Indlela ukusabela ubukrwada ubukrwada kunye nokuba kuyingenelo ukwenza yonke

Yeha, indoda onyanzelwayo ukujongana sengqondo boorish yonke. Akukho namnye unako ukunika inkcazo ngqo le yokuziphatha, kodwa kulula kuwabhuqa yonke isimo.

Yintoni krwada? Okokuqala, ukuba krwada, nifunge mazwi, ndizifungile amagama, sijoliswe idilesi yomntu othile. Ungafumana naphi ezimbi: emsebenzini, izithuthi zikawonke-wonke, eqweba nkqu nasekhaya. Noko ke, umntu krwada babe nolwazi ngohlobo eziveza aluhlaza.

Kakade ke, isizathu sokuba le nto siyifumana awohluke zemfundo kunye nokungabikho inkcubeko. Noko ke, ukuba ufuna ukuphendula ukuba krwada? Indlela ukusabela ubukrwada ubukrwada yaye wena kudingeka nje ukuba? Ngaba zikho ezinye iindlela, oluphucukileyo ngakumbi "ngokokuziphatha 'ukohlwaya umntu uyagula-emihle abaye bavunyelwe ukuba ukuvakalisa ulwimi kwicala umntu?

Kakade ke, lo mkhwa ukuphendula krwada ukuba krwada iqala ebuntwaneni, kunye ebaluleke kakhulu apha okusingqongileyo apho abantu abafundile. Ukuba usapho udla nolungenachaphaza enyundululu kunye neengxabano, ekhatshwa izithuko rhoqo kunye gadalala, umntwana sele ayesazi impendulo yombuzo indlela ukuphendula krwada ubukrwada. Kwixesha elizayo, indlela efanayo ukuziphatha silubona zendalo kuye.

Iingcali zithi umntu ukuthumela ngaphandle ulwimi ukutshabhisa, akafuni ukuba lirhoxe "uxolo lwengqondo 'umntu ngokukodwa. Ngale ndlela yena uzama yokuzilungiselela ngokwayo, kungenxa ebona nyaniso, apho abantu abatsha - kaninzi krwada, zonke blondes usisidenge ngendalo, yaye onke amadoda - uyalahlekelwa.

Makhe sihlolisise ngokweenkcukacha umbuzo yendlela ukuphendula krwada ubukrwada. Ingaba kulungile ukuba uyenze? Iingcali zikholelwa ukuba akukho. Ukukopisha ithoni snapper, siya oko kufana naye, kwaye eneneni ayahlukanga kuyo.

Phendula luhlaza ukuba krwada - i ngenkuthalo indlela eninzi kunye mthethweni. Ekwakheni indlela enjalo amaqhinga zalo yokuziphatha, abantu baya kwenza kanye ekunyukeni kwembambano, leyo kuguqulwa "fisticuffs" kunye neziphumo ezibi kakhulu. Kwaye ukuba umoni kukho imela okanye, nangakumbi, umpu ebuhlungu? Ukukopa imodeli yokuziphatha snapper, asiyi kuphelisa lo mhlola ezimbi, kodwa kunokuba phinda inani labo. Kuloo meko, umbuzo indlela ukuphendula ubukrwada ubukrwada, icebisa impendulo ecacileyo. "Yenkukuma"

Kudla kukho imeko xa ngamazwi niyangcikivwa ngokwaneleyo abantu ezaneleyo , yaye wakwenza oko, kunoko, ukususela lidiniwe okanye nengxabano luvo. Ukuba ngaba abasabela ngayo "nesinyeliso", ngoko ekuhambeni kwexesha uya kuba neentloni yamazwi akhe. It is hhayi ngaphandle ukuba iya kuzisa i uxolo. Noko ke, ukuba sizama ukuphendula kwi uhlobo, ngaloo ndlela ngakumbi egalela "ioli phezu komlilo," emva kokuba ungquzulwano uza kuzinziswa, uya kuziva ekunene, oko kulungile.

Abanye abanomdla umbuzo yendlela ukufunda ukuphendula krwada abantu abanayo nemali, udumo kunye nobume ophezulu ekuhlaleni. Isibakala sokuba ubume "iinkwenkwezi" ayithethi nabani ukuthuka. Ukuba omnye wabo wayengawafuni, kungcono ukutsiba amagama ukuthuka 'iindlebe abangevayo "okanye into Sukuhleka. Ezihlekisayo kule meko - iqabane lokuqala.

Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, ukuba ngomlomo niyangcikivwa, aphume engqondweni yam ingcinga ngendlela erhabaxa impendulo krwada. Zama nje ukubonisa uvelwano nobubundlavini shwa.