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Kutheni guys musa ukubhala kuqala? Ukuba ke ndibhalile guy yokuqala?
Mhlawumbi zonke intombazana uqhelene ukuba nemvakalelo yothando xa guy mnandi kakhulu ukuba usoloko ucinga ngayo, ufuna ukudibana, iphupha. Kulapho kwezo zihlandlo, akabi sayikhumbula yonke, ingqondo zakhe iingcinga yabanyulwa intliziyo enye, yena usoloko ethetha ngaye kuphela. Ku ri na kwesi sihlandlo besini ngobulungisa bangakhuseleki, msinya. I abatyelele rhoqo alithandabuza: "Mna usandithanda", "kutheni kubiza", "kutheni lo mfo akuthethi ukubhala." Thina sonke baqhele, ukuba inyathelo lokuqala ikholisa ukwenza umntu, ngoko ukuba kukho mfo kade kakhulu cwaka, its ezothusayo. indlela ukuqonda kwimeko enjalo, ukuba benze ntoni, yaye okubaluleke kakhulu, hlalani ukuzola kunye noxolo lwengqondo?
Ukubhala okanye akunjalo?
Umfazi iyanditya ingcinga: - Ukuba akathanga ukubiza okanye ukubhala ngemini ubuncinane "Ukubhala mfo yokuqala apho?". Okanye emva kwentlanganiso yokuqala. amathandabuzo zokunyanzelisa ngokuthi yini na ukuba kukho into engalunganga, glozhat Mfazi. Kwaye ukuba wayevuya ukuthatha inyathelo ngokwayo, kodwa kujongwe ubume sekratshi ntwazana akusoloko kusenzeka ukuba wenze njalo. Yena woyika ukuhlekwa, bangene kwimeko nzima. Yathi kanti iya kuba ngcono ukuba ubunzima, kungcangcazelisa iingcinga lusizi kodwa soze kuwiswa kwi guy ukuba akaqinisekanga into unovelwano ingqiqo yakhe yothando. Amaxesha amaninzi ngombuzo wabafazi: "Kutheni na guys musa ukubhala yokuqala" - yinto impendulo elula kakhulu, ukuba bonke abantu ezahlukeneyo, kuquka abameli oyindoda womelele. Nabo, nazo, woyika abakhi, kwangathi uneentloni samabanga aphantsi, banexhala lokuba uya kukhangela etyeni. Ngokubanzi, amakhwenkwe banelungelo ukuba zonke iimvakalelo ezifanayo namantombazana, kodwa umahluko ophambili phakathi kwabo Ihlala yokuba emva zonke abafana kufuneka inyathelo lokuqala.
Kutheni guys musa ukubhala emva kwentlanganiso yokuqala?
Izizathu ingaba isihlwele esikhulu, ngoko ke intombazana mfuneko ngoko nangoko ligqabi ngakumbi ubunzima ngenxa yoko. Le meko kuba kakhulu banal - lo guy ixakekile esikolweni okanye emsebenzini, uyadinwa yaye akukho xesha ukubiza intombazana. Umahluko omkhulu phakathi abafana ukusuka amantombazana - akayi kuchitha ixesha kwi intetho isiqingatha seyure. Amadoda amaninzi ukhetha kuqala agqibezele izinto zabo ezibalulekileyo, uze ucinge ngale ntombazana, ingakumbi xa sele kutshanje wadibana. Yena iqwalasela ngokwakhe umntu simahla, ngoko musa ukucinga ngento efunekayo ukuze uyakubiza wonke kwiiyure ezimbalwa intombazana leyo kutshanje waphuma ngomhla.
ezinye izizathu
Enye guy akakwazi ukubiza ngokuba olahlekelwe inombolo yefowuni umhlobo omtsha, ingakumbi le nto ingenzeka ukuba oko kwabhalwa phezu kwegqabi, kwaye memory lungangaphumeleli. Kwakhona, angaphulukana iSIM khadi. Kuyinto imeko kubalulekile.
An mthetho ebalulekileyo
amantombazana Dear, khumbula iincam umthetho, ukuba wena guy bathabathekile njengaye, uyaqiniseka ukuba ukubiza okanye ukubhala, ukuba ithe yalahleka Room - ukufumana enye indlela ukudibana nawe. Ukuba zange ukuxhulumana nani, aniyi ukuba uhlobo yentombazana efanele kuye, yena nayo indoda unelungelo lokukhetha. Oku akuthethi ukuba uqubha into embi, kukho umntu nje ezithile ezimbini omnye ekufikelelwa kuyo. Kwaye akukho nto iphosakeleyo ukuhlala oku ukuba kuyimfuneko, kwaye namava - ngakumbi njalo. Qiniseka ukuba ukufumana omnye umfana ongamenzanga siziphendule malunga kutheni mfo kufuneka ubhale ekuqaleni, kodwa yenze.
