Okwamadoda ekuhlukunyezweni - amandla ndisisilo okanye nje yendalo?

Yonke imihla ku Lexicon yomntu mihla kukho amagama abolekwe kwezinye iilwimi. Ngokukodwa, uninzi amagama amatsha Buzz ngolwimi lwethu kuvela IsiNgesi. Kudla ukuba siyeke ukuba siqwalasele la amagama abolekiweyo, bamise ngokuqinileyo ayinakutshintshwa kwisigama sethu. Kodwa ukubaluleka amagama athile angaphandle Akukwazi ukuya ngumphulaphuli ekungachazwayo okanye kumfundi. Kweli nqaku siza kuxubusha oko kuthethwa "ukuhlukunyezwa".

Eli binzana langaphandle, ekuthandazeni apho kwakukho kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo nolusasebenzayo nangoku athandwa kakhulu phakathi kolutsha. Igama elithi "brutalnost" livela Latin (brutalis - bungwanyalala, izilwanyana, rough, abukhali, esinamanzi).

Xa izichazi-kabukhali entle zobugcisa, ukunyaniseka kumda phezu yozingiso, kwinqanaba eliphezulu imizwa kunye ngqo - oko ukuhlukunyezwa. definition brutalism, okanye ubugcisa erhabaxa, ukwakha i ukwaliwa ndlela zemveli yomhombiso, leyo kusithela ukuguda noburhabaxa endalo ngekhonkrithi, ilitye okanye izitena, kwakunye nomnqweno "ukuveza" amathambo kwezakhiwo kunye olungaphambili ukubonisa umjelo kunye namanzi imibhobho, iintambo kwakunye umoya.

Ukutolikwa yakutshanje ingqiqo ka "ukuhlukunyezwa"

Ukutolikwa yanamhlanje ubungonyama umntu - yemvelo yokubonisana sobudoda. Kuthetha ukuthini? Amantombazana amaninzi namabhinqa bathi ngokwenene uthanda amadoda kubulawa. Kodwa ukuqonda indlela oko iimpawu kufuneka abanazo?

Ngokutsho besini wamhle, ubungonyama wamadoda - kukuthi, kuqala kwiinto zonke, iimpawu uyindoda, umzimba iphuhlisiwe, ubuntu aphezulu ngokwesondo, amandla okumelana. Kuba kuzo zonke iimeko umfanekiso omhle ekufuneka kunxulumana lengcinga 'yindoda yokwenene "- ethembakeleyo, womelele, enyanisekile, bakwazi ukwenza izigqibo ezizizo, ummeli kunye nokuxhasa umfazi buthathaka.

Le ukuhlukunyezwa - it konke ngokupheleleyo eyahlula ummeli abangamatsha-sex angqongqo kwizinto iinkwenkwezi udumo zokucwangcisa zoshishino, metrosexuals kunye nabanye nokunamathela indlela "ingafundwa".

Ngaphandle, indoda elimasikizi - yinto oqolileyo, osisilumko amava ubomi zonke izimvo zabo, ngqwabalala kancinane kwaye akrwada. nokunganaki kancinane kunye iindevu encinane, njengoko umthetho, kakhulu kunene kubo.

Musa ukubhidanisa le ndoda nkohlakalo kunye dork, ukuziphatha eluntwini ngomda ubukrwada, yinkohlakalo ikratshi ngokugqithiseleyo. Ngaphandle, la madoda khangela ngolu hlobo: impahla esidala, iindiza-namhla ezininzi, ibhiya isisu. Ngenxa umthetho, bathanda ukulwa, basela iziselo nkqi, ezisetyenziswa kwincoko, isithuko kunye ibango ukuba umfuziselo indoda yokwenene. Noko ke, musa ukulibala ukuba asinguye phambi kwentaba zihlunu kwaye imvelo ngqwabalala luphawu lwe indoda yokwenene. Lo mntu - ngulowo uthandana nomntu obhinqileyo ibonisa kuphela iimpawu kakuhle ubuntu bakhe aze ngokwenene uyazi ukuba siqonde indlela iqabane lakhe.