Yintoni ukuqeqesha?

Imiba Fashion ekubeni kuqatshelwe samakhono abantu kuye endleleni efanelekileyo, kwaye ukhethe indawo okulungileyo ebomini namhlanje iye yaba yinto enje njenge "ukuqeqesha." Le transience kweenkqubo obomi, ukunxanelwa utshintsho ndithanda, namnqweno ukubeka up ngamandla akhe ebomini ukuya ezibaxekileyo afune. Yintoni ukuqeqesha?

Ukuqeqesha ayikho unyango kwaye mazingabhidaniswa noviwo la magama. Le ndlela ingcebiso noqeqesho, engaquki ukunika iingcebiso nzima, kwaye ujonge iindlela ngokudibeneyo ukuphumeza iinjongo yokugqibela kunye nokusombulula ingxaki. Umqeqeshi ayikho therapist akayi azame ukwenza ngokukhawuleza "utsalo" amanxeba iimvakalelo zakho, uthobe wena uthi, mandenze ntoni. Ngokuyintloko iqabane kunye ubuchule, ukholo ngomntu, yaye ugxekwa ubuntu yayo kwakhiwa.

Ngubani ekufuneka ukuqeqesha? Ukuqeqesha ufuna abaphathi, iitheraphisti, iisayikholojisti, abacebisi. Bonke abo kubani into ndlela lichaphazela ingcinga. Coaching Education - oko ezingaqondakaliyo kakhulu yaye akufunekanga lufundiswe ezincwadini okanye iimanyuwali electronic kwabasaqalayo. amava Ukufundisa kudluliselwa ukusuka komnye umntu ukuya komnye. Isaci iphambili oku kuya kuba: "Yenza njengoko" ngokwahlukileyo ukuba uthethwano njengesiqhelo, sonke, "wenze njengam."

Amava nezizukulwanza zangaphambili, kunye ngemizekelo okrakra kunye neziphoso ngokuqinisekileyo okulungileyo, kodwa umsebenzi ophambili lokuqhelisa yobomi - ukunyanzela umntu ukufumana isisombululo ekunene, ukufumana indlela yokuphuma. Oku kujoliswe ekufikeleleni kokungqinelana lo msebenzi, oko kukuthi, kukhokelela ekuncipheni kwe iimpazamo uniko ngalinye. Yiloo nto uqeqesho lwabaqeqeshi kusoloko wehlela kule modeli sakhiwo joint:

• ukufunda nokubhala ukuzibekela usukelo ecacileyo umfundi;
• ukufumana umfuziselo ngempumelelo yokuziphatha kunye nocazululo olunzulu kwezi modeli kunye nokuphuculwa algorithm yezenzo umqeqeshwa kunye algorithm ezikhoyo ukuphumeza le njongo.

Kutheni kufuneka befakwe ekhwapheni? Phezu kwako nje ukuthandwa olukhulayo le meko, kuyimfuneko ukuhlola ubuchule babo yaye ndiyaqonda ukuba oku kunjalo ethile kwaye kunikwa bonke, ngenxa yesimo kunye namava obungcali angaphambili. Yiba umqeqeshi ngamanye amaxesha kunzima nkqu ukuba umphathi ukuvelela egoistic (hayi mazingabhidaniswa self-edalwayo), okt umkhwa yokuthatha ngokwakhe "top" isikhundla kunye algorithms zayo ezintsonkothileyo kunye namacebo. Kodwa ayikho into ekufuneka thina, ngokuba ekwakheni eyiyo lokuqhelisa kufuneka kuqwalaselwe ngamnye kunokuba ngaphezu kwesiqhelo.

Umqeqeshi esisiseko ehlabathini uyakwazi ukubuza imibuzo ekunene kwaye basebenze nabo iimpendulo ukuba sifumana ngomnyango. Ukuba ukunyanzelisa izimvo zabo ingcinga malunga nendlela enze kuyo nayiphi na imeko, yaye ukunceda umntu ukuze aphile ubomi likhuthaze kuye, hayi wena.

Xa nomqeqeshi ubomi benene - ezikhandelwa ubuntu, kunye nesikhundla sakhe ebomini, nto leyo nako ukusombulula le mibuzo yobomi bafumana intsingiselo yobomi kwaye ngoku likulungele ukuba ukwabelana ngamava obomi bakho nabanye, ukuze uncumo nguMthengi iingxaki zabo, ukuba bakholelwa akabalulekanga wabo, ke, ukuba angenza kakhulu ngakumbi, yaye ngenxa yoko ke amathuba ukukhanya ukuzoyisa.

Coach - wayengenamdla kuphela ukuba anikelwe amanqindi zonke ezo mpawu oluntu kubalulekile ukuba umfundi akwazi ukuva ukuzithemba kwaye ubone ngawakhe ukukhanya ekupheleni kwetonela, kodwa ngaphezu koko umntu, ngoko ngaphambi kokuqalisa imisebenzi zobundlobongela ukuphucula ihlabathi oku, kunye nemfuneko ukusebenza ngokwabo, benze ezabo, ukuze ndithethe, psychoanalysis. Ngoko ke khumbula ukuba unoxanduva abantu baya kuziva emva kwincoko (iseshoni) kunye nawe kwaye hayi ukuba abulawe, ubuncinane, homilies zakhe.