene imfundo efanelekileyo esikolweni, eyunivesithi, kwaye emva koko esikolweni esiphelweni. Kwisifundo sakho, ufunda inani elikhulu leencwadi, "ushicilelwe" izinto ezininzi eziyinyani, mhlawumbi uye wafunda isihloko sakho ngokusebenza. Ngelinye igama, isihloko sakho siphucule imemori yakho ngolwazi lwabo bonke ubutyebi ophuhlisiwe uluntu. Yonke into, gqiba. Ukuba uqhubeka ulandela indlela yokwandisa ulwazi lwakho, ngoko usengumfundi.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka ufunde lonke ubomi bakho, kodwa awukwazi konke. Abantu ngokubanzi bahlulwe phakathi kwabo abangazi, nabangakwaziyo ukuba abazi. Kwinqanaba elithile ebalulekileyo kufuneka uthi kuwe: "Yonke into! Ukususela kwangoku ndinguye utitshala wam. Yonke imibuzo ndiya kuyenza yona kuphela. Ndashiya umhlaba wolwazi lwabanye abantu kwaye ndaya kwi-monastery yomphefumlo wam nengqondo. Ixesha lokuphelelwa yisikhathi liphelile. Ngoku ndiya kubhala kuphela iincwadana. " Ngale ndawo, awusekho umfundi ojikelezayo nge-labyrinths yolwazi lwabanye abantu. Ngoku umcebisi wakho kuphela ngumphefumlo wakho. Ukuba ngaphambili wawuxhomekeke kolwazi lomnye, ngoku ngoku kwaye nguwe kuphela oyingxowa-mali yengqondo yesisombululo seenjongo. Nangona kunjalo, umphefumlo uya kukucebisa ukuba uxakekile ngezinto ozithandayo . Umsebenzi owusebenzayo kufuneka ube yiholide, ehlala njalo nawe. Khumbula ukuba ixesha elisetyenziselwa into eyintandokazi, uThixo akayi kubalwa ngexesha lokuphila. Ukuba unyanzelekile ukuguqa umnsalo we-violin kwaye uphoqelelwe ukuba udlale, kunzima ukucinga ukuba uya kuphefumlelwa ukuba wenze umculo womculo. Inokwenzeka ukuba, "uza kubona" i-violin, ebangela umsindo kunye nenzondo yabamelwane. UMozart waba nguMozart, kuba umdla wakhe wokuqala ngumculo. Sonke siphupha ukuya emsebenzini ukuvuyisa, size sibuyele ngokuzonwabisa. Kunzima ukucinga ngosayense okanye umqambi oye wafikelela eziphakamileyo zokunqoba emsebenzini wakhe ngaphandle kokumthanda. Ukugqithiselwe ngothando lwabo, balungele ukuya kwiphina inyanzelo, bayakhohlwa ngokulala nokutya. U-Michelangelo Boannorotti wachaza iimpahla zetempile iminyaka emine, elele ehlathini, ngenxa yoko wayephantse waphawula. Ukuphefumlelwa kwakhe kwakunamandla kangangokuthi wayengenqikazi ukunikela ngempilo yakhe.

Ngamanye amazwi, ukuphefumlelwa kuya kuba yindwendwe yakho rhoqo, ukuba unobungcali obaneleyo, ngokuthandana nomsebenzi wakho. Eyesithathu kwenye. Akukho ubuncinane icandelo elinye - awukwazi ukubona ukuphefumlelwa.

Ngaloo ndlela, eziyimfuneko, kodwa ezingenakwaneleyo, iimeko zokukhuthazwa zizayo zi:

- izinga lakho eliphezulu lobugcisa kwishishini elikhethiweyo;

- ukwala kolwazi lomnye kwaye ugqibezele ukuhoxiswa kuye , komphefumlo nomqondo wakhe;

- into eyintandokazi , umsebenzi okanye umsebenzi.

