Indlela izilumle usana ukuba ubisi lwebele?

Ibele inesiphelo kungekudala, kwaye ke nanku umbuzo: "Indlela izilumle usana ukuba uncancisa?" Kodwa ukuba umntwana wakho uyala uyilumle ukusuka ubonelelo ubisi lwebele? Oomama abaninzi benze ngxaki, kodwa ke ezimbalwa iingcebiso ezilula kunokunceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo, nto leyo inxulunyaniswa ebeleni kunye nonina kunye nomntwana.

Zilunyulwe libele-lwebele koomama nabantwana abaninzi babo badlule ngokwendalo. Umntwana uqala ukubonisa umdla ukutya, nto leyo ethatyathwa abanye abantu, kwaye uqala ukudla ukutya okunesondlo ngakumbi kuye. Kwaye ke ukudla okunesondlo ngakumbi umntwana liyadla, incinci imfuneko yayo ubisi lwebele. Noko ke, abanye abantwana nje ukwala izixholoxholo libele sikanina ngaphandle kwemvume, kwaye ke ixesha elininzi oomama udiniwe, wakhathazeka, ukuba wayecinga umbuzo omnye: izilumle njani umntwana fuba ukutya. Ukuba udiniwe iingxaki ezinxulumene ekupheleni lokuncancisa, ngoko la macebiso baya kukunceda kakhulu ukuba usebenza kulo mba onovakalelo.

Ngoko ke, njengokuba olunyulweyo ngokufanelekileyo ebeleni?

Asinako ukuvumela kumiwe ngokukhawuleza ukondla ngobisi lwebele. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umntwana ocaphukileyo kakhulu ukuba unina yenza kube ukuze kuchaphazela ngakumbi ingqondo yakhe ndobuyela ezikwenza unxunguphalo. Zama ukunciphisa inani ukuncancisa ngexesha lasemini, unako kwakhona uzame ukubuyisela Ibhotile ukuncancisa okanye indebe ubisi lwebele kubonakaliswa. Le ukunciphisa ixesha elichithwa webele-ukutya, ishenxisa ukungakhululeki umntwana, ingakumbi xa ninikela kuye ubisi lwebele (hayi ukunika ibele). Ngokuhamba kwexesha ubisi lwebele na indawo ifomula usana okhethekileyo.

Xa isigqibo izilumle umntwana libele-kokudla, kufuneka kususa "ingqumbo" kunye kwicala yam ndisemabeleni kama. Oko kukuthi, xa kwiimvuthuluka akukho mfuneko ukunxiba okanye kuvela kwimpahla zabo. Ngelo xesha, kufuneka kululahla Jumpers, ihamba, beneengubo okanye izikipa, wakhetha T-shirt - to yayo 'ubuncwane "Ngoku itakane uzakufumana nzima. Kwakhona, kungcono ukuba ahlale khona incinane - ngaphezu unina, ukuba kunzima kakhulu ukufumana kuyo yaye baphazanyiswa lula nantoni na eyenye.

Ukuba mixture wavakalisa umnqweno ncanca, kuyimfuneko ukuba ngathi abazange qaphela okanye abazange baqonde. Ukuba itakane kwelokuthi - zama ukutshintshela ingqalelo into ebangel 'umdla. Umzekelo, ulahle yonke into aze abaleke kunye ukuze ubone ukuba uTata wafika ekhaya - Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba bajonge kwi "iliso" ngokwayo, Unga ukuvula ucango ukutshekisha. Emva koko abaleke aye kwigumbi langasese ukumamela iqakamba. Okulandelayo - ukubona ihobe elimhlophe emva window kwelo gumbi, emva - kulila ngomsila elide kakhulu kwi window lokuphekela ... Imvakalelo yomelele umntwana umdla - kwaye isiphumo ingcono. Musa ukoyika ukuya kude kakhulu ngale nto; ngokuba iiswitshi ngakumbi ezinjalo, kungenza kube lula kakhulu ukuba ezinokuphazamisa eziwa akhe athi phithi, kuphela ukwenza yonke into kufuneka ngokunyanisekileyo, kuba abantwana nangoko awubone falseness. Kubalulekile: awukwazi ukuthetha kwi itakane, "Andinako ukukunika," Uyazi, nothando, umama ibalulekileyo ehlabathini!

abantwana abaninzi kukhala, ukuvuka ebusuku. UMama azame ukubazolisa usana waza wambeka kulala. Ngelishwa inkqubo kwiimvuthuluka zingaquka umthomalalisi kunye zisanyisa. Bekuya kuba ngcono ukuba uTata okanye Makhulu ukuthatha unonophelo ukusizolisa umntwana. Ekugqibeleni, le ngxaki iya kusonjululwa njani izilumle usana ukuba uncancisa ebusuku.

Baby ukhule, ngubani na kakade ukuthetha baqiqe umbuzo wakho, uyakwazi ukubeka imiqathango ixesha kunye nendawo nokuncancisa. Xelela umntwana wakho, "Mna ngoku baya kunondla lwebele nje phambi kokuba ulale" okanye "lwebele mna ndiza kuwe kuphela xa sele kumnyama ngaphandle." Xa sele ukulungele ukuba uyeke ukuluncancisa ngokupheleleyo, yithi nje, "Ngoku wena enkulu kunye enkulu musa ukondla oomama ubisi lwebele."

Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba abantwana uxinezeleko ngokweemvakalelo ebangelwe ekupheleni lokuncancisa, inokuba namandla kakhulu. Ngenxa yoko, ukungabikho ibele kufuneka kufakwe ngokundanga nkqi, imfudumalo, caresses rhoqo ngakumbi. Amaxesha amaninzi bachithe ixesha kunye nomntwana, ukuhamba, ukuzoba imifanekiso, ukuzoba, ubukele iikhathuni, funda iincwadi, indawo imisi axhomekeke komnye ngokweemvakalelo ukusuka nezinye iimvakalelo HIV igunya-lusidla.

Xa isigqibo izilumle indlela usana evela lokuncancisa, khumbula ukuba ebeleni kufuneka ungqamane ukufuduka, ikhefu, ufikelelo umsebenzi kamama okanye itakane enkulisa, nesiqalo nokufika nanny. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kufuneka bohlukanise kwiimvuthuluka ezimbalwa kwiinyanga ngaphambi okanye emva kokuba isibini kweenyanga emva kweso siganeko. Ukuba umntu kusapho wagula (ingakumbi itakane ngokwakhe), kufuneka ukuba ulinde ubuncinane kwinyanga enye ukususela kumhla achache. Kukholelwa ukuba kubhetele ukuba ahambe, kuba ngexesha lonyaka efudumeleyo ukutshintsha ukudla, ukunyusa ubungakanani imifuno kunye neziqhamo kulo inegalelo yokonyuka izifo kunye neengxaki zesisu. Enye into ebalulekileyo, ekufuneka sinikele ingqalelo - karhulumente ngokweemvakalelo nangokwasengqondweni bomntwana. Ukuba ngoku ukuba ixesha enzima, umntwana badla andwebileyo okanye neenkani (kwaye ayikho ngaphandle nesizathu), koko amsongele kufuneka elinye ixesha.

Akwaba wena bakho nemiqhathane-free, enoxolo elingenabuhlungu ebeleni!