School - ubomi obutsha. ukulungiselela Psychological komntwana esikolweni

Abazali elizayo-ugrade yokuqala unqwenela abantwana babo esikolweni ulungile. Kuthetha ukuthini? Eklasini, abahlobo abatsha, uxoxe ngayo kuzisa uyolo. Kwaye umele ukuba wayethanda ukufunda kwaye bafunde yonke imihla into entsha esikolweni umntwana kwi mood elungileyo. Akwanelanga ukuba ukufundisa ukubhala enkulisa, ukufunda nokubala. Ingaba ukulungiswa kakhulu nangokwasengqondweni, emva kwesikolo - ukuba ubomi obutsha ngokupheleleyo, ihlabathi elitsha. Hlala ubume umfundi ukuba iminyaka ezayo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba umntwana bekhululekile kuyo.

Yenza umfanekiso omhle yesikolo

Ukuba umntwana ufuna ukuya esikolweni, nilindele kaSeptemba 1, ngovuyo nolangazelelo, abazali kufuneka ukudala umfanekiso omhle zeli ziko.

Thetha malunga isikolo kuba nje ngendlela entle, hayi kuphela incoko umntwana. Enkulisa bangeva abadala bethetha ngalo yokuba ootitshala ngoku ihlwempu, abantwana esikolweni - oominenga bakrwada, kwaye wasekhaya ecela kakhulu. Baphela engamkelekanga bekwenza isikolo somntwana, kunokuba ngelishwa abanye abazali sonile. "Niya kwamkela omnye ababini", "Nantsi utitshala wakho esikolweni show zokuziphatha ngaleyo" - nantoni na enjengale ephuma emlonyeni abazali enkulisa bangeva.

Umntwana kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba isikolo akuthandayo, utitshala uya kuba uyangeneka nezinobuntu kunye nabahlobo ziya kuba phakathi nabo. Kubalulekile ukuba akhohlise umntwana, musa ukundixelela ukuba isikolo - loo nto yeholide eqinileyo, kanti akunjalo. Unako ukufunda amabali abantwana besikolo, ukubukela iimovie ngazo. Abo baye esikolweni sengqondo esihle, kungenzeka ukuba kuhle yakhe.

Motivation ekuyo kumele ibe yechanekileyo

Wabaza ezixhasayo umntwana ukuba bafunde kakuhle. kubonakala Abanye eyodwa ukunikela umdla ukuya esikolweni, kodwa loo nto yangaphandle. Ezi abantwana bafuna ukuzama ngemeko entsha lomfundi, ukuba sihambe ubhaka entle, sebenzisa izinto ofisi kraca omtsha, ukuze abe ngathi oodade abadala okanye abazalwana. Kubalulekile ukuba wabaza umnqweno komntwana, uthando, nomdla kumsebenzi kwengqondo, uthi isifundo - nobunzima ulwazi olutsha. Qiniseka ukuxelela enkulisa, yintoni izifundo ziya kuba kwiklasi yokuqala, abazifundayo.

Ziziphi izakhono ezifunekayo lokuqala-ganda?

Patience, ukuziphatha kakuhle, ukukwazi ukuphulaphula ngaphandle kokuphazamisa, unyamezelo - konke oku kuya kufuneka esikolweni. Zengqondo bakholelwa ukuba kakuhle kakhulu zonke izakhono ngasentla baqeqeshiwe ekuhambeni imidlalo ezidibeneyo. Ngakumbi luncedo phakathi kubo abanjalo apho ezichazwe imithetho apho ngokucacileyo: checkers kunye itshesi, "hodilki" nantoni na enye into ofuna ngqo imigaqo. Omnye umdlalo akukho luncedo ngaphantsi - zesikolo zabantwana. Vumela umntwana uza kuba nethuba uzame wena njengomfundi, ndibe ngutitshala.

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba izakhono self-uncedo uthole umntwana. Abantwana esikolweni iya kutshintsha, kwaye utshintshe izicathulo ngubo, wabeka phezu uthabathe ngohlobo inkcubeko ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokuhlakanipha kulawulwa imixholo ubhaka wesikolo - ukufumana izinto zicocekile yaye kubalulekile. Abo benza oko ngokucotha kakhulu, ungakhathazeki kwaye ufumane ukubona luvo afunda nimble ngakumbi. Ngoko ke, ukuzeyisa unonophelo umntwana kufuneka bafundiswe ukuba uqiniseke.

Ukukwazi ukunxibelelana nokwenza abahlobo kubaluleke kakhulu!

Ngubani na abantwana lula ukuqhelana-bume yesikolo angaqhelekanga? Emva esikolweni - is nje bafunda, kodwa imisebenzi extra-curricular, iziganeko zemidlalo, unxibelelwano kweli qela. Kuba abo lula ukufumana ulwimi olufanayo ehlangene nabalingane bakhe abangani. Abantwana uthando tsenyah ububele koontanga, nemfesane, ukukwazi ukuba Iyanikhubekisa zochuku, kungekhona ingxabano. Enye mfanelo ebalulekile - ukukwazi ukufuna ukufumana imibono kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo. Okunye ukhululekile va abantwana basesikolweni, ukuba izakhono ikhankanywe apha ngentla. Umsebenzi abazali - ukubethelela emntwaneni wabo. Kamsinya ngcono.

Kunokuba nzima ngakumbi kwabo bantwana abangayanga abancinane, musa abanamava ngokwaneleyo ngokwamaqela, ngemvelo oneentloni, low self-esteem. Abantu abadala kufuneka ukunceda abantwana ukuba nokuzibuyisela inkampani, ukuba abafundise ukunxibelelana ukwenza abahlobo.

Hlangana nesikolo kwangaphambili

Kuba kwisikolo enkulisa - yinto entsha ngokupheleleyo engaqhelekanga. abantwana abaninzi nexhala kunye nokoyika ujonge lonke uhlanga. ukuzola kakhulu esikolweni abantwana sele baba ezindongeni zezakhiwo ayo njengoko khangela iiklasi ngaphakathi. Ngoku, izikolo ezininzi zinika abafundi elizayo uhlobo lwezifundo wokulungiselela. Ukuba abazali ithuba lokuba ukuqhuba umntwana, kuyimfuneko ukuyisebenzisa. Mhlawumbi umntwana akafumani ikhondo ulwazi ngokwesiseko olutsha ezinye. Kodwa ufumana ngaphandle practice, njengoko izifundo esikolweni, indlela yokuziphatha ngethuba besikolo badibane ngayo utitshala.

Xa lokungahlangani ulingana uhambo wendlela, bonisa umntwana wakho apho kukho igumbi lokutyela, iholo ezemidlalo a, izindlu zangasese, ngubo. Xa entsha umfundi iwela umbundu yeziko ngoSeptemba 1 uya kuzithemba kakhulu ngakumbi.