Ukuphefumlelwa kunokukuvakashela ukuba umnyango awuvaliwe. Umnyango wokuphefumlelwa ngumphefumlo wakho . Kuye kwadluliwe ixesha elide ukuba izidalwa ezinengqondo zengqondo yomntu ziyazalwa xa umphefumlo usebenza ngokupheleleyo. Izigidi zeencwadi kunye nemifanekiso sele ibhaliwe, ezininzi iifilimi zidutshulwa, kwaye kuphela ezimbalwa zethu zizonwabile ngokwenene, ezinye zazo zihlala zikhunjulwe. Yonke into eyenziwa ngomphefumlo ayibanjwe ngokungenakwenziwa ngabantu kwizinga elingenasicatshulwa. Ukusuka kwimisebenzi ephefumlelweyo kuza kumandla okhethekileyo. Ukusuka kubo akunakwenzeka ukuphuma. Umphefumlo we-genius ubonakaliswe ekudalweni kwabo. Ngexesha elifanayo, yonke into eyenziwa ngaphandle komphefumlo nayo iyacaciswa ngumthengi. Unokukubona ngokukhawuleza ukuba lo mthengi iimpahla, ukutya okanye umthumeli. Imveliso eyenziwa ngomphefumlo apho kubonakala khona ukuba umntu ngamnye uyabonakala. Izinto ezikhethekileyo zenziwe nge stencil.

Ndiyathanda isiqephu ebomini bomculi omkhulu waseRashiya uK. Bryullov, apho, kwimixholo yomxholo wethu, umahluko phakathi komsebenzi oqaqambileyo owenziwe ngomphefumlo okanye kuphela ngesiseko sesibonakaliso.

Ukulungisa umzobo womfundi, umculi kwiindawo ezimbalwa wathintela kuye, kwaye isicatshulwa esifileyo esasifika ngokukhawuleza saba khona. Omnye wabafundi uthi: "Oko kuyancipha, kwaye yonke into ishintshile." "Ubugcisa buqala apho luqala khona" kancane, "watsho uBryullov.

Kutheni sifuna umsebenzi kaVladimir Vysotsky? Okokuqala, i-bard enkulu ifake "inzwa" yakhe kunye noluntu kwiingoma zakhe. Wayeqonda iimfuno zabantu zokomoya, iimvakalelo zabo neengcamango zabo. Iingoma zakhe - lo bugcisa beebhodi ukususela kumaxesha amandulo babonwa njengendlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yokuqonda le ndinyana. Ukongezelela, uVysotsky wasebenza kuwo onke amagama, onke amabinzana, enyamekela ubunzima befomu. Imibongo yakhe ilula kwaye iyaqondakala, kungekhona ngenxa yokuba yayilula, njengenyaniso. Ibhandi enkulu ibonise ngobuchule ubuchule bakhe kule fomu ngenxa yabantu. Yayinomdla kubantu, iinjongo zabo, ezaba ngumthombo wakhe wokuphefumlela. Ngomzekelo kaVivysotsky, siyaqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba ukuphefumlelwa kuza kubabo benza umsebenzi wabo ngenxa yabantu abanomphefumlo kunye nentsholongwane . Kwamanyano omphefumlo nengqondo, isibambiso sokuphefumlelwa.

Ngaba iinjongo zabantu abanamandla zokuphefumlelwa ziba nodumo, imali okanye ukuhlala kwezentlalo? Kwinqanaba elithile, ewe. Bangabantu abafanayo. Akukho nto umntu obalaseleyo kubo. Kodwa, kuzo zonke izinto, indalo yazo ziqhamo zomphefumlo nengqondo. Uzuko nemali njengoko iimpawu zempumelelo zingabaphazamisa kuphela. Ziyinkxalabo yokuphefumlelwa. Naluphi na umnqweno wakhe utshaba. Umzekelo, umqambi ufuna udumo. Uzuko lujolise kakhulu kuye. Ndiqinisekisa ukuba ngokuphefumlelwa uya kuba neengxaki. Uzuko luyinkalo yomgomo, kungekhona injongo ngokwayo. Ukuba yena, kunye nokuphefumlelwa, ubeka umphefumlo wakhe kumculo wakhe, uzuko lwakhe luya kufumana. Kubuhlungu ukuba ngamanye amaxesha udumo kunye nemali kufumana umbhali emva koko. Nangona kunjalo, ayikho enye indlela. Umgaqo awusebenzi apha: kwimali yasekuseni - ngokuhlwa emphefumlweni. Okokuqala umphefumlo, kwaye ke imali kunye nodumo. Umphefumlo umbane wokuphefumlela. Ukuba umphefumlo kunye nengqondo zicula ngokubambisana - oku kungumoya ovundisayo kakhulu.