Kutheni lo mfo uthi, ukuba sele kudala wayewazi?
Ukuba abahlobo ixesha elide kunye guy, nonke nina waya encotsheni ukuthandana ngesiquphe evele wayeka ngokubhala Ebizele, kubalulekile ingqalelo. Oku kuyothusa intsimbi malunga utshintsho elizayo ebomini bakho. Kutheni guys musa ukubhala kuqala? Nazi ezinye zezizathu:
- wadibana nenye intombazana, yaye Kwakukuhle kuye;
- kwenzeka kuye into embi;
- yena kuwe into kabi kunene.
Ingongoma lokugqibela inokuba nokuba touch phezulu kancinane. Akunamsebenzi buhlungu, kunye nomsindo okanye ungonwabi. Uyavumelana nala ingqondo akufane into abafana kuya kwenza ukuba kubiza. Ngokwesiqhelo, le ntombazana kule ngongoma iqalisa ukuba ukrokrela nesithandwa sakhe ukungathembeki, nokungabi nalo uthando, okwenza kukhule ngakumbi le meko.
Bhala okanye akunjalo?
Ukuba ke ndibhalile guy yokuqala? Ukuba ucinga ukuba ityala kwaye kufuneka uxolo - qiniseka ukuba ukubhala ubize. Ngoko ke, ukuba ugcine kuphela ubudlelwane bakho, kodwa unike ukuqonda guy ukuba yena xa ebona kuwe, uze uzive naye uyamthanda. Musa zibuze umbuzo wokuba kutheni guys hayi yokuqala ethi. Yenza wena inyathelo lokuqala. Kholwani ndim, ukuba ulinde uxolo lwakho kwaye ndikuthandile kangangoko unayo. Ukuba ngaba ufuna ukubiza, bhala umyalezo kwinethiwekhi yoluntu okanye SMS. Ngoko unokuqiniseka ukuba ukuyifunda. Emva koko, ukuba akukho reaction, uthabathe inyathelo kwakhona ngcono na. Kufuneka bangayi kuba mfo kunye imibuzo apho yena nento ayenzayo lonke eli xesha. It kuyasibhebhetha. Kubhetele ukuba uzame ukuba ingxabano emva ulwalamano lwakho uye womelela nangakumbi nemfesane. Ke ngoko, ngokungathi indlela, ufumanise ukuba lo mfana lonke ixesha.
izizathu nje embalwa "cwaka" guys
Maxa wambi abanye abafana ingakumbi xa uthandana abasetyhini ngabom musa ukubhala nto njengendlela ulivavanye. Ukuba intombazana iqalisa njengomthwalo kakhulu ukuba ukubiza okanye ukubhala, nje engamthandi ukudibana nalo ke nje ngeke.
Abanye abantu abatsha nje abathandi ukuba nobani, bakhetha intlanganiso lokwenene. Nantsi ke impendulo umbuzo malunga kutheni guys musa ubhale kuqala. Ukuba ngandlel 'kunento ongayithandiyo nto, kuya kufuneka ukuba ulwe nale inkohliso yabo ngobufazi nomtsalane ngayo amanye amaqhinga. Ungandichazela ukuba umvelelayo, bakhathazekile kwaye ungaphosani ukuthi isigidimi sakhe kuwe sisiganeko ebaluleke kakhulu imini. Ukuba ke ndibhalile guy yokuqala? Worth ngayo!
Tips amantombazana
Akukho mthetho ukuba lo mfo ukuba abhale kwakho izivakalisi monosyllabic, nje xa kunokwenzeka. Nantso indlela logic yomntu, kulula kakhulu ukuba ukubhala "Zonke ok" kunokuba ukupeyinta, njengazo zonke ezilungileyo. Le nto ke abafana ezahlukileyo amantombazana. Musa Ungakhathazeki, nceda qhagamshelana kuqala xa uthandana nomntu othile. Abantu abaninzi abaselula uye ucinge ukuba imbalelwano - yinkcitha xesha, kwaye kungcono ukuba kuyichitha nenye intombazana ebomini, kunokuba ukunxibelelana phantse.
Nazi izizathu eziphambili kutheni guys hayi yokuqala ethi. luck Good kuwe ubudlelwane!
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