Yintoni eyenza umntu simahla? Yintoni imfihlelo?

Yintoni eyenza umntu simahla? Ngamnye kuthi ubuncinane kanye ndazibuza lo mbuzo. Kukho iinkcazo ezininzi "inkululeko" kombono, kwakunye inani elikhulu lamanqaku iimbono elithetha ngubani yena - indoda free, yintoni na imiqathango yale meko. Makhe uzame ukuqonda.
Inoku ezamahala ingqalelo ukususela izimvo ezahlukeneyo. A ibanjwa entolongweni ayikho ezamahala, kuba akakwazi ukushiya nokuzabalaza iseli yakhe, kodwa intatheli, cwaka kwakwelo lizwe, naye wakhalaza zokuhlukunyezwa. Uye kususwa inkululeko yokuthetha. Nantsi ngutitshala kwisikolo yasemaphandleni. Yena ndicinezelekile iingxaki zemali, kunyanzeleke ukuba bacinge malunga ukondla ngayo yena nosapho lwakhe. Yintoni inkululeko sithetha ngayo? Noko ke, usomashishini ophumelelayo a bathinjwa iimeko - urhulumente akamvumela ukuba ukuphuhlisa ishishini lakhe, ubeka wathetha kwevili.

Imizekelo enjalo kusekho okuninzi. Zonke ezi zinto zibangela yangaphandle ebukhobokeni bethu. Nantso indlela uluntu kunye nehlabathi ngokubanzi. Yenziwe ukuze kuzuze abantu, ngokuthe ngcembe amtsale ibe likhoboka. Iindibano kunye nemithetho kubeka uxinzelelo abantu bevela macala onke, ngokufuthi ukungena nje kuphela ngokubonakala engaphandle ebomini bethu, kodwa ihlabathi engaphakathi zomntu ngamnye ngaphandle ngokumnika ithuba ku tiva enye inkululeko yawo - leengcinga.

Kubonakala ukuba kube lula kuTata simahla? Cinga akukho mntu ndikukhanyele. Nokuba ingqondo yakho ivelisa unreliability lwendawo karhulumente lwembono, uluntu okanye usapho iimbono, akukho namnye uya kumazi ngayo (ngaphandle kokuba, kakade, nina nonke ungaxeli kuzo). Kodwa yintoni na ingxaki, kutheni kubalulekile kangaka ukuba nenkululeko ingcamango?

"Inkululeko akunanto yakwenza ihlabathi ngaphandle inkululeko ngokwenene - bezopolitiko, hayi :. kwezoqoqosho Yena ungowomoya ayikho ezandleni zenu loo nto ayikho ezandleni zenu, mayingabi sakhululwa ngokuba inkululeko yokwenene ..."

Ngawo la amazwi Osho, yaye kunzima ukuba avumelane nazo. Yintoni eyenza umntu simahla? Ngaphandle imali, kunzima ukuhlala, balirhola inkululeko ethile, kodwa imali ngokulula shwaka. Eyabo, ungakwazi ushiye lizwe, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba kwelinye ilizwe zonke ziya kuba mpuluswa. Phumelela ilungelo lokuthetha ngokukhululekileyo ngokubona kwakho? Azuzwe, kodwa apha kukho iingozi. Yonke into eyenzekayo ngaphakathi kuthi, akunakwenzeka ukuba asuse, umonakalo, wolahlekelwa kuphela xa thina ngokwethu abafuni. Abantu free - yinto wasemfihlekweni ngamnye bakhululeke, ukuba ngokuvisisana nokucela nehlabathi.

Apha ukhethe eyona ndawo inika umdla kunye ezibalulekileyo ingxoxo yethu. Yintoni eyenza umntu simahla? Sabona ukuba izitshixo kurhulumente ezinqwenelekayo ngaphakathi kwethu. Kodwa yintoni bayeke ukuzisebenzisa?

Kukholelwa ukuba utshaba ephambili kwimpumelelo inkululeko oluntu iingcamango eyamkelwe kubo banikwa (idla kwinkqubo ndikhuliswe kunye nemfundo). Le kwiimeko yangaphandle, ukuguqula ngokoluvo lwakhe, kodwa eneneni ezinganxulumananga iyintoni kanye ayifunayo, navakalelwa ucinga. Hayi kubaluleke kangaka, ziziphi isithembiso ezi zimvo, entle okanye embi. Ukuba umntu aqonde ukuba yena kodwa kuphela ingcinga, umbono akanakuba simahla.

Ukunika up iinkolelo zabo musa ukuba, kufuneka nje ukuba awabone. Oku kukwasebenza ukuya koko kuntsonkothileyo zabantwana, thina enika ukuphuhlisa, kunye neenkolelo zonqulo ezithintela ukuba ayiqonde into ngokwenene, yaye izikimu zethu ngokunxulumene impilo. Ngenxa yokugqibela, sisoloko siqhubeka uceba ikamva, silibale ngayo injongo ngoku ukuba oko sifuna kwaye singakwazi, kwaye yokuba ngenxa yesizathu esithile sifune.
Yintoni eyenza umntu simahla? Simfumene impendulo. Ukuqonda ngokwayo ngaphandle izimvo, uyakuzifumana ngaphakathi umsebenzi. Kufuneka ukuba ube uyazi wena rhoqo, musani ukukha nenze zoomatshini, kuba apha ngoku. Kule inkululeko yokwenene.