         Abantwana bokuphefumlelwa bahlala bekhula iingcamango ezintsha, iinjongo kunye nemisebenzi. Ngethuba elifanayo, iinjongo zabo ezintsha zihlala ziphakamileyo kuneziganeko zangaphambili. Zizibeka imibuzo engabikho mntu owake wakwenza. Bathanda iindlela ezingaziwa zobomi. Yonke into entsha ibakhangayo njengemagnethi. Bafuna ukuzama. Ukuphefumlelwa kubandakanya abantu abanjalo, kwaye abanako ukunyamezela abazalelwe ukukha. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ugqozi luthanda abantu abalingayo . Kukulungele ukuza kunoma yimuphi umntu, ukuba uyazi oko kukwazi ukudala. Abantu abaqhelekileyo abanalo amava kunye neemfundo zobugcisa, ngoko ke abanobungane ngokuphefumlelwa. Umntu onobuchule, onobuchule beemfundo ezifanelekileyo unokufumana ulwazi olufikile kuye, luyifake inkqubo kwaye, ngoko, lubuyisele kubantu. Lo msebenzi awukude wonke umntu. Makhe siphulaphule ngenyameko enye yeentandokazi zokuphefumlelwa kukaMozart: "Ndicinga ukuba isihlwele sam entloko, singena ngokukhululeka. Indlela kwaye bavela phi, andazi kwaye akukho nto enokuyenza ngayo. Kuyimfuneko kuphela ukuphakamisa umxholo, njengoko kukho enye ingoma, kwaye yona ngokwayo inxulumene neyokuqala ngokuhambelana neemfuno zobunjwa. Ukuqulunqwa kuza kum kungagqibekanga, kungekhona kwiindawo, kuphuhliswe ngcaciso, njengoko kuza kuhamba kamva, kodwa ngokubanzi , ukuze ingcinga yam ivumele ukuba ndiyive. " UMozart uthetha ngento engaqondakaliyo, yezinye iinkcukacha ezingaziwa, ngokukhawuleza kukhanyisa ukuqonda ngokugcwele nokucacileyo. Yonke into iyacaca kwaye iyancipha, njengoko kungakaze kwenzeke kum. UMozart ufakazela ukuba nguye kuphela umqhubi womculo wendalo yonke, ukuba umzimba wakhe ungabandakanyeki kwimimandla yoLwazi oluPhezulu. Umqambi ubonisa ukuba indima yakhe kunye nokufaneleka kule nyathelo iqulethwe kuphela kwindlela eqhelekileyo yokudala - ukuphuhliswa kwenkcazelo ngokubanzi ngokuhambelana neemfuno zokufunda nokubhala. Kwaye ukutyelelwa okunjalo kokuphefumlelwa kwaqala ukususela ebuntwaneni. UMozart Omncanyana wagijima waya kuyise waza wamemeza wathi: "Bawo! Ndixhonywe ngumculo! ".

U-Einstein wabhala malunga nesimo esingaqondakaliyo sokuphefumlelwa: "Ukufunyanwa kwenzululwazi ayenzi ngendlela ngendlela enengqiqo, kuthatha kuphela ifomu enengqiqo emva kwexesha lokubonisa. Ukufumanisa, nokuba encinci, ihlala ikhanya. Isiphumo sivela ngaphandle kwaye kungalindelekanga, njengokungathi umntu uphakamise. "

Ukuphefumlelwa kudinga ukugxininiswa kwengcamango emsebenzini wabo. Ngaphandle kokupheliswa ngokupheleleyo kwiimeko zangaphandle, ukuzinyatha nokuzigxininisa kwishishini lakho, akunakwenzeka. Umntu kufuneka abe ngaphambi kokuba ugqozi lufike kwiimeko ezixinzelelekileyo. Kwilizwe eliqhelekileyo, iingcinga zethu zihamba ngeentaka zamahhala. Ngoxinzelelo, asikwazi ukucinga nantoni na enye ngaphandle kwesizathu esibangela uxinzelelo. Enye ingcinga ephezulu iphazamisa ukuqonda kwethu. Abathandwayo banokuxinezeleka. Baye bacinga kuphela ngendaba yabo yothando. Ihlabathi lonke, zonke iimpembelelo zangaphandle azipheli kuzo. Leli lizwe lijongene nabantu abadala. Kuza kubungqina bokuba abaqondi naluphi na ukucaphukisa okanye ukuvakalelwa ngamehlo, ukuva, okanye nayiphina inxalenye yengqondo. Kukho ukuchongwa okupheleleyo komntu kunye nengcamango. Umvuzo wale ngcamango yombono uphefumlelwe. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba inkqubo yexesha leempawu zeekhemikhali D. uMendeleev waphupha. Kutheni engazange aphuphe ngoTchaikovsky, uLenin, okanye umkhwenyana wekhemikhali - iBlok? Ngenxa yokuba uMendeleyev wagxininisa ingcamango yakhe kwindlela yokwenza inkqubo kunye nokukhangela izixhumanisi phakathi kweempawu zeekhemikhali. Ingqondo yakhe yayibukhali ngokufuna indlela yokuphuma kwaye yafunyanwa xa intlanganiso ephefumlelweyo yenzeke.

