Yomsebenzi Male zahluke ixhala kunye nempilo enkenenkene?

Yiba obebonelela nembeko usapho, akunjalo na? Ukuba urhola imali engakumbi, nto leyo enika ngokuzenzekelayo amandla amakhulu. Mhlawumbi nawe uthathe izigqibo ngaphezulu kwaye ngaphantsi wasekhaya. Yintoni enye cela?

Imali engakumbi, inowuthi ukuzithemba?

Kodwa ke, ngokutsho isifundo esitsha lwezenhlalo, kukho indlela uphawulekayo: xa umntu obebonelela usapho, oku kunefuthe elibi ngempilo yengqondo. Kwacaca ukuba abo abamkela ngakumbi, babe phantsi ukuzithemba kunye namanqanaba aphezulu ixhala. Sigqiba ukuba yomsebenzi eyele udidi lomngcipheko ngeendlela ezininzi. Ngaphandle yokuba sengozini phantsi impilo yabo, baqalise behlupheka kukungabi yentlalo-ntle engqondweni. Kutheni le nto isenzeka?

Uxhalabele isidima usapho

Nantsi ke into ababhali bathi isifundo, "Xa wena yibona kuphela ubume usapho lwakho uxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kumvuzo wakho. Nokuba umfazi isebenza kakhulu; ke yena umvuzo omncinci, luxanduva olusemagxeni emagxeni akho. Uqale Ungakhathazeki malunga noko intsapho uya badinga, yaye bakulungele ukuthatha nayiphi na ixesha. " Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba kumakhaya apho abangazukondliwa ngabafazi, watyhila umfanekiso iphambene esahlukileyo. Kuba kwisiqingatha efanelekileyo yoluntu inqanaba eliphezulu ingeniso ngamazinga kunye neemvakalelo well-being eliphezulu.

Kutheni amabhinqa abasebenza nzima uzive ngcono?

Ukuze abantu babe noxanduva ntle yemali usapho ayikho Kuliqhayiya, kodwa kunokuba abaqhelekileyo. Akukho bani uya bamdumise ngezinto wamkela imali eninzi. Akukho mntu ndincome impumelelo yakhe. Kodwa ngaba Kuhle ukuba kutshabalale libe linye kumvuzo njengoko iintolo kwangoko kakhulu ukubaleka. Kwimeko abazisa ababhinqileyo, izinto ezahlukeneyo. Ukususela sex wamhle bekungekho ekuqaleni balindele nantoni angaphezu kwendalo. Kodwa ke umfazi ezixabisa senyuka leri umsebenzi lo, le ezingeenxa ndincome impumelelo yayo. Wodunyiswa uluntu uphefumlela, kwaye wathabatha umfazi ukuba ukusebenza ngamandla redoubled. Kwaye ukuba uya kuphulukana ingeniso yabo, akukho namnye uya ihlazo lakhe yona.

A look entsha indima yesini zemveli

Esi sifundo, kunye nabafundi isidanga uKristin Myunsh Metyu Rodzhersom kunye Jessica Yorks, wayeza ukuba asikhanyisele indima yesini zemveli kwintlalo yaseNtshona. Nantsi into siye safumanisa ukuba izazi. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, umahluko nangoku umsantsa pay, nabafazi bamkela 79 kuphela pesenti ngamnye imali abantu imali. Nangona kunjalo, le ndlela ifanelekileyo kobudlelwane zenkulungwane yamashumi amabini ngasekupheleni inene ukulahlekelwa emhlabeni. Ngoku, iintsapho ezimbalwa apho umntu yibona ephambili, esebenza ukususela kusasa de kube sebusuku, lo gama umfazi wakhe uhlala ekhaya kunye nabantwana kunye umondli idibana umbundu isidlo emnandi. Ngoko ke, ngo-1967, phantse 50 ekhulwini abafazi abatshatileyo baba ekhaya. Okwangoku, inani lwamabhinqa non-zokusebenza wawa ku-20 ekhulwini. Kukho enye into ebangel 'umdla: 38 ekhulwini amabhinqa mihla American bamkela ngaphezu amaqabane abo.

Le data afunyenwe ngenxa yokuba uphando elimele

Kuba befunda, uGqr Munch wasebenzisa uphando ummeli, apho ngaphezulu kwe-3 lamawaka laba ekhethiweyo. Abathathi-nxaxheba ngokuzimeleyo ukuhlola imeko yempilo yabo, yengqondo nentlalo-ntle, kwakunye ingeniso xa kuthelekiswa ingeniso kweqabane. Abaphandi kwakhokelela wokulawula abaphenduli 'ubudala, imfundo, ingeniso ebanzi, kwakunye phambi kwabantwana.

Uluvo bophando yombhali

Ngokubanzi, amadoda Ndakukhankanya imivuzo ephezulu kunye neeyure zokusebenza ngakumbi ngeveki. Noko ke, kukho amadoda axeliweyo ukunganeliseki ethile kunye impilo-ntle yazo yengqondo neyomzimba. Umbhali uphononongo kuchaza le mikhwa: "Isonka Winner ufuna ukwamkela ngakumbi nangakumbi, nokubonelela iimeko eziyimfuneko ukuze intsapho, umzekelo, ndlu ilizwe okanye indlu isikwere ngaphezulu bevidiyo. Kodwa xa umntu iqalisa ukufumana okuninzi, kunzima kakhulu ukuba xha sibuye umva, ukuze angavumi ukuba asebenze ixesha elongezelelekileyo ze uchithe ixesha elingakumbi nentsapho yakhe. Nokuba uthe wanxanwa, engqondweni yakhe ngokuqinileyo lahlala phezu uxanduva. Le meko ingakhokelela oko iisayikholojisti ukubiza "syndrome yindawo yegolide." Xa imali eninzi imali, kunzima kakhulu ukuba batshintshele nokusebenza izinto ezonwabisayo ngakumbi ukuba musa kukuzisela umvuzo. "