I elivisayo - yinto inkqubo ekhethekile lwamaxabiso

I elivisayo - akukho nto igama nje elivisayo iminyaka 13-19, ukuba inkcubeko yonke kunye nenkqubo amaxabiso ebomini, ezingenakwahlulwa udibaniso neengxaki ezithile, kunye ukucalulwa zentlalo. Le elivisayo elithi zaya kuthi evela ulwimi IsiNgesi. Imvelaphi ilizwi lu dityanisiwe isimamva «elivisayo» amanani kwi lokuphumla ukususela nge-13 ukuya kwi-19, umzekelo ezilishumi elinesithathu, ishumi elinesine, njalo njalo. D. Iingcali zezigulo zengqondo bakholelwa eli xesha ebomini bomntu zibaluleke kakhulu kwaye zintsonkothile. Njengomgaqo, ulutsha intsha isengozini kakhulu ukucalulwa zentlalo ezahlukeneyo.

Izihlandlo baye babone i "babi syndrome ngengqondo". Ngaloo ndlela intsha, ngokuzithelekisa ngezigodo zabo, inkangeleko yabo azikho semgangathweni, iinjongo ezingonelanga okuqhelekileyo nkqu ndimbi. iingcinga enjalo aphela rhoqo ndiyabazisa ukubandezeleka, yonke imihla ukwandisa ukukholwa sokuba phansi kwakhe. Abantwana basemngciphekweni kakhulu, ingakumbi xa kufikwa inkangeleko yazo. nhla Sidelong, uthi, wavele yaphela incoko ... Lo mfana ithatha konke oko ngentliziyo, nangona, kwaye uzama ukuba ukubonisa iimvakalelo zabo. Kodwa oku (kephofu!) Ulutsha bayakuthanda ukuhlala kwaye isithombe. Photo teen-amantombazana ezi ndaba nengxubusho ebangel 'umdla ngenxa noontanga babo.

Elivisayo - ngumntu ozama ezintsha ufuna zintshula ebomini, lwakha ulwalamano kunye nomntu wesini esahlukileyo, abazali kunye nabahlobo babo. Umnqweno for self-determination elivisayo kukukhokelela ukuba iintsingiselo ezahlukeneyo subcultural. Uthabatha phezu amaxabiso, kubalulekile nofakelo, idla lubalasele ngembonakalo ngenxa iinwele engaqhelekanga, impahla nendlela Nobuninzi izithambiso (for girls).

Ikhosi elivisayo ezingenakwahlulwa ne fashion. Ngokucacileyo amaqela ahlukeneyo ulutsha umahluko phakathi kwabo ngeendleko isinxibo: ibhulukwe loose kunye nabameli enomoya ngeengubo yenkcubeko hip-hop, wundu neelokhwe abamnyama kunye neebhutsi enzima lamabutho kunye lacing kwi adepts eliphezulu kwesimbo Gothic ... Xa abadala ukuze izambatho kwesigele ebangela ukudideka nokugxekwa. Abazali uze ashumayele umntwana wabo olukhulayo, kucetyiswa ukuba "bayeke ukunxiba ngathi upopayi" yaye "sokucoca isenzo sabo." inzala eyi 14-15 ngamandla ukuphendula ukuze bona ukugxekwa kwaye abazali 'ukuba ifake ebomini babo. "

Njengomgaqo, elivisayo kunqabile ukwabelana abadala iingxaki, ngokuchasene nabo. Bakhetha ukuba bachithe ixesha labo simahla nokuba Elucweyweni ngohlobo lwazo, nokuba yedwa egumbini lakhe.

On omdala ngakumbi - umfundi - isigaba abantwana ngaphantsi Ukuziva udakumbile kunye wazifihla. Bona evulekile yaye ba- nxanelwe ulwazi. Xa ndandineminyaka engama-17-19 eninzi izinto ezintsha yaye ukuthandana. Eli xesha bobuchule kunye imifuniselo nobuganga obukwanjalo.

I elivisayo - ukuba isimo sengqondo, kwaye ibanga lobudala lunemiqathango kakhulu. Ziphatheni kwaye inga 11 no-20 iminyaka. Phezu kwayo yonke, kwinqanaba olukhulu ebomini babantu, ukuba kufike uthando lokuqala, abahlobo abatsha ukuba iya kuthabatha iminyaka emininzi, uMenzi siseko ebalulekileyo kunye neminqweno yabantu abatsha. Akukho mfuneko ukuphepha zonke iingxaki, ngenxa yokuba isisombululo lwabo - njengenyathelo elibalulekileyo kwi indlela ebudaleni kwaye abe ngumntu. Kufuneka kudlule le ndlela wonke umntu. Abazali benza impazamo sone anciphise ebomini bomntwana kweli nqanaba yophuhliso lwayo. Ukuba bafuna ukugcina ulwalamano oluhle kunye naye, ngoko konke okusemandleni - ngayo ukuba ube ngumhlobo kunye umcebisi, kodwa hayi intloko okanye umphathi.