Kwimeko yombaneli weengcamango, umdali wezobugcisa angena kuphela ngezinga eliphezulu lamandla . AbaNgcativisti, abazithemba abanomgangatho ophantsi wamandla. Ukunganakwa, ukudandatheka kunye nokungafihlisiyo akunakwenzeka ngcaciso kukukhuthaza. Ngokuchasene noko, umntu ophethe iitoni eziphezulu eziphindaphindiweyo uphinda uphumelele kwimpumelelo yakhe kwihlabathi kwaye, ngoko ke, uyakhuthaza ukuphefumlelwa.

Kwakubonakala ngathi siqwalasele zonke iifom zomoya ophefumlelweyo, nokho, zilibala malunga nomgaqo: "ngakumbi umfazi esimthandayo, mncinane simthanda." Ngethemba elithembekileyo leendwendwe ezamkelekileyo, siyihlobisa umsebenzi wethu omhlophe kunye neepalals ze roses ezimhlophe, ukulibala ukuba ugqozi luvela kwimisebenzi. Ngexesha lobuchule, sifuna uxolo olupheleleyo lwengqondo. Ukulindela, ukungaphelelwa umonde, umnqweno ovuthayo wokufikela umgomo wabo ngokukhawuleza nje ukusikhupha ngaphandle kwesiqhelo, ukutshabalalisa ubumbano nomphefumlo. Khumbula, ukuphefumlelwa, ukukhwabanisa konke ukulungiselela, ukulindela kunye nomnqweno wokufezekisa umnqweno wakho ngokukhawuleza. Qala ukusebenza - kuya kuza kuwe. Khumbula iresiphi yokuphefumlelwa evela kwi-P.I. UTchaikovsky: "Ndihleli phantsi kwipiyano kwaye ndiqala ukudlala into ethile, ubuncinane ukuhlunga ngokusebenzisa izitshixo." Ndenza oku ixesha elide: kude kube yimpumelelo. "

Ngaloo ndlela, ngenxa yokufika kokuphefumlelwa, kubalulekile ukuqeda zonke izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu: ukulindela, injongo yomsebenzi, ukulungiselela kunye nomnqweno.

Ndiyazibuza nini, ngeliphi ixesha lobusuku okanye ubusuku ukuphefumulelwa kuza? Elinye ibhinqa lathi: "Umyeni wam uhamba uhambo kunye nokuphefumlelwa kuza kum." Kubonakala ngathi ixesha elihle kakhulu lokuza kuphefumlelwa ngumzuzwana wenkululeko enkulu yenkohlakalo yobuntu bokudala. Ukubonakaliswa kancinci kokukhathala kwenza kube nzima ngexesha lokukhanya. Amava abantu abakhulu athi iiyure zasekuseni (4-5 am) zithandeka kwaye zivelisa ukuvelisa. Umlobi waseRussia owaziwayo uMeakovsvsky wenyuka ebhedini ebusuku, ebhala imigca yeengqungquthela evele engqondweni yakhe, waphinde walala. Ngelo xesha, kwakulula kakhulu ukuba abhale kwi-tram. Abantu abaninzi bokudala bacinga ngokuchuma xa behamba. U-Einstein wadibana nokuphefumlelwa phantsi kwesitya. Ngamagama, wonke umntu unendlela yakhe.

Nangona ndandichaza iingcamango zam ngokuphefumulelwa, mhlawumbi ngandlebe ngendlebe yam ezintle zincinci ngam? Mhlawumbi akuyena mna, kodwa wathi kum: "Ndiza kuwe phantsi kwezi meko:

1. Ukuba unomgangatho ophezulu wobugcisa kwimeko ekhethiweyo;

2. Ukuba ulahlile ulwazi lomnye kwaye uphume ngokupheleleyo kuwe , kumphefumlo wakho nangengqondo yakho;

3. Ukuba uhlala nebhizinisi ozithandayo , umsebenzi okanye umsebenzi;

4. Ukuba wenza umsebenzi wakho ngenxa yabantu ebunyeni bomphefumlo kunye nengqondo;

5. Ukuba ungumntu odala ;

6. Ukuba uye waphumelela ingcamango yokugqibela yengcamango emsebenzini wakho;

7. Ukuba unezinga eliphezulu lamandla :

8. Ukuba uphelile yonke into ebaluleke kakhulu: ukulindela, injongo yomsebenzi, uqeqesho kunye nomnqweno. "

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