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Breath-ebambe kupela ebantwaneni: iindlela zokuthintela kunye nonyango
Phantse isinye kwisithathu bonke abantwana basempilweni ngokugqibeleleyo, ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka emdaka umoya-ubambe okanye ukuphefumla okucudisayo, okutyekisayo,% malunga 5 kuphela abantwana ubunzima kwesi sifo rhoqo. Said syndrome kudla ngokwenzeka abantwana ngokulula yimincili.
Abazali inesifo umoya-zime kupela umntwana, kufuneka sazi ukuba akoyiki kwaye musa ukuphaphazela, kudla ngokuba bonke abantwana kweminyaka 3-4 ukunqanda kuhlaselo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uye ukuba kokubonisana luvo abo bazimisele ukuba umntwana wakho. Ukuba ngoyaba ikhwelo ugqirha, awukwazi ukubona wena sokuwa ebantwaneni.
Phambi kokubiza uvavanyo-ugqirha, kufuneka uhlaziye isimo sawo, oko kukuthi ukuqaphela ixesha kunye rhoqo apho emdaka umoya-wayephethe umntwana baziphatha ngexesha uhlaselo (yena aphazamiseka isininzi bizkit okanye usekela), nto leyo ke ibala. Konke oku kuya kufuneka ukuchaza ngokweenkcukacha ngethuba bekutyelelo kwagqirha.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ukuba umoya-zime kupela, musa nje amnike ezahlukeneyo nadlamkisayo - impatho kakhulu ngempumelelo ngakumbi nokuthintelwa sifo ngaphandle amayeza.
Eyona unobangela ukulibaziseka zemiphunga ebantwaneni - ukuhlaselwa wayevele elinokuba yi ngenxa yentlungu, uvuyo noloyiko, yaye ngenxa yokudimazeka nokudinwa.
Abazali abaninzi benza impazamo izama udandatheko umntwana wakho yonke kangangokuba akazange luvo, yaye akazange abonakalise ngokwenene-nokuphefumla syndrome. Ukusetyenziswa kwale ndlela iza kwenza umntwana wakho evela egoist ukuba akukho nto uyazi ukungaphumeleli, ngoko isicelo yalo azamkeleki.
Kuyimfuneko ukuba utho- izizathu zokuba umntwana wakho oselula nazo ezi ukuhlaselwa, abanye abantwana baye ngamaxesha disorder. Kakade ke, kunzima ukuqonda unobangela umntwana oneminyaka-fane ubudala abangakwaziyo kodwa kuthi ukuba wayekhathazwe yintoni na oko akufunayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana fane bona into ekukhathazayo okanye udinwe, kwakunye nokungabikho ingqalelo sikanina. Amaxesha amaninzi abantwana abawonwabeleyo umntwana zivela ngokwanda, oko kukuthi, xa uthe wenza omnye, uya kuphulukana ukulinda ukuba kude elinye elilandelayo.
Kufuneka ukwakha ikhaya umoya ofudumeleyo nangokuzola, uze uzame ukuba bandiqumbise iimeko ezibangela indlela umntwana wayevele. Thobela imithetho ethile - ingakumbi oku kusebenza abadala - njengoko kwenzekileyo, kwaye umzekelo ukuyilandela. Loo ukungaqiniseki kubangela fane, nje encinane umntwana nzima ukuqonda isizathu sokuba lavunyelwa izolo, namhlanje, ngokupheleleyo ayikwazi ukukwenza.
Abanye oogqirha njengendlela zokurhoxa lomntwana ekuhlaseleni zicetyiswa ukuba indalo elifutshane elide iintlungu, kodwa hayi bonke abazali bayakwazi ukwenza oko ngokunxulumene nomntwana wakhe ayithandayo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ngokufuthi kuyanceda ukuba avuthele nje umntu okanye, kwiimeko ezigabadeleyo, uyakwazi atshize ebusweni ngamanzi.
Xa umntwana wakho egqajukelwa ukuphefumla-zime kupela, ngelo xesha ke iba esingaphathekiyo, kufuneka uzame ukudala iimeko ndimse kule meko. Abazali kufuneka kusoloko zihlolwe izinto ezininzi ukuba umntwana ngaphandle imo ukuhlasela.
Abantwana abazalwa wayevele imbonakalo uxhuzula umntwana ikakhulu ngenxa akhuliswe ngokungafanelekanga lwabazali bomntwana. Kuyinto abo benza iimpazamo kwinyanga yokuqala yobomi, bezifica yonke ayilawulwa umntwana, leyo kunokubangela kwi kukwenze impefumlo-ubambe